Hello everyone! Today, let's talk about how I went on a blind date, in a word, it was a stomach of grievances and a smile. Don't look at me now, in fact, when I was young, I was also a child who grew up in bitter water, and finding a daughter-in-law is as important to me as fighting for my life.
It is said that at that time, men and women got married early, and as soon as they reached the age, aunts came to my house with photos to talk about matchmaking. At that time, there was no such thing as free love, and I could only rely on others to introduce me, and I was like a headless fly, stuffed into the blind date circle by the left and right of the family.
I remember one time when I was at a big blind date and sat with a group of strangers, and the air was filled with embarrassment. I thought to myself, where is this place for me to find my daughter-in-law, it is even more messy than the vegetable market. I couldn't even drink a sip of water, and I just wanted to get through it and go home as soon as possible.
At that moment, a beautiful girl sat down across from me. My eyes lit up and I thought I had come to the right place this time. I began to talk about myself, but the girl only nodded faintly. I couldn't figure out what she was thinking, so I had to chat slowly with the smiling face. At the end, the girl suddenly asked me if I was hungry, and then Ma Yu ordered a table of food. I'm so happy, I feel like I've finally found a good partner who knows the warmth and cold.
When I had finished eating, the girl smiled at me, and then she took out her purse and asked me how much it was? As a result, I never expected that the girl disappeared immediately after leaving, and never appeared again.
This incident taught me that blind dates must be sincere, and material conditions cannot be used as bargaining chips, and who pays for it depends on the favorability of both parties. When we go on a blind date, everyone is equal, there is no distinction between high and low. We can't pretend to be rich in the second generation just to find a girlfriend, and we can't just let girls pay for it, we have to understand this truth.
In those years, I participated in several large-scale blind date activities, although I never met the right one, but it also gave me a lot of valuable experience. First of all, we can't measure marriage by money, and we can't look down on others because of material conditions. We should look at each other's sincerity and authenticity. Secondly, we have to be respectful at all times, and be patient and kind to each other. In the end, we have to be good at observing and thinking to see if the other party is in tune with us.
Blind date, in the final analysis, still depends on fate. Maybe you look at people and you're suitable, but they don't necessarily think you're in the eyes of the Dharma, maybe you look at people and don't feel it, but they think you're the right person. So, when we go on a blind date, we must show our truest side and don't deliberately hide anything. Remember, sincerity is the key to true love
