About my mother, my mother's father

Yesterday was still rainy, today the sky has been sunny, the sun is very good, today is Sunday, the lover is reading, the child is learning, I am thinking back to the story of the mother.

In her mother's account, there are not many things about her father, and perhaps in her mother's heart, the memory left by her father is neither deeply loving nor deeply resentful.

Mother's hometown in Shandong, in that era, boys will take relatives at a very young age, married wives will be a few years older than themselves, so the mother's father is only a dozen years older than the mother, then my grandfather should not understand, how to care for and love his children, there is one thing, the mother still remembers, that is, once in the New Year, other children have flower clothes to wear, she also wanted to buy one, the mother's biological mother was still there, because of economic difficulties, did not meet the mother's wishes, The mother began to cry, at this time, the mother's father returned, saw the crying mother, picked her up, helped her to the bicycle, took her to the market and pulled a flower cloth, to fulfill the mother's wish, that is, the mother's earliest happy memory of her father.

But soon, my mother lost her biological mother when she was not yet six years old, and after a while, my stepmother entered the house, and my mother's life became more and more sad, so in her story to me, most of them were about the sad and sad things in the past, how a person spent that gray time at a young age.

After the stepmother entered the door, his father's attitude towards him also changed somewhat, because the stepmother played some bad role among them, so that there was also a distance between her and her father, and the distance was getting farther and farther.

Mother in the age of being able to do housework, she rarely went to her grandmother's house, returned home, did everything at home, once she made a meal, she ate it first, and then waited for her grandfather to leave work, and brought the meal to him, and her grandfather actually trained her, why did she eat first. Later, the mother would rather be hungry than eat first, however, once the mother made a lot of meals, waiting for the grandfather to return, did not expect that the grandfather actually ate all the food, did not ask the mother whether she had eaten, how disappointed and sad the hungry mother was.

Because of the stepmother's provocation, there will be some contradictions between the mother and her father, once did not know what happened, the mother's father actually wanted to beat her, because living in this environment, the mother's personality is very stubborn, and also collided with her father, everything said was reasonable, so that her father was speechless, then the other uncles in the family came out, they all stood on the mother's side, gave her some warmth and strength.

In this family environment, the mother's life is so difficult, so when she reached the age of marriage, she did not hesitate to choose my father who was far away in Xinjiang, with only one photo, because in her heart there was only one belief, leaving this home, the farther away the better.