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In front of the camera, the 43-year-old Zhu Yuchen sat on the chair with a serious expression, clenched his fists, and tears quietly slipped down his fingers. This actor, who was once quite high-profile in the entertainment industry, is now dissecting the "loneliness and helplessness" in his heart in a heavy and bleak tone, his voice trembling and full of deep despair.
At this moment, his appearance is no longer as handsome as before, his face is swollen and slightly greasy, which makes people sigh "the ruthlessness of fate".
It is really sad that this actor, who was once famous in the entertainment industry, has now fallen into such a situation. recalled that when he participated in the hit drama "Struggle" directed by Zhao Baogang in 2007, he won the enthusiastic pursuit of the audience with his excellent acting skills, and the image of Huazi created was vivid, and even the director praised it.
Since then, he has once again played a role that is loved by the audience in "Who Calls the Shots in My Youth", which can be described as unparalleled.
However, good times are always short-lived, and Zhu Yuchen then disappeared from the public eye, until a high-profile variety show brought him back into the limelight. This time, however, instead of causing another sensation with his superb acting skills or touching love story, he rose to fame by revealing his last veil.
It turned out that this seemingly resolute man turned out to be a typical "mom treasure man".
In that show, 43-year-old Zhu Yuchen lost control of his emotions and poured out his "loneliness and helplessness" in tears. This has undoubtedly aroused widespread attention from all walks of life, and people can't help but sigh that a figure who was once all the rage in the entertainment industry has now fallen to this.
Perhaps it is this unspeakable image of "Ma Bao" that completely destroyed Zhu Yuchen's former glory. Now that he has not only changed dramatically in appearance, but even his figure has begun to be out of shape and slightly greasy, which is undoubtedly regrettable.
It is really touching that a man who once had superior conditions is now in such a situation.
What is the reason for such a person to finally fall into the abyss of loneliness and loss? There is no doubt that the driving force behind Zhu Yuchen, the mother who has a strong desire for overprotection and a high desire to control, plays a crucial role in this process.
Since childhood, Zhu Yuchen has always lived under the strict protection of his mother. In Zhu's mother's heart, her son is her whole world, and she must always be under her control.
Zhu's mother's desire for her son Zhu Yuchen to control was so strong that it really made people stunned! She was extremely worried that Zhu Yuchen might encounter all kinds of injuries if he went out alone, so she actually took extreme measures to strictly prohibit him from going out to play, lest he be injured due to an accidental fall. Regarding this, Zhu's mother said: "As long as my son is in my sight, I can feel at ease." However, it is a pity that this excessive care finally made Zhu Yuchen gradually lose the opportunity to make new friends, and became increasingly taciturn, introverted and withdrawn.
However, Zhu's mother was quite satisfied with this, and firmly believed that as long as she was by her side, her son would be safe and sound.
Zhu's mother's desire to control is not only reflected in the intervention of Zhu Yuchen's daily life, but also in his emotional world. When Zhu Yuchen met the person he liked for the first time, the beautiful and moving Tang Wei, Zhu's mother's first reaction was deep dissatisfaction. She thought that this beautiful woman was "difficult to ascend to the hall of elegance", and she continued to embarrass Tang Wei for many trivial reasons and tried to expel her. Under the heavy pressure of his mother, Tang Wei finally chose to give up this relationship.
Subsequently, when Zhu Yuchen met another heart-warming woman again, Jiang Yan, Zhu's mother interfered again. This time, she was furious just because Jiang Yan was wearing a pair of shorts, and decided that such an outfit must be "uneducated". Under her mother's continuous troubles, Jiang Yan could only choose to leave Zhu Yuchen in the end.
Zhu's mother's behavior undoubtedly left a deep scar on the hearts of the two women. Seeing that these two relationships have broken one after another, I believe that Zhu Yuchen must be in pain deep in his heart. Such a setback undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to his spiritual world.
Zhu's mother's overprotection and control seem to have completely dominated Zhu Yuchen's life. Since childhood, she has always regarded her son as the pearl of her palm, unwilling to let him live independently, and does not allow him to establish intimate relationships with other members of the opposite sex. In her eyes, her son is her private property, which must be held in the palm of her hand at all times.
This suffocating "maternal love" undoubtedly deprives Zhu Yuchen of his independent personality. In this caring environment, known as the "ivory tower", he is no longer able to think independently and make his own decisions.
His mother's control over Zhu Yuchen has become increasingly intensified, reaching the point where he is almost inseparable, which makes Zhu Yuchen's image of "Ma Bao" follow him like a shadow. In fact, this behavior has further deepened the public's concern and suspicion about Zhu Yuchen's mother's excessive interference in her life.
Perhaps in Zhu Yuchen's mother's view, as long as her son stays in her sight, it can bring her endless comfort and satisfaction. However, this seemingly selfless care has actually become a heavy shackle that restricts his son's free development, pushing him into the abyss of a middle-aged "mom bao man" who can't live independently.
In the face of such a sad ending, we have to think deeply that the love of parents is extremely precious, but it must not evolve into a cage that restricts the growth of children. Looking back on Zhu Yuchen's emotional journey, it is not difficult to find that he has had two high-profile relationships, but he has not been able to get rid of the fate of rupture after all.
The first is the relationship with Tang Wei. At that time, the two met by chance and fell in love at first sight. In order to follow the love of his heart, Tang Wei resolutely decided to follow Zhu Yuchen to Beijing and began a common life journey.
During that time, they were all fighting for their respective futures, and as time passed, the feelings between each other gradually warmed up, and Tang Wei could not resist Zhu Yuchen's unique charm.
Although Zhu Yuchen has said many times that the breakup was not as rumored by the outside world, the real reason may only be known to the three of them. This unforgettable emotional experience undoubtedly left an indelible scar on Zhu Yuchen's heart.
When Zhu Yuchen met Jiang Yan, he seemed to see the dawn of regaining love. Jiang Yan's energetic and enthusiastic personality deeply touched Zhu Yuchen, who was at a low point in his life, and successfully healed his once broken heart.
Compared with Tang Wei's lack of cooking skills, Jiang Yan can be called an all-round woman who can not only show off her style in social occasions, but also be comfortable in the kitchen, which makes Zhu Yuchen fall in love with these advantages.
However, no one expected that Zhu Yuchen's mother would be furious because of a pair of shorts. When Jiang Yan visited Zhu Yuchen's house for the first time, she chose to wear a pair of shorts, which in the eyes of Zhu's mother was interpreted as a sign of lack of education and frivolous behavior.
Therefore, Zhu's mother resolutely opposed the two to continue their relationship, and under her mother's difficulties, Jiang Yan finally chose to leave Zhu Yuchen.
After witnessing a series of emotional setbacks, Zhu Yuchen's inner emotions must have endured indescribable pain and struggle. This heavy blow undoubtedly left a deep wound in the depths of his psyche. Perhaps because of those indelible emotional twists and turns, Zhu Yuchen, who has now entered the threshold of forty-three, has become a "mom boy" who has been criticized by the world, and can no longer establish a stable intimate relationship.
In addition to the troubles of his love life, Zhu Yuchen also had a glorious time in his acting career.
In 2007, the TV series "Struggle" directed by the famous director Zhao Baogang aroused enthusiastic responses from all walks of life as soon as it was broadcast. Although Zhu Yuchen only played an inconspicuous supporting role in this play, the image of Huazi he created was vivid, and even director Zhao Baogang praised it, calling this the ideal "Huazi" in his heart.
Immediately afterwards, Zhu Yuchen once again played a role that was loved by the audience in another masterpiece directed by Zhao Baogang, "Who Calls the Shots in My Youth". During this time, he can be described as infinitely beautiful and famous.
With his outstanding acting talent, Zhu Yuchen quickly rose to become one of the most popular young actors at that time.
However, good times are always short-lived, and just when Zhu Yuchen's acting career was just starting, he suddenly disappeared from the public eye without a trace, until a high-profile variety show brought him back into people's sight.
What is puzzling is that this time Zhu Yuchen did not become famous for his superb acting skills or touching love story, but caused a sensation because he revealed the "secret" in his heart.
It turned out that Zhu Yuchen, who looked resolute and resolute on the outside, turned out to be a terrifying "mom treasure man".
In that variety show, 43-year-old Zhu Yuchen lost control of his emotions and tearfully poured out his "lonely and helpless" situation, which aroused widespread attention from all walks of life. Perhaps it is this unbearable image of "Ma Bao" that completely destroyed his former glory.
Today's Zhu Yuchen is no longer handsome and chic, and his figure is gradually out of shape, looking a little greasy, which undoubtedly makes people sigh. A figure who was once famous in the entertainment industry has now fallen to this, which really makes people sigh at the impermanence of fate.
What happened to him makes us wonder what caused such a man with superior conditions to end up in the abyss of loneliness and loss? The answer may only be attributed to the overprotective and controlling mother.
It is precisely this mother who is addicted to the "ivory tower" type of education that has personally caused the tragedy of her son Zhu Yuchen's life! From childhood to adulthood, she regarded Zhu Yuchen as a treasure, and was unwilling to let go of her son to walk the road of life alone, especially not allowing him to have any intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex.
This suffocating "maternal love" is undoubtedly the ruthless destruction of Zhu Yuchen's independent personality, making him a "mom boy" who can't live independently.
When Zhu Yuchen is facing emotional distress, his overprotective and controlling mother never seems to stop looking for the ideal partner for her son. In her eyes, neither the talented Tang Wei nor the gentle and lovely Jiang Yan could get her approval.
Until one day, at the filming site, Zhu's mother met a woman who made her eyes shine - Huo Siyan. Huo Siyan's role in the play is virtuous and capable, coupled with her naturally beautiful and pure appearance, which just fits the standard of Zhu's mother as an ideal daughter-in-law.
Perhaps because the characters in the play are too perfect, in the eyes of Zhu's mother, Huo Siyan is undoubtedly the best candidate.
So, Zhu's mother did not hesitate to regard Huo Siyan as an ideal "daughter-in-law", and took the initiative to approach her, trying to introduce her to her son. However, to Zhu's mother's disappointment, once Huo Siyan understood Zhu's mother's intentions, she resolutely refused.
She is well aware of Zhu's mother's excessive desire to control, and at the same time clearly expressed her opinion that Zhu Yuchen is not the person she loves.
Under Huo Siyan's refusal, this relationship that did not exist came to an early end. The clever actress once put it this way: "For the elderly, their mindset is still quite stubborn, and they always believe that to marry a wife is to marry a new mother. "
It can be seen that she has a deep understanding of the shortcomings of Zhu Mu's thinking mode.
Perhaps in Zhu's mother's opinion, as long as her son can marry a virtuous and capable woman like herself, his life can go on step by step. However, the reality often runs counter to her expectations, whether it is Tang Wei, Jiang Yan, or Huo Siyan, they are not recognized by her.
It seems that it is not easy for this opinionated mother to find a satisfactory daughter-in-law.
Zhu's mother's strict domination and excessive expectations for her son Zhu Yuchen undoubtedly caused serious damage to the emotional world of the young Zhu Yuchen. After many love failures, it not only brought psychological trauma to Zhu Yuchen, but also further deepened his fate of entering the ranks of "Ma Bao Man". It is a pity that although Zhu's mother spared no effort to choose the ideal partner for her son, it was a pity that she still failed to achieve the results she expected.
Analyzing Zhu Yuchen's emotional journey, it is not difficult to find that it was this mother, known as the "ivory tower", who destroyed her son's beautiful life with her own hands.
From childhood to adulthood, Zhu's mother has never relaxed her care and control over her son. She was deeply afraid that her son would be hurt in the slightest, and even directly forbade him to go out to play, lest he fall and be injured. Under the excessive care of his mother, Zhu Yuchen gradually lost his ability to think independently and became an out-and-out "mom boy".
When Zhu Yuchen was finally fortunate enough to contact the woman he liked, his mother intervened again. Her various difficulties with Tang Wei and Jiang Yan finally made these two relationships fail. Under the strong interference of her mother, even Huo Siyan, who has always pursued perfection, had to refuse Zhu's mother's arrangement.
Now, Zhu Yuchen, who is 43 years old, has lost himself and become a greasy middle-aged man, tearing down his face in front of the camera, pouring out his "lonely and helpless" situation.
There is no doubt that excessive love is not a cure for wounds, but can become a deadly poison. Zhu's mother's actions all stem from her over-protection and desire to control her son. She regarded her son as her own and was afraid that he would leave her, so she did not hesitate to take extreme measures to cling to him.
However, this behavior eventually backfired on his son, making him a "mom boy" who could not live independently.
From Zhu Yuchen's experience, we can deeply understand such a lesson: although the love of parents is precious, it must not become a shackle that restricts the growth of children. Everyone should have the right to think and live independently, and the role of parents should be to guide and support, not to control. Only in this way can our future generations truly grow up healthy and thrive and become the pillars of society.
As the wise actress profoundly pointed out: "In the worldview of the older generation, their thinking patterns are still quite stubborn, and they always believe that marrying a wife is like welcoming a new mother." This is the trap that Zhu's mother accidentally stepped into. I hope that the majority of parents can wake up from this, learn from Zhu Yuchen's experience, learn to accept and take care of their children with a broader and more inclusive mind, and give them sufficient freedom and living space, so that they can thrive and realize their self-worth.