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Preface
As the night fell, in a small and gloomy kennel, actor Zhu Yuchen curled up in a corner alone, tears rippling. His eyes were dull, as if they carried too many painful memories.
As a middle-aged man who should have been in his bright years, he seems lonely and helpless at the moment, lying here crying about the merciless torture of fate.
Zhu Yuchen began to painfully recall his bumpy past in love - when he first fell in love with Tang Wei, who was half-aged but still charming, Baiwei fell in love, but was forced to break up due to his mother's tough opposition; Later, he met and fell in love with the popular actress Huo Siyan, but it was difficult to be complacent because of the difference in concepts; Recently, although he had a brief encounter with the virtuous and generous Jiang Yan, he also missed out because of a short skirt.
Every time he thinks of the low point of his career, Zhu Yuchen can't help crying bitterly, and he can't do anything about it.
Love experience
Jiang Yan is a knowledgeable, virtuous and generous woman, and her exquisite cooking skills are often appreciated by Zhu's mother. Once, Zhu Yuchen took Jiang Yan home for dinner.
Jiang Yan behaved decently and politely, but she was wearing a slightly casual short skirt, which made Zhu's mother frown.
At the dining table, Mother Zhu grimaced and coldly reprimanded: "Girls should pay attention to manners, they can't be so casual and presumptuous!" After that, she changed her words and began to talk about the standard of her ideal daughter-in-law again.
Zhu Yuchen listened to it in his ears, sighed helplessly, and showed embarrassment.
Since that family banquet, Zhu's mother's attitude towards Jiang Yan has changed a lot, and she is critical of her performance everywhere. In the end, they couldn't withstand the huge pressure exerted by Zhu's mother, and the lovers had no choice but to break up.
In 2009, Zhu Yuchen and popular actress Huo Siyan met and fell in love when they were cooperating in a movie. Huo Siyan is a beautiful and independent new generation of urban women, and she was also introduced home by Zhu Yuchen as a guest.
As soon as she saw Huo Siyan, Zhu's mother bluntly admitted her expectations for her daughter-in-law - she must be virtuous and skillful. Huo Siyan's expression was gloomy after hearing this, as a strong woman with a successful career, how could she completely give up her career and return to her family to become a full-time housewife? The two found it difficult to continue their relationship due to differences in concepts and cultures.
In the mid-90s, the young and vigorous Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei, who was half-aged but still charming, fell in love, and the two lived together like newlyweds, and their lives were sweet and happy.
Until one day, Zhu's mother made a special trip to Beijing and saw the chaotic rental house where the two lived, and she was furious.
Zhu's mother scolded Tang Wei for his lack of basic housework ability, and hinted that Zhu Yuchen's family business was really not a good match. As a mother's words, Zhu Yuchen obeyed and obeyed, and finally the two were forced to break up under the pressure of his mother.
Strict discipline
Zhu Yuchen has been subjected to strict discipline and requirements from his mother since he was a child. In order to cultivate his elegant and well-thought-out artistic temperament, Zhu's mother did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to invite professional teachers and force Zhu Yuchen to learn classical instruments such as piano.
But Zhu Yuchen was active and mischievous by nature, and soon lost interest in piano lessons, he often unconsciously touched the piano, and even deliberately damaged the parts of the piano, almost touching the wires and causing danger.
In the face of her son's "anti-bone" behavior, Zhu's mother was unmoved, and aggressively believed that this was the only way to cultivate a cultivated gentleman. She gets up at 4 a.m. every day to cook nutritionally balanced soup dishes for her son, a hard job she has been doing for more than ten years.
After entering the university campus, Zhu Yuchen thought that he could finally get rid of his mother's strict control and supervision, but he never thought that everything would open up a new height. Zhu's mother wakes up before her son every day, intimately tidies up the bedroom and bed for him, and insists on cleaning up every wisp of weeds outside the window.
Even when Zhu Yuchen used the computer, she read and copied it word by word, and never let her son leave any traces of words on the Internet.
Intervention in career development
Relying on the popularity of the TV series "Struggle", Zhu Yuchen's career is gradually getting better, and various film appointments have come one after another. He dreams of one day challenging the fierce field of martial arts dramas and trying some works with rich action scenes.
Unfortunately, when this idea reached her mother's ears, she did not hesitate to veto it decisively.
Zhu's mother was afraid that her son would be hurt even a little bit during the filming of the fight scenes, so for the sake of her son's safety, she simply rejected all martial arts scripts.
In this way, Zhu Yuchen repeatedly missed valuable development opportunities, and his originally vigorous career fell into a stagnation dilemma.
Whenever Zhu Yuchen mentioned this matter, his mother retorted loudly: "My son will not take that kind of danger! You should be glad to have a sensible mother like me!" Zhu Yuchen could only smile reluctantly on the side, and his heart was mixed.
In order to take care of Zhu Yuchen's diet and daily life in person, Zhu's mother naturally followed him to various crews. She not only has to strictly control her son's three meal recipes, but also extends her hand of management to the set, frequently interfering with the director's filming work, affecting the entire progress.
Once, when the executive director persuaded Zhu's mother, "Don't bring selfishness into your work", she responded confidently: "My son is my whole life, and I should always watch him!" Zhu Yuchen bowed his head silently on the side, his face full of shame and helplessness.
From childhood to adulthood, Zhu's mother single-handedly handled the bits and pieces of her son's life, and now she still follows closely like a huge kraft candy, and all of Zhu Yuchen's whereabouts have fallen into her sight.
The terrible thing is that in her eyes, Zhu Yuchen is still the child who needs her care, no matter what kind of predicament and challenges he will face, she will appear as soon as possible to provide him with a full range of protective umbrellas.
Obsessed with control
In an interview with a variety show, Zhu's mother unabashedly confessed her deep love for her son in front of the camera: "I am fully committed to caring for my son, and my contribution at home is almost comparable to that of two home service robots."
My son is the whole meaning of my life.
These straightforward words undoubtedly exerted heavy psychological pressure on Zhu Yuchen. Not only that, Zhu's mother seriously put forward her special requirements for her future daughter-in-law - that woman must be like herself, serving Zhu Yuchen's life wholeheartedly.
This kind of almost paranoid maternal love is also the fundamental reason why Zhu Yuchen is still single.
In the face of doubts from the outside world, Zhu Yuchen couldn't help but sigh in an interview: "Mother's love sometimes does make me, an adult in my forties, feel very embarrassed.
As a middle-aged man, his life should have been independent for a long time, but Zhu's mother never let go of the heavy control in her hands.
Zhu's mother's excessive control over her son is reflected in all aspects of her life, even Zhu Yuchen's every move on the Internet, she keeps a close eye on it like an iron bucket. She will copy every Weibo content posted on Zhu Yuchen's computer word by word, and she knows the use of his social accounts well, and has never let go of any details.
Sometimes Zhu Yuchen tries to seek opportunities for self-expression through social media, even if it is to complain and complain. But Zhu's mother can always catch these contents as soon as possible, and then severely reprimand her son for this "debauchery" behavior.
In this way, Zhu Yuchen gradually lost interest in the online world, and finally never wanted to leave any words on it.
In the face of his mother's persistent desire to control, Zhu Yuchen felt the surging heavy pressure, as if his life was controlled by his mother little by little.
He tried several times to break free from this bondage and fight hard, but to no avail.