#Emotional Review Award#There is a sentence in "Little Shed" that attracts tears: "Mother loves not me, she loves me with full marks."
Once upon a time, "Don't let your child lose at the starting line." As this sentence ran, it became tainted.
Educational anxiety is widespread among Chinese parents, and the larger the city, the more serious the anxiety becomes. In order not to let the child lose on the starting line, parents from a young age to the child to report a variety of interest tutoring classes, always pay attention to the child's achievements and rankings, if the child's grades once there is a little wind and grass, can make parents blind and crazy.
In the TV series "Xiao Shede", the anxiety phenomenon of Chinese-style education parents is vividly interpreted, and there are many plots in the play that can resonate with us.
I especially remember a clip in the play, Yan Ziyou in the parent class, in front of the whole class and parents said a paragraph, "Mother loves not me, love is me with full scores, you say for me every time, but never care if I am happy, willing or not?" ”
At that time, this sentence in the play made many parents cry directly, when watching TV, I cried like many people, Yan Ziyou, he was just a child, shouldn't he grow up healthy and happy?
This question is thought-provoking: Do parents love their children or do they love children with full scores?
Undoubtedly, in today's society, every child is the treasure in the palm of the parents, parents of course love their children, every day from nine to five, up early and greedy, hard work, is not to let the children in the future can live comfortably, live well?
But in the child's cognition is confused, their memory will always have endless test papers, endless cram schools, but also worry about whether the test will be beaten?
Is this love or not? In my opinion, if it is only a parent who pays attention to grades, I am afraid that it is a child who loves to score a perfect score.
Don't let the child lose on the starting line, I think the starting line in this sentence should first refer to the starting line created by the parents, followed by the starting line of the child's own efforts, the two can not be confused.
In my eyes, each child is an independent living individual, they are a complete person, but also a unique person. As parents, we must learn to look at the shining points of our children with a developmental vision, and learn to use a pair of eyes to discover and explore beauty to act as a guide and supporter on the road of children's growth.
Parents should establish the correct three views for their children from an early age, so that when they step into the society one day, they have enough confidence and fearless courage to face various challenges and difficulties in life, rather than depression, fear, timidity and other negative emotions that fill the child's heart, and a little blow may henceforth be stagnant, and there is only loneliness and darkness left in life!
After all, compared to hoping for a child to become a dragon and a girl to become a phoenix, it is especially important for children to have a healthy body and mind.
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