In "Siege of the City", Fang Hongzhi is definitely a person with a very high starting point, but he failed to win on the starting line, and as soon as he stepped into the society, he was frustrated one after another, and finally he was embarrassed, and he was beaten into a "bad card" by one hand of "Wang Bombing", which made people sigh.
When Fang Hong was in high school, his family set him up, the girl was rich, but her life was short, and she suddenly died of illness when he was preparing to graduate from college. So he politely sent a long letter of condolence to the would-be father-in-law.
Unexpectedly, this move won the admiration and weight of his father-in-law, and because of this generous help, he unexpectedly got the opportunity to study abroad when his family had no mines.
This was simply a blessing cultivated by his ancestors, so although he was not born with a golden key, the god of fate also put a golden key in his hand early, allowing him to have many good things that his peers did not dare to dream of.
Dr. Liu Yang (although the doctoral diploma was bought, but at that time the domestic war was raging, no one paid attention to its authenticity, and some people who bought diplomas were very popular) This incomparably glamorous title, for his identity and status at that time, invisibly higher than the original family more than one or two classes, enviable, if he can manage well, enter the upper class is just around the corner.
Because, whether it is love or career, at the beginning, Heaven put good resources in front of him, but he missed it perfectly.
First of all, it was to meet Su Wenyun and Tang Xiaofu.
Su Wenyun, prominent family background, high education, people are also beautiful, uncompromising "white rich beauty". She likes and tolerates Fang Hongwei very much, which is completely a good thing for Fang Hongwei to be smoked in the ancestral tomb. He also didn't say that he didn't like Su Wenyun, but he just felt that everything was inferior to Su Wenyun, and he had some inferiority in his heart.
It can be said that as long as he adjusts his mentality and generously accepts Su Wenyi, then, with the strength of the Su family, providing him with a higher level of development platform is not a problem at all.
But he was both inferior and conceited, half pushing and half deliberately alienating, and finally turned around to pursue Su Wenyun's cousin Tang Xiaofu. Thinking with the thumb of his foot, you can figure out that su Wenyun, who is so arrogant and shrewd, will complete them after being disgraced? She is not a normal woman without deliberately stirring up yellow.
But, then again, Su Wen's troublemaking is only one aspect that hinders him and Tang Xiaofu, if he is not so weak and incompetent, and dares to pursue true love, he should try his best to win every opportunity to save it, rather than giving up when both sides are deeply misunderstood.
Even if he married Tang Xiaofu, as Tang Xiaofu's father's lawyer, in that era when "Spelling Daddy" was particularly strong, his career could not be smooth at once, at least it would take many detours.
However, in the end, he actually married Sun Roujia, who was general in appearance, talent, and family.
It can be seen that he does not love Sun Roujia, but at that time in the environment of San lu University, Zhao Xinlin resigned and left, colleagues and leaders were alienated from him, he was lonely and seemed to have no dependence, only Sun Roujia approached him, allowing him to retain a trace of dignity.
His marriage to Sun Roujia was completely forced by the situation and reluctantly married. It shows that he is not a person who is the supreme love, and after experiencing the ugliness of human nature, he will also surrender to reality.
It's just that at the beginning, in the work of studying abroad and returning from studying abroad, there were kind-natured father-in-law, he had been living a smooth and smooth life, he had not been beaten by society, and he thought that he deserved better in his heart, so he coldly refused to take the initiative to send Su Wenyun to his home, and he did not bother to eliminate the misunderstanding caused by Tang Xiaofu.
Unexpectedly, the opportunity is very limited, and there is no such shop after this mountain.
Secondly, it is to meet Zhuan Yuezhang and Zhao Xinlin.
After returning from studying abroad, the father-in-law let him eat and live in his own home, first working in the bank he opened, and then slowly going out to find a better job. This is simply a father, there is no better.
If he hadn't been lying flat at the beginning and being proactive, it wouldn't have been difficult to find a better job in Shanghai with the relationship between his father-in-law and father-in-law.
However, for several months, he did not go to find a job, not to mention, not even the job given by the prospective father-in-law did not see how well he managed it, whether it was to confirm his ability or repay, it was always okay to go all out, and this was the unit that the would-be-father-in-law had the final say, and it was easier to be promoted and reused.
But he just did nothing, got by, until he had a conflict with his mother-in-law at home because of some trivial matters, thinking that he was too wronged to do it, and he moved away in a huff, not even a good face, let alone grateful to his father-in-law.
He's not the kind of white-eyed wolf in nature, but his character of running away from contradictions and not resolving them will only make things worse and worse.
The mother-in-law is so interested in his friendship that he can say it generously, even if there is no need to tell the truth, at least to appease and satisfy her "parent" mentality, otherwise, while you eat people's drinks, you want to maintain some kind of independence, completely undisturbed by others, sugar cane is sweet at both ends, what is so good.
His ignorance of the world continued until he went to San Lu University.
Zhao Xinlin wanted to remove the obstacle of pursuing Su Wenyun and gradually removed Fang Hongzhi from Su Wenyun's side, so he recommended Fang Hongzhi to teach at Sanlu University, but he did not expect that this was simply a gospel for him who had just come out of the family of The Prospective Father-in-Law.
However, after arriving at Sam Lu University, he did not work smoothly like other peers, not to say that he was successful.
He didn't go well anywhere. Because he did not understand the world, the first meeting with the principal, three words and two words let the principal see that he was like a simple transparent person, without a city government, especially easy to deal with.
Therefore, he did not become a professor as he wished, did not belong to any department, arranged few classes, and was a completely marginalized person.
Because of love, diplomas, and things in class, he had all kinds of lying guns, and there was no way to straighten it out, he could only let it go, and he didn't know it when he was married to multiple colleagues, and he couldn't integrate into any circle at all, only following Behind Zhao Xinlin.
Zhao Xinlin resigned because of the Mrs. Wang incident, which had nothing to do with him, but in the end, he was driven away because of this, "carelessly speaking out" in front of the principal.
Principal Gao's image in this incident is not glamorous, and even the same is dirty, but he also wants to maintain the "dignity" of his leadership, and does not want people, especially people like Fang Hongwei, who are around Zhao Xinlin to spy on his ugliness.
When President Gao Songnian asked him if he knew the reason for Zhao Xinlin's resignation, he honestly said, "I kind of know", which is equivalent to telling Principal Gao that I know your little trouble. Thinking about whether Gao Gao would be merciful to his subordinates, he would like to get rid of him immediately.
If he is well versed in the world, even if he is unfortunate enough to know the ugly things of the leader, and firmly says "I don't know anything", then the principal of gao issued a letter of appointment for the new academic year, and perhaps his name.
In the end, Fang Hongwei was laid off and left Sanlu University in a gray and slippery manner.
If he is mature and steady, and handles various relationships a little, according to his ability level, from associate professor to professor, that is, a few years.
Finally, he returned to Shanghai, and although he worked in the information room of a newspaper library through Zhao Xinlin's introduction, he finally resigned for political reasons. After the marriage relationship with Sun Roujia broke down, he went to Chongqing to join Zhao Xinlin in frustration.
Fang Hong gradually held a golden key in his hand, but the road of life became narrower and narrower, which was not only related to his inability to judge the situation well and seize various opportunities, but also related to his cowardly, hesitant, inactive and unattainable character.
In life, who does not want to obtain a higher realm, but some people are obviously very good in all aspects, but they always hover outside the "door of success", and the reason is often a problem of personality.
Character determines destiny, sound character, let you on the road to success, like a fish in the water, like divine help. On the contrary, the more character defects, the more your life path is full of thorns and bumps.