A lifetime of comparison with others, this is the source of life's tragedy.
The long road of human growth is like a marathon with no end in sight, just winning at the starting line is almost not much help to the child's life. Whoever can run to the end and reach the end is the real winner.
Many parents like to let their children learn ahead, do not pay attention to the characteristics of each stage of their children's growth, do not care whether the child can really digest and absorb, and do not care whether the child can experience the satisfaction of learning knowledge.
Before going to kindergarten, let children recognize words, do oral calculations, and memorize ancient poems; when they go to kindergarten, they learn the knowledge of the first grade in advance; when they go to primary school, they will learn the next semester's curriculum in advance.
As everyone knows, such seedlings will have an adverse impact on children's physical and mental development, learning ability, and learning habits. Children in the most carefree, lively age, reading boring words, counting the addition and subtraction of the cloud, taking a variety of online classes, a long time facing books, LCD screens, myopia early to find the door, children who have learned knowledge in advance, for the content of the daily class to lose freshness, more importantly, lost the curiosity and curiosity about knowledge, when other children learn, he feels bored, relying on distraction to pass the time...
If there is really a starting line, our parents are the real starting line of our children, our knowledge, conversation, pattern, three views, character... It is what can really affect a child's life.
The deep reason behind many parents' chicken babies is because they have deep anxiety. Seeing that other people's babies are so outstanding, their own babies are not very powerful. Turning your head and desperately trying to make a chicken baby, in fact, it is equivalent to transferring your anxiety to the child, and the gain is not worth the loss.
It is better to be calm, face your own shortcomings, improve yourself first, in this positive process, the child will also get a positive impact, benign development.
Instead of aimlessly and crowded with chicken babies, it is better to chicken yourself, teach by example, imperceptibly, and guide your children in the direction you want.
Don't blindly ask your child to learn this and that, but you are holding your mobile phone and can't help yourself.
When the child asks back, Dad, why don't you study, dumbfounded.
Yeah, you can't do things, why ask your children to do it.
