#为啥不给儿子找门当户对的亲家? #
It is a golden and jade good word summed up by the ancients in the practice of life for thousands of years. Finding a partner with comparable conditions in terms of economic strength, educational background, cultural accomplishment, family background, etc., and the same three views, has at least three major benefits: 1. It can shorten the run-in period between the two parties. Otherwise, you want to spend 100 yuan to watch a blockbuster, but she wants to save money, stay at home and watch a series, how can you talk about it. 2. It is easy to communicate and understand between in-laws. If one side is a high-ranking official and a tycoon, and the other side is a farmer or an ordinary worker, what do the two sides have in common, how to establish an equal relationship, will there be an embarrassing situation in which one side looks up to the other. 3. The mother-in-law relationship is relatively easy to handle. It is relatively common for mothers-in-law in the city to look down on daughters-in-law born in the countryside. The mother-in-law may dislike the daughter-in-law's hygiene, way of doing things, and living habits.
There are two sides to everything, and the same is true for marriages. Choosing the right person, the current marriage is just a business transaction, a sale, both parties only consider economic conditions, family background and other hardware, and do not pay much attention to whether the two parties have feelings, both sides only face whether the wealth is equal, so that both parties lose the right to choose true love, have to be subordinate to the needs of the family. Now, the divorce rate of the post-00s generation is said to have reached 57%, and the right match cannot bring stability to the marriage.
