In the era of starvation, food is precious; in the era of great material abundance, spiritual food needs special attention.
In the era when my father and mother were born, 1950 to 1960 was the era when China had the most natural disasters, various diseases were rampant, and food production was not high. Therefore, eating enough was the biggest goal of life for people in that era.
Now it is different, the food is diverse, food production is also increasing, although it is indeed not as green as before, but the richness and convenience of life is simply different.
It is such a rich age, and even people with annual income of nearly ten million people steal sandwiches.
According to the Daily Mail on February 3, Citi executives who earn up to 1 million pounds (9.12 million yuan) a year were suspended on suspicion of stealing sandwiches from employee canteens. Paras Shah, 31, who earns millions of dollars, was removed last month from the post of Citigroup's head of high-yield bond trading in Europe, the Middle East and Africa. The suspension was due to Citi accusing him of stealing food, especially sandwiches and potato cakes, from frequent staff canteens.
Many netizens have expressed their confusion, the annual income of 9.12 million yuan, what they want to eat can not buy, why steal it?
Let's take a look at other examples:
Hong Kong media reported that in 2006, Miss Asia Tsang Min was convicted of theft. What is surprising is that Yajie, who earns 8,000 Hong Kong dollars a month, steals only a magazine of 20 yuan.
More than ten years ago, there was a rich woman in a community who blew herself up and stole, and she confessed: "I am not short of money, but I like to steal things... When I steal something, I'm scared, but there's also pleasure..."
Anyone who has seen the movie "Lady with a Thousand Faces" will not forget the banker's beautiful wife. She entertained guests at home and secretly stole their jewelry. But later she found that the guests' expensive jewelry had no loss at all because they bought insurance, which made her very disappointed.
Some experts have explained that the psychological need for theft is related to the experience of earlier childhood.
Case:
There is a girl with good family conditions, Xiao Min, in her childhood, her parents are not in harmony, busy with the war between the two people. Therefore, no matter how hard she tries to earn performance and wants to please her parents, she cannot get their attention.
Troublemaking is one of the easiest methods to think of. At first, she stole her father's money, her parents thought she was just curious, and did not care too much, but then she began to take the things of her classmates, although they were some inconspicuous stationery, every time she found her stealing, her parents would be angry, and even beat her, and Xiaomin found the feeling of "you finally care about me" in the scolding of her parents.
As a result, the way of stealing things to attract attention has also continued.
Besides, the executive who stole sandwiches, he couldn't afford it? Does he really want to eat? Not necessarily, behind this, it is very likely that it is caused by the absence of some problem in childhood.
Many years ago, the Nanjing Morning Post reported such an incident: a rich man with a house and a car and a prominent reputation, and a migrant girl who came from rural Anhui To work. Unexpectedly, after the rich man hired a migrant girl as a little nanny, he stared at her room every day, as long as he found that there was change, he secretly picked it up, even 1 dime was not spared, and a total of 71.6 yuan was stolen for more than 4 months.
Later, the migrant sister resigned and wanted to get back the 71.6 yuan, but unexpectedly, she was rejected. The owner said that everything in the house was his home, including of course the change on the table.
Zhou Zhengyou, a psychologist at Nanjing Medical University, said it was not surprising that some rich people had a "money fetish". In particular, people who were once very poor and later became rich by doing business to make money, because they feel that money is not easy to come by, so they attach great importance to small money.
Often, when you see a penny on the road, you will pick it up, and if you have a can, you will take it home and sell it.
But the "money-obsessed" rich man rarely steals, and when he sees other people's wallets, mobile phones and other money, he will not do it.
I believe that seeing this, you also have a scale in your heart. For children's education, the more something is missing, the more they will make up for it in adulthood.
This is also a warning to all parents: in the process of educating children, patience, love, respect, and tolerance are very important, and do not let our children make up for the lack of childhood in bad ways in adulthood.