<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="2" > Son: I am an orphan</h1>
Qiu Xiaoshu, who lives in Changsha, Hunan Province, approached a reporter for help, saying that his son swung a knife at himself on his 54th birthday.
Qiu Xiaoshu said that his son was originally sensible and self-motivated, and when he was 13 years old, he was specially recruited into the sports brigade of the armed police headquarters to learn Sanda, and later enlisted in the army in 2010 and became an air force. After retiring from the army, Qiu Xiaoshu's son went to a local technical school to become a teacher, but in the two years of retiring from the army, Qiu Xiaoshu's own son's temperament changed greatly, and he was no longer his former personality.
Qiu Xiaoshu showed the reporter some of her chat records with her son Qiuping, in the chat record, Qiuping said a lot of words like "don't blame me for not filial piety", "I am an orphan" full of disgust for her mother, it seems that Qiuping is very dissatisfied with her mother, so what is the reason for Qiuping's dissatisfaction?
The reporter then interviewed Qiuping's colleagues, who said that Qiuping is usually introverted and has no contradictions with others, but for Qiuping's family affairs, colleagues said that they could not evaluate too much, only saying that family education can achieve a person, but also ruin a person.
So after being persuaded by the reporter, Qiuping agreed to talk to his mother in person.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > mother once knifed her son for "wild man"? </h1>
As soon as Qiu Ping entered the door of his mother's house, he directly ignored his mother and walked towards his son, who was more than 1 years old, and Qiu Xiaoshu also began to blame his son.
Qiu Xiaoshu said that she and her son had a conflict at the beginning of the year, but because the son bowed his head first, he also forgave his son, who knew that later the son directly took a knife to cut her.
QiuPing said that he admitted that he did take a knife to his mother at that time, but it was also a momentary impulse, when the reporter said that Qiu Xiaoshu was his mother after all, Qiuping said that after having a man, he felt that Qiu Xiaoshu was already a stepmother.
Qiu Ping told reporters that after Qiu Xiaoshu met a man, he completely ignored the family, and even eloped with the man, and he just quarreled with his mother, and the mother could leave her one-year-old son alone at home.
However, Qiu Xiaoshu did not agree with his son's statement, saying that his son was born out of nothing. Qiu Ping retorted that Qiu Xiaoshu was once in a bad mood because of a quarrel with the man, and after the quarrel, he took a knife to cut himself.
The two men argued with each other and quarreled across the living room.
The reporter learned from the mouth of the neighbor that the man Qiu Xiaoshu interacted with was named Li Bing, who was once the head of the folk art troupe and came to Changsha for half a year to take his grandson, and then he took the initiative to pursue Qiu Xiaoshu, who could sing and dance, and Qiu Xiaoshu, who had been single for many years, quickly came together with Li Bing, and sometimes even threw his one-year-old grandson to the care of his eighty-year-old mother.
Qiu Xiaoshu's mother told reporters that the conflict between Qiu Xiaoshu's mother and son was because of Li Bing, and at this time Li Bing just came to Qiu Xiaoshu's home.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="17" > mother's failed marriage leaves permanent scars on her son</h1>
Li Bing said that Qiu Xiaoshu is a very perfect partner in his eyes, in order to get his mother-in-law to agree, Li Bing also wrote a letter to Qiu Xiaoshu's mother, and he has also heard about the quarrel between Qiu Xiaoshu's mother and son, but it is not easy to say anything.
Qiuping said that he was not opposed to his mother's remarriage, but not the left one and the right one, because his mother's previous five failed relationships and marriages had left a deep shadow on him. QiuPing told reporters that Qiu Xiaoshu had let the man who was in love with her tie him to the door of the morgue and beat him, when he was only twelve years old, Qiuping said that he hoped that his mother could find a more reliable man and be safe and stable together.
The next day, the two came to the community service center for mediation, under the persuasion of Secretary Cao, Qiuping apologized to his mother, Qiuping also promised to respect his mother's private life, the two signed a mediation consent, qiu Xiaoshu also showed a smile.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="21" > communication is a good medicine to solve misunderstandings</h1>
Qiu Xiaoshu's mother and son actually have a very good relationship, and after mediation, Qiu Xiaoshu also said that he would always love his son. In fact, in the final analysis, the misunderstanding between Qiu Xiaoshu's mother and son is because of the lack of timely communication. When we interact with people, what ideas do we have to express, otherwise how will others know? After all, communication is the bridge that builds good relationships.