Many people say that the most cruel truth of marriage is "marrying a wife without marrying a brother and a demon, and marrying someone without marrying a mother and a man." There is no doubt that Zhu Yuchen is the "ma bao man" who cannot be married.
He once became famous at a young age and had unlimited scenery, but he was broken up by his mother in succession, and he was also spoiled by his mother as a "mother treasure", and no one dared to marry in middle age, and he could not say the desolation.
As Zhu Yuchen's older sister, Zhu Beibei is even more miserable than her brother, and her mother treats her brother with her whole life, but does not ask her questions, resulting in her being over forty years old and still afraid of marriage.
[Mother Zhu doesn't care about her daughter]
As the eldest child in the family, Jubebe was not loved by her mother because she was a girl. In the eyes of the mother, girls are worthless and do not need to be carefully cared for.
But after Zhu Yuchen was born, her mother smiled rarely. She regarded Zhu Yuchen as a treasure, eager to tell the world that she had given birth to a son, and her requirements for her son were also responsive, and even generously admitted: "I am treating my son with my whole life, and I can stand up to two Filipino maids alone."
Mother Zhu's words are not exaggerated, in the "My Family That Boy" program, she showed her maternal love for Zhu Yuchen in an all-round way, and the degree of exaggeration was jaw-dropping.
In order to let Zhu Yuchen put down the fire, Zhu Yuchen insisted on getting up at four o'clock in the morning to boil pear juice, insisting on more than ten years, almost uninterrupted; Zhu Yuchen went out to shoot, Zhu Yuchen's mother deliberately rushed to her son's crew as a nanny, and still washed clothes and cooked for him after seventy years old; worried that Zhu Yuchen could not take care of herself alone, Zhu Yuchen went to her son's residence every day to clean up and clean up the house spotlessly.
Zhu Yuchen's college classmate and roommate also broke the news that on the first day of Zhu Yuchen's college, Zhu Yuchen's mother wanted to burn the climbing tiger with hot water because she was worried that the climbing tiger on the dormitory building would attract insects, until Zhu Yuchen persuaded her to give up.
Worried that Zhu Yuchen would not sleep well in the dormitory at night, Zhu Yuchen's mother deliberately asked Zhu Yuchen's roommates one by one whether they snored when they slept, causing Zhu Yuchen to be ridiculed by her classmates for four years.
And Jubebe went to college a few years earlier than her brother, but her mother always ignored her, and there was only one son in her eyes.
[Mother Zhu broke up her son's two relationships in succession]
However, fortunately, although Zhu's mother treated her son with her whole life, she did not force her daughter to do so, so the relationship between Zhu Yuchen's sister and brother was very harmonious.
The reason why Zhu Yuchen is proficient in piano is also because the family bought a piano, and her sister was lazy and unwilling to learn, so she gave this opportunity to her younger brother; Zhu Yuchen was also influenced by her sister when she was an actor in the middle of the examination.
However, although there are small achievements in his career, Zhu Yuchen's marriage has become a heart disease of his parents. Before meeting the designer's girlfriend Du Ruo, he had fallen in love with Tang Wei and Jiang Yan, but he was opposed by his mother one after another.
Zhu Yuchen's love affair with Tang Wei occurred during their art examination. The two studied at the same training institution and slowly came together over time.
However, after Zhu Yuchen re-read and was admitted to the Chinese opera, Tang Wei was once again famous and fell behind Sun Shan, and the feelings between the two slowly faded. Under the interference of Zhu's mother, Zhu Yuchen proposed to Tang Wei to break up.
Zhu Yuchen and Jiang Yan belong to the love affair because of the drama, especially after Jiang Yan revealed a good cooking skill, which made Zhu Yuchen fall in love. Under his gentle attack, Jiang Yan quickly fell.
At first, Mother Zhu also had a good feeling for the gentle and virtuous Jiang Yan, but after Jiang Yan met her parents for the first time, her attitude changed drastically, and she was crazy against this relationship.
It is said that the reason why Mother Zhu has an opinion on Jiang Yan is that she dislikes the skirt she wears is too short, and when she meets her parents, she actually sits on the edge of the sofa and does not behave properly enough.
[Jubeibei is over forty years old and still afraid of marriage]
Seeing her mother break up her brother's two relationships in succession, Jubeibei also lost interest in feelings, and was still full of horrors about marriage at the age of forty, and is still single.
Zhu's mother herself admitted: "The reason why she (Zhu Beibei) is single is because she saw my attitude towards my son from childhood to adulthood, she said that she could not take on this responsibility, and my family knew it."
Apparently, because the mother's image as a nanny is deeply rooted and gives her daughter invisible pressure, It makes Jubeibei full of fear of marriage. She thinks she can't do the level of her mother, and she is not willing to sacrifice herself for others, and singleness is the best choice.
Previously, Mother Zhu had said: "A woman should be a good wife and mother, and since she married you into the door, you should be able to bear this responsibility."
She said this not only to her future daughter-in-law, but also to her daughter-in-law, Zhu Beibei. In her concept, whether it is a daughter-in-law or a daughter, she should be a good wife and mother and take on her own responsibilities.
Zhu Yuchen also knows the reason why her sister is reluctant to get married, so even though she is worried about her sister's life events, he has never urged her sister to get married, and he does not want to see her sister bound and tortured by marriage.
Like his sister, Zhu Yuchen's own life events have also not landed, and he and his designer girlfriend Du Ruo have been in love for more than two years, but there is no sign of marriage. As for whether there is any "credit" from Mother Zhu, it is a matter of opinion.
Now That Zhu Beibei and his younger brother Zhu Yuchen have reached the forty-year-old mark and have a career and close friends with each other, it is still far from when they will get married.
Pity the hearts of parents in the world, although Mother Zhu's selfless dedication to her son is touching, but learning to let go appropriately is what a mother should do.