Zhang Youyi, a rural bun, is China's first female banker

Zhang Youyi, a rural bun, is China's first female banker

Among the three major women who are related to Xu Zhimo, compared with Lin Huiyin and Lu Xiaoman, the original Zhang Youyi is perhaps the least talented and the lowest-looking. In that era, the simple and unpretentious Zhang Youyi was destined not to be remembered, and even if she was remembered, it was because of Xu Zhimo's reasons, but posterity still remembered her, not only Xu Zhimo's original wife, but also because she was the first female banker in China.

In a unique environment - the Republic of China era, just ended the feudal society Qing government, some people began to accept Western ideas, the pursuit of freedom and love, advocating personality beauty, Lin Huiyin can write poetry, understand architecture, high appearance, a talent, set beauty and talent in one, attracting the attention of many men. Lu Xiaoman can also write, but also paint, and can act in stage plays, the appearance is not low, but also many men like. In contrast, Zhang Youyi, who was only 15 years old, dropped out of school, which is a good age for pursuing knowledge and culture, and she dropped out of school for many reasons, one of which was because she wanted to get married, and she married Xu Zhimo on the orders of her brother. Zhang Youyi's brothers are very good, but also have economic acumen, good at seizing opportunities and accumulating capital, so that the Zhang family can also have the conditions to marry the Xu family, which can be described as a door-to-door pair. Zhang Youyi's brother did see Xu Zhimo's talent and thought that it was not wrong to entrust his sister to him.

Xu Zhang's combination was a tragedy from the beginning, and the two came together on the orders of their parents and brothers. Xu Zhimo listened more to his father's words, Zhang Youyi listened more to his brother's words, and the two very obedient young people were thus combined. When Xu saw Zhang, his first reaction was "rural buns", undisguised and unreserved, just like this from the poet's mouth, and the evaluation of Zhang actually affected her life.

If you don't love her, leave her. Xu did not love Zhang, from the beginning did not love, Xu was in love with Lin at the time, in order to clear the obstacles, he really wanted to leave Zhang, Zhang agreed, contributed to China's first divorce case. Maybe Zhang loves Xu, even if he loves him, there is no way, because Xu has already made up his mind. Then complete him, but unfortunately, Xu still did not get Lin.

After the divorce, Zhang was once discouraged and very depressed, fortunately there were still several brothers to help, perhaps the brother out of guilt, thought that he had found happiness for his sister, but it brought misfortune. The brother did not expect to look away, brought his sister to Germany, Zhang then taught himself German, followed his brother, angry and strong, poured his energy on the work, although the feelings are not supported, the work is crazy, her rigorous and realistic style, is very popular with the Germans.

Xu Zhang already had a son, and then when Xu Lin met and knew each other, Zhang was pregnant and had a big belly, Xu Yi wanted to divorce, persuaded Zhang to beat up the child, Zhang refused, saying that abortion is easy to die, Xu made fun of her, saying that it is easy to die by train, and everyone is not taking the train. Zhang was speechless for a moment. However, Zhang still insisted on being born, and it is a pity that the child was weak and sickly at a very young age and died early.

Xu's love and love for Lin Huiyin is undeniable, and the poems written to Lin are unmatched, and the height of Xu's poems is still no one dares to climb. Xu's later liking and love for Lu Xiaoman was also enviable, and Lu was also happy. It's just, it's just, it's just that Xu only failed Zhang. Xu to Zhang, not to talk about liking, let alone love, but disgust, disgust, and even disdain. Although Xu Zhangdu gave birth to children, and both of them were only on the orders of their parents.

Heaven is fair. Among the three women who love Xu, Zhang is the longest in life, and only she has Xu's flesh and bones, and her son is also filial and has served her until she is old. What else is there to complain about? Seeing Zhang Youyi's life experience, I can't help but think of Lu Xun's original match with Zhu An and the father of the country originally with Lu Muzhen (another article will write about them), these three unfortunate women, the encounters are so similar, first of all, they were abandoned by their husbands, and divorced, and then they did not leave the in-laws' house, did filial piety for their husbands, and continued to serve and support their in-laws! What an admirable three women! Finally, they all have the flesh and bones of husbands (Juan has no offspring) and raise the children as adults, and they perfectly interpret the sentence: You don't love me, but I love you; although you don't love me, I still love your family and raise your family; because I (was) your wife, the mother of your children.

In Zhang Youyi's later years, many people asked her whether she loved Xu or not, and Zhang said, "You know, I can't answer this question." I was confused by this question because everyone always told me that I had done so much for him that I must have loved him. However, I can't say anything about love, I've never said 'I love you' to anyone in my life. If taking care of him and his family is called love, then I probably love him. Of the few people he'd met in his life, maybe I loved him the most. In 1988, Zhang Youyi passed away at the age of 88. People remember her not only because she was Xu's original match, but also because she was The first female banker in China.

The person you love the most hurts you the most; the one who can hurt you the most is the person you love the most. What is the correct solution of the two?

Maybe love and hurt are always together.