In 2019, Qiong Yao made the love story of her girlfriend Liu Lili into the movie "Hold Three Times, I Love You".
Although this film adapted from a live-action film did not cause too much splash, it still received a lot of criticism.
The reason is simple, this movie is mainly about an infatuated little three and a generous original, two women have been serving a husband for more than 40 years.
According to our current values, a man sitting on two wives is certainly not allowed.
But Liu Lili, Dong Jinhu and Wang Mei, the three people, not only lived in harmony for a lifetime, but also interpreted the relationship between the three of them into a story of "warm feelings in the world".
After reading the "love story" of the three of them, it will definitely subvert all your imaginations of "little three", "original match", and "scumbag".
One
First of all, the first heroine of the story, Liu Lili.
Many people may not have heard of the name "Liu Lili", but you must have seen or heard the TV series she directed.
Liu Lili is a very famous female director in Taiwan Province, China, and most of Qiong Yao's early TV series were almost directed by her.
For example, "On the Side of the Water", "Smoke and Rain", "Several Degrees of Sunset Red" and so on.
In the field of work, Liu Lili is a well-known strong woman, her work ability is strong, her execution ability is high, and she is a veritable female haojie.
But at work, Liu Lili, who is like a superman, is low to "dust" in love.
It is reported that Liu Lili when she was young belonged to the level of school flowers, and how many boys wrote love letters to her to offer their affection, betting on who would hug the beauty first.
Dong Jinhu was also one of these boys, but until graduating from college, none of the boys chased Liu Lili.
After graduation, Liu Lili, who could have "eaten by the face", was not an actor and fell in love with the director's work.
She worshiped the famous director Ding Shanxi as a teacher, and by chance, she met Qiong Yao.
Qiong Yao admired her work ability, so he cooperated with her many times, and in the long run, Liu Lili became the royal director of Qiong Yao TV series.
At the same time as the work was smooth, Liu Lili was reunited with Dong Jinhu, the senior in college.
At this time, their work is all directing, and they often have the opportunity to meet and deal with each other.
One after another, the two people rubbed out the spark of love.
Later, Dong Jinhu described them as falling in love with each other at first sight, and said that "love at first sight is the highest level of aesthetics, because it has no choice, no reason, it is absurd." ”
It is indeed absurd enough, because at this time, Dong Jinhu is not only married, but also the child is about to be born.
In order to stay with his new "lover" day and night, Dong Jinhu specially rented a house and lived with Liu Lili sweetly.
The story has developed to this point, according to the secular trend, it should be the plot of "little three" and "original match" competing for a "scumbag".
But what is unexpected is that after that, Liu Lili has played her infatuation to the extreme, and she has not only become a good sister with Dong Jinhu's wife, but also allowed herself to fully integrate into Dong Jinhu's family.
So, why would Wang Mei, Dong Jinhu's wife, willingly accept Liu Lili's existence?
Probably because of the touch and love of the house and Uba!
Two
After learning that her husband cheated, Wang Mei would of course be angry and dissatisfied, but she believed in "taking a step back from the sea and the sky, and enduring the peace of the world for a while."
Therefore, knowing that there was Liu Lili's existence, Wang Mei still hid all her grievances in her heart.
Until Liu Lili took the initiative to send an invitation for friendship to Wang Mei.
Liu Lili's approach is very similar to the classic line in Qiong Yao's work: "I am not here to break you up, but to join this family." ”
Once, Wang Mei's twin daughters fell ill, but both husband and wife went to other places because of their work.
The old man in the family had no choice but to call Liu Lili for help.
After Liu Lili knew that the child was sick, he sent the child to the best children's hospital without saying a word, and pawned some of his home appliances to give the child money to treat the disease.
When Wang Mei rushed to the hospital, she saw Liu Lili, who was asleep by the bed, still holding her child in her hand.
Perhaps it was a sincere touch, or perhaps a helpless compromise, at this moment, Wang Mei completely accepted Liu Lili's existence.
She took the initiative to propose to her husband that she was willing to take Liu Lili to live with her family, and they were called sisters and "shared a husband".
Since then, a 45-year-long absurd "threesome" life has officially begun.
In order not to destroy the "peace" between the three people, Liu Lili did things that most women can't do.
First of all, she gave all the money she earned to Wang Mei for the family's living expenses;
Second, she beat up her own child and had an incision, vowing not to have children for the rest of her life;
In the end, she regarded the three children born to Wang Mei as her own, not only loved the children more than Wang Mei, but also let the children respectfully call her "good mother".
Of course, Liu Lili's efforts are not one-sided, and Wang Mei really treats her as a sister.
Whenever Liu Lili returned home from work, Wang Mei would pour her a cup of hot tea and take care of the big and small affairs of her life.
More importantly, Wang Mei has also been teaching children to respect "good mothers" as they respect themselves.
Seeing this, some people may wonder, dong Jinhu is a superb beautiful man?
Why are two women willing to love him with all their hearts? (On the right side of the picture below is Dong Jinhu)
Three
Very objectively, Dong Jinhu and ShuaiZi have no relationship, he probably verified the sentence "Men are not bad, women do not love."
Dong Jinhu is a standard rich young master, his original family is very wealthy, from a young age there are servants to bring tea and water, and even bathing has been served by special people.
It's just that with the changes of the times, the Dong family has gradually declined.
After marrying Wang Mei, Dong Jinhu still enjoys the treatment of a grandfather, eating, wearing, living and traveling with his wife to take care of everything, even if he takes a bath, his wife is still rubbing his back on the side.
Later, after falling in love with Liu Lili, at first Dong Jinhu did not think that he could "embrace left and right", he asked Liu Lili once, "I have no name with me, what should you do when you are old?" ”
Liu Lili replied to him, "I admit my fate!" ”
Her friend Qiong Yao also privately asked Liu Lili, "You don't know the future things, will you still fall in love with other people." ”
Liu Lili told Qiong Yao categorically, "Absolutely not! I identified him! ”
And the attitude of his wife Wang Mei to her husband's affair is "I am willing to tolerate all his advantages and disadvantages, and Sister Liu is so good!" ”
It may also be the mutual "understanding" of the two women that allows Dong Jinhu to enjoy the happy life of having two "wives" at the same time.
For his family life, Dong Jinhu has always been quite proud and proud.
He revealed to the outside world that usually the three of them had a room for each person, and as for those things between men and women, they had also developed a tacit understanding.
Generally, he would look for Wang Mei in one or three or five, and He would look for Liu Lili in two or four or six.
When he wants to find Liu Lili, Wang Mei will go back to his mother's house for a few days in advance; when he wants to find Wang Mei, Liu Lili will go out to find friends to play cards.
Their "love of three people" is certainly not understood and recognized by most outsiders in the eyes of most outsiders.
But Dong Jinhu has his own set of values: "I love two women, they also love me at the same time, and they also love sisters, the three of us have lived together for a lifetime, who are we hindering?" ”
Although Dong Jinhu's words made people speechless, the three of them had indeed lived in harmony for a lifetime.
In the 45 years of living with Dong Jinhu, Liu Lili and Wang Mei have hardly ever had a red face or quarrel, they make money alone, take care of the family alone, and make the family full of laughter every day.
When working, Liu Lili was a good partner of Dong Jinhu, and they discussed script creation and shooting skills together.
Whenever this time came, Wang Mei took the initiative to retreat to the side, so as not to become the extra one.
After returning home, Wang Mei took care of Dong Jinhu's life, they were as intimate as a normal husband and wife, but sometimes Liu Lili watched, sometimes Liu Lili turned a blind eye.
Just like Zhang Ailing's "red rose and white rose", the difference is that Dong Jinhu has two red and white roses at the same time.
Four
Day by day, the three of them also became white-haired old men, and Liu Lili became the first of the three to fall ill.
In 2010, at the age of 72, Liu Lili unfortunately suffered from cerebellar atrophy, a disease that can slowly incapacitate people and cannot speak until they are gradually paralyzed.
At this time, it was Wang Mei who was responsible for taking care of Liu Lili, and she stayed in Liu Lili's hospital room without complaint, helping her turn over and scrub and cheer her up.
At the time when Liu Lili's illness was at its worst, Wang Mei insisted that the doctor perform air incision surgery on Liu Lili.
And she followed her son's advice and took the initiative to sign a divorce agreement with Dong Jinhu.
The day after Wang Mei and Dong Jinhu divorced, Liu Lili, who was paralyzed in bed, held a different wedding ceremony with Dong Jinhu in the hospital.
In addition to Wang Mei, there were several of her children who attended the wedding, and they were at the hospital bed together to wish Liu Lili that she had finally become a veritable Mrs. Dong.
Wang Mei also thought that if Sister Liu could not escape this disaster, at least this wedding could fulfill her lifelong wish, and her son could also help her die in the future.
I don't know if it is the joy brought by marriage, Liu Lili's gas incision surgery is very successful, and his body recovers quickly.
A few days before she was discharged from the hospital, Wang Mei came to the hospital as usual to take care of Liu Lili, and she held Liu Lili's hands, and Liu Lili held her tightly three times.
Wang Mei, who did not know why, told Liu Lili's friend Qiong Yao about this matter, and after Qiong Yao listened, she knew that shaking three hands represented "I love you".
Because she once told Liu Lili a story about "knock three times, I love you".
Therefore, Liu Lili must be expressing his gratitude to Wang Mei.
It is because of this small matter that there is a movie written by Qiong Yao in the future, "Hold Three Times, I Love You".
When the movie was officially released, Dong Jinhu and Liu Lili had both died.
Dong Jinhu walked the earliest, died of illness in 2015 at the age of 80, and in 2018, Liu Lili also survived, coincidentally, her life was also fixed at the age of 80.
In the last few years of his life, Liu Lili was carefully cared for by Wang Mei and several children, and Dong Jinhu's only instruction before his death was to let the children take good care of Liu Lili.
Watching Dong Jinhu and Liu Lili leave before and after, Wang Mei thought that they were one step ahead of the "reunion" and that he would always keep up with their "footsteps".
In the past two years, Wang Mei has worked tirelessly to hold Liu Lili's commemorative film festival, and she is like a guardian, so that more people have different channels to remember Liu Lili.
It is difficult to say what kind of feelings Wang Mei has for Liu Lili, they should have been "enemies", but they spent their lives together like sisters.
Perhaps in the years of living together, Wang Mei's sisterly love for Liu Lili has increasingly exceeded her marital love for Dong Jinhu!
Looking at the "love story" of the three of them, whether it is Liu Lili or Wang Mei, there is no doubt that they have sacrificed and retreated, but they have all guarded what they care about most.
Liu Lili got half of the love, Wang Mei saved the complete family, and Dong Jinhu sat and enjoyed the blessings of the Qi people.
As bystanders, we can't tell the relationship between them in a few words.
But as a modern person, for me personally, this is absurd and bizarre "family".
No matter how kind the "little three" is, she should not be allowed to exist for some special reasons, and even the most generous wife should adhere to the promise of a lifetime and a couple.
As for married men, since they already have a holy "white rose", don't linger on the enthusiastic "red rose"!