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Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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Huang Zhizhong was a late actor, and it was not until he was 39 years old that he became popular with the drama "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes". He starred in film and television dramas such as "Daming Dynasty 1566", "Cold Arrow", "Past of the Republic of China", "Chinese Expeditionary Force", "New Bright Sword", "Jinshui Bridge" and other film and television dramas, shaping the role of many tough guys on the screen.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

At present, the movie blockbuster "Peak Explosion" starring Huang Zhizhong and Zhu Yilong is being released in theaters, and the current box office has reached nearly 300 million, with a good reputation.

Huang Zhizhong and He Yin were once a model couple in the entertainment industry, and when Huang Zhizhong was discouraged, He Yin always stayed by his side, encouraging him and supporting him. Unfortunately, after Huang Zhizhong soared in his career, he did not stay with He Yin for a long time.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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Born in Tianjin in 1969, Huang Zhizhong began to learn to play basketball at the age of 8 and became a professional basketball player at the age of 14. However, he grew to 182 cm and was no longer long, 4 cm away from the standard height of 186 cm, and had to retire.

In 1991, Huang Zhizhong stood out among 20,000 candidates and was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama with the first place in professional courses.

After graduating from Chinese opera, Huang Zhizhong was assigned to the China Children's Art Theatre.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

In February 1997, Huang Zhizhong filmed the TV series "Mainlanders" on Hainan Island, and a romantic encounter awaited him.

One day, he found a portrait of a girl in the crew's artist's room. The girl in the portrait is dressed in white, with a smile like a spring breeze on her face, and has the classical beauty of Chinese women, and Huang Zhizhong is immediately deeply attracted.

The artist said to him, "Her name is He Yin, and she is the heroine of our play." ”

He Yin has played pomegranate in the Qiong Yao drama "Qingqing River Grass" a few years ago, and played purple smoke and became popular in "Ghost Husband", known as "Qiong Yao Beauty".

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Although he has not yet met, Huang Zhizhong has already fallen in love with He Yin in the portrait. He loves to run to the artist's room when he has nothing to do, and the artist jokingly asks him if he is in love with her? Why don't you give this painting to you?"

Huang Zhizhong was immediately embarrassed, and his face was red.

A week later, He Yin entered the crew, and she warmly and generously held out her hand to Huang Zhizhong, who nervously did not know how to be good.

He Yin did not have a star shelf, and her gentle and sweet smile instantly hit Huang Zhizhong's heart. At the moment of holding her hand, Huang Zhizhong secretly said in his heart: "She is my wife in this life." ”

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong and He Yin play a newlywed couple in the play, and in contact, Huang Zhizhong feels that He Yin is a very understanding, gentle and lovely girl.

Therefore, Huang Zhizhong plucked up the courage to create every opportunity to pursue He Yin.

At that time, the weather was very cold, He Yin's clothes were very thin, and whenever she finished shooting a shot, Huang Zhizhong would take a thick dress and cover her, and then hand her the hot water prepared in advance to warm her up.

Sichuan sister He Yin loves to eat spicy, and Huang Zhizhong, who does not eat spicy, carries a rice bowl with her every day to eat peppers, although it is a mess of spicy, and a strong thought is too delicious.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong's careful consideration made He Yin very moved, and at the same time, he was impressed by his acting talent and professionalism.

The two hearts are getting closer and closer, and they fake it and become a couple in love.

At that time, Huang Zhizhong was an unknown small actor, and He Yin was young and beautiful and famous, and there was no shortage of excellent men around her, and many friends opposed her being with Huang Zhizhong.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

He Yin's parents did not agree at first, He Yin is from Chengdu, Huang Zhizhong is from Tianjin, the living habits of the north and south are not the same, and they also have to face the situation of separation between the two places, and they are afraid that their daughter will suffer losses.

Huang Zhizhong understood the old man's mood, he specially returned to Chengdu with He Yin, was very filial to He Yin's parents, and also learned Sichuan cuisine.

One day, He Yin's father suddenly fell ill, and Huang Zhizhong carried the old man from the fifth floor to the hospital and took care of him like a son, which finally impressed He Yin's parents.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

In October 1997, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin entered the palace of marriage, only 6 months after they had known each other.

Huang Zhizhong only has 20,000 yuan in savings and can only rent a small house in Beijing as a new house.

Huang Zhizhong was very guilty and said to his wife, "You have suffered with me. ”

He Yin sincerely said that as long as two people love each other, this bit of suffering is nothing, and it will definitely get better in the future.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong's eyes were moist, and he swore to his wife: "I will work hard to create a comfortable living environment for you and your future children." ”

After the marriage, He Yin returned to Sichuan, Huang Zhizhong stayed in Beijing, and the two lived the life of a cowherd and weaver girl, relying on letters and telephones to pour out their thoughts.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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In order to let his wife live a good life, Huang Zhizhong held his breath and filmed everywhere. He has played roles in film and television dramas such as "The Gate of the Mansion", "Evidence of Guilt", "Mission", "Infernal Affairs 3" and other film and television dramas, many of which are well-known dramas, but Huang Zhizhong did not leave any impression on the audience.

He Yin's career is booming, she has played the heroine in "Gone with the Wind", "Good Father and Good Wife" and other dramas, and also won the title of "Top Ten" actors in Sichuan Province.

Whenever Huang Zhizhong and He Yin attended the event together, others would always introduce: "This is He Yin's husband." ”

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

When Huang Zhizhong and He Yin went to the street together, people always surrounded He Yin and left him out in the cold.

Few men in the world want to live under the aura of their wives, and Huang Zhizhong's self-esteem has been hurt.

Huang Zhizhong, who was in a frustrated mood, became angry and often quarreled with He Yin for a small matter.

One day, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin had a disagreement on performance, and he blurted out: "I am a nameless little actor, you are a big star, of course you will not listen to my opinion!" He Yin was deeply aggrieved.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

After each quarrel, they swore never to quarrel again, but it was not long before the war broke out again.

One day at the end of 2001, a tired He Yin returned home from filming and found that the refrigerator at home was empty. She said, "Why is there nothing in the house?" ”

Unexpectedly, this unintentional sentence touched Huang Zhizhong's sensitive nerves, and he said unhappily: "I am not a nanny, who stipulates that everything in the house must be prepared by me?" ”

Tired and hungry, He Yin's anger also jumped up, asking Huang Zhizhong if he should share the housework?

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

The two quarreled again, and Huang Zhizhong said that he did not deserve her, slammed the door and went out, and did not go home late at night.

He Yin was not at ease, and went out to look for nearly two hours before finding Huang Zhizhong, who was drunk and drunk, in a restaurant.

He Yin helped him back to his home, and Huang Zhizhong beat his chest and cried: "What a man I am, I am so tired in life, I can't stand it anymore!" ”

He Yin felt sorry for her husband and understood that the success of her career had made her husband have an inferiority complex.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

The next day, after Huang Zhizhong woke up, He Yin said sorry for not understanding him in the past, and said that Huang Zhizhong will always be the best actor in her mind, and his age is the golden age of male actors, and he will succeed in the future.

Huang Zhizhong was very touched by his wife's words and vowed that he would not disappoint her.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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In 2002, He Yin became pregnant, and the pregnancy reaction was very severe, vomiting every day and unable to eat.

At this time, Huang Zhizhong received a film contract to play the second male in "Warm Winter", and he very much wanted to take this scene, and he could not rest assured that his pregnant wife was not.

He Yin asked him not to worry about her, saying that he was not so squeamish and relieved.

Huang Zhizhong went to shoot a scene, He Yin was afraid that her husband would be distracted, obviously just vomited, but called him to say that he had just eaten a large bowl of rice, and everything was fine.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

One day, He Yin accidentally fell and showed signs of miscarriage, but did not tell Huang Zhizhong that he had been lying in the hospital for three days.

After Huang Zhizhong returned home after filming and learned about his wife's situation, his heart was full of guilt.

In September 2002, He Yin gave birth to a fat son, named Huang Boyuan.

Huang Zhizhong wanted to take care of his wife and children at home, but He Yin asked him to go out and concentrate on filming, without worrying about family affairs.

Before his son was full moon, Huang Zhizhong went to shoot a scene in a foreign country.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

In fact, which woman who has just become a mother does not want her husband to accompany her, but He Yin gritted her teeth and carried it down for her husband's career.

Huang Zhizhong's excellent acting skills have gradually given him a good reputation in the circle, and his fame is getting bigger and bigger.

He Yin was happy for her husband, and Huang Zhizhong also swept away his past inferiority and became more and more confident.

At the end of 2005, the big director Zhang Li invited Huang Zhizhong to play the Qing official Hai Rui in "Daming Dynasty 1566", which was a perfect opportunity for him, but he was afraid that he would not be able to control the role.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

He Yin encouraged him: "If you don't try, how will you know that you are not acting well?" ”

He Yin found a large amount of historical materials of Hai Rui and helped Huang Zhizhong read the script to analyze the characters, and Huang Zhizhong gradually entered the state of Hai Rui's role.

Due to the needs of the plot, Huang Zhizhong wants to lose weight quickly. He does not eat staple foods every day, eats only eggs, and does a lot of exercise. In 12 days, Huang Zhizhong lost 19 pounds.

In the 5 months of filming, Huang Zhizhong strictly controlled his diet and ate less than 15 kilograms of grain.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong was hungry every day and couldn't sleep at night, but it was He Yin's encouragement on the phone that made him persist.

After the broadcast of "Daming Dynasty 1566", the praise was overwhelming, and Huang Zhizhong's role of Qingguan Hairui deeply touched the audience, and many crew members offered him high remuneration to shoot.

He Yin was happy for her husband in her heart, and a friend reminded her: "Huang Zhizhong is getting hotter and hotter now, you should keep him closely." ”

He Yin believes in her husband's personality, and Huang Zhizhong also promises not to do anything to be sorry for her.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

He Yingan was the woman behind her husband, and Huang Zhizhong had experienced that feeling of loss before, and felt that the husband and wife should move forward together. Therefore, he encouraged his wife to make a comeback and play a couple with He Yin in the TV series "Original Sin".

Huang Zhizhong's mobile phone is full of photos of his wife and children, mentioning that his wife and children are full of tenderness: "There is a division of labor in our family, my mother focuses on learning, and my father focuses on entertainment." My son is very funny little adult. ”

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong, whose family and beauty are thriving in his career, was broadcast simultaneously by 6 TV series in 2009 and was praised by the media as "a brother of TV dramas." ”

The TV series "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes" was broadcast on CCTV golden file, Huang Zhizhong pressed the male Number One Sun Honglei, perfectly interpreted the big brother Yang Liren, who was full of personality charm, defeated many powerful male stars, and won the 2010 Magnolia Emperor and Feitian Award.

 

Huang Zhizhong worked hard to become the "Emperor of Double Materials", and his wife He Yin shed tears of excitement.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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Huang Zhizhong, who became a late bloomer, was deeply grateful to his gentle and virtuous wife: "I feel very happy to be able to marry such an excellent Sichuan girl as a wife like He Yin!" ”

Huang Zhizhong buys vegetables and cooks when he is not filming, which is no different from the men who pass the day. In the eyes of outsiders, Huang Zhizhong is a model husband in the entertainment industry.

The good things in the world are not firm, and the clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle. The exemplary couple in the entertainment industry eventually reached a regrettable ending.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

In 2011, when Huang Zhizhong and He Yin's "Home Cooking" was popular, the media filmed Ke Lan staying in Huang Zhizhong's apartment overnight, and the news of Huang Zhizhong's divorce came out. The report was strongly denied by Curran's side.

A producer told reporters that they divorced in January 2011, and He Yin originally wanted to save the marriage, but Huang Zhizhong was very resolute, and He Yin had to agree to divorce.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

According to He Yin tearfully told his friend that he and Huang Zhizhong had lived together for 13 years, and Huang Zhizhong had never said that he was not good, so this marriage was divorced "unclear".

An agent revealed to reporters that Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan had a good feeling when filming "The Right Way in the World is Vicissitudes", and it is estimated that they have been together for more than two years.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry
Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

After Huang Zhizhong's underground affair with Ke Lan was exposed, his ex-wife He Yin faced the media with no complaining tone and tolerated sending her blessings: "If Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan really come together, I bless them and wish them well." ”

He Yin's attitude is very gentle and atmospheric: "I have lived with Huang Zhizhong for 13 years, and I thank him from the bottom of my heart for giving me and my children happiness. Although we broke up, Huang Zhizhong and I will always be friends and relatives forever. ”

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

The clichéd story that husband and wife can share hardships but cannot share wealth has been staged in the past, the present, and the future, which is human nature.

Women can't pay for men without a bottom line, and don't have too many illusions about men, and maintain financial and spiritual independence.

People sympathized with He Yin and scolded Huang Zhizhong as a "scumbag" who abandoned his wife and son.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong told People Weekly that "it is difficult for a clean official to judge family affairs, and a slap cannot be made." I don't have anything to explain, and after saying it, it is also someone else's plate of wine.

He said: "You have fought hard for this family, you have taken on this responsibility, when you end this relationship, you have to walk like a man, you should leave everything behind, carry the bag and leave." ”

"I've always respected my choice, and I feel that this letting go is also a responsibility, responsible for myself, responsible for life."

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong also said that this incident was particularly harmful to Ke Lan, and he was very sorry for Ke Lan.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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After Huang Zhizhong divorced He Yin, his son Huang Boyuan lived with He Yin.

Huang Boyuan felt that his father had abandoned them and stopped calling him father.

Huang Zhizhong felt guilty about his son and regretted not giving his son a complete family. He may not be a good husband, but strives to be a good father.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong and He Yin reached a consensus to raise their son together and create a harmonious environment for their son.

He bought toys for his son, invited the mother and son to eat, and ordered dishes that his son loved to eat.

Under the continuous efforts of Huang Zhizhong, his son finally slowly accepted him. When Huang Boyuan was 16 years old, he was sent abroad by his parents to go to high school, and finally shouted "Daddy" at the airport, and Huang Zhizhong burst into tears.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Now 19 years old Huang Boyuan has been admitted to a drama school in Canada, he inherited his parents' good genes, sunny and handsome, recently participated in the "Junior Rap Project" variety show, and another "star second generation" is about to debut.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

After He Yin's divorce, Huang Xiaoming and Chen Kun's classmate Xu Yunfan pursued He Yin.

Xu Yunfan was 9 years younger than He Yin, so at first He Yin did not dare to accept it.

Xu Yunfan is a psychologically mature man, he is very good to He Yin's son, often playing with the child, and over time it has touched He Yin's heart.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

In 2013, He Yin and Xu Yunfan remarried, and Huang Boyuan had a complete home.

Now 54-year-old He Yin still looks young and beautiful, and women's happiness and unhappiness are written on their faces.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong, 52, has been with Ke Lan, 49, for 10 years and is still not married. On August 31 this year, the two were photographed eating at a restaurant, looking extremely comfortable and looking like they were quiet.

Perhaps they despised the reputation of husband and wife, and two free souls did not need the shackles of a marriage book.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry
Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

Huang Zhizhong and He Yin both found people and lifestyles that suited them, and each of them was well.

Love can not be forced, marriage does not need to be forced, many people's lives are more than a relationship experience, until the end never know who the person who is suitable for themselves is.

Huang Zhizhong: Left his wife for 13 years, and was with Ke Lan for 10 years but did not marry

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