What is marriage? Marriage is a social contract that two people determine in order to live together. Getting married is when two people who love each other are determined to live together!
Marriage is not your temporary nest of comfort, nor is it the destination of sexual desire! The earliest stages of marriage, that is, between family members, are formed by using women as labor force, so that sexual desires can be satisfied.
From the middle stage, human beings began to pay attention to the inheritance of blood, so at that time, marriage was to have their own children and inherit their own bloodline!
Today, the status of women is constantly improving, the concept of life is constantly opening, and marriage has become a double integration of two people's psychology and physiology! In real life, the marriage we imagine is always beautiful, but is it really so?
Maybe most people's marriages are like this! But since we are married, it means that the contract must be made, we must respect the contract, respect the marriage, even if there is no romantic relationship, we must try to maintain this marriage!
If not for the marriage itself was a hoax, a conspiracy!
In college, Zhu Hai and Nana met and fell in love, and the love secreted by the hormones of first love was always so beautiful, but this relationship was not as smooth as imagined, and on the eve of Nana and Zhu Hai's graduation, Nana proposed to Zhu Hai to break up.
The reason for this is that the two have differences about their future plans, Nana wants to develop in a big city, Zhu Hai wants to continue to study for graduate school, after the breakup, Nana goes to the big city as she wishes, and Zhu Hai stays in the school to review and review.
It was for this reason that the two never contacted each other again, and two months later, Nana suddenly made a phone call to Zhu Hai, because this phone call completely changed the lives of Zhu Hai and Nana, and also completely changed the lives of the two families.
The content on the phone is that Nana is pregnant, and Nana on the other end of the phone says that the child is Zhu Hai's and needs Zhu Hai to be responsible for Nana, and tells Zhu Hai that she is pregnant with twins.
After Zhu Hai knew, although he couldn't believe it, he still replied to Nana responsibly, and if it was his own child, he would definitely be responsible for the foundation.
Then, Zhu Hai informed his parents that Zhu Hai grew up in an authentic rural family in the countryside, the family conditions were difficult, Zhu Hai's parents lived by farming, and it was not easy for their son to go to college.
Single-mindedly wanting his son to finish his studies, he was not ready for his son to start a family, and now when he heard the news, he was confused and did not know how to do it, but he still decided to face it bravely.
Zhu Hai's father said to Zhu Hai, as long as it is what you do, we must take responsibility!
The parents decided to let Zhu Hai stop the examination plan, take Nana home to take good care of her, and take the initiative to contact Zhu Yu's parents to discuss marriage.
I thought that the matter could end here, and the feelings of the two young people could also be successfully concluded, who knew that after a series of twists and turns, the two families had a dispute over the wedding.
The man asked the woman to buy a house and paid a dowry of 100,000 yuan, in addition to three gold and a mink coat, Zhu Hai's family was already very poor, how could he afford such a high marriage fee.
Zhu Hai's mother said to Nana: The conditions in our family are not good, but you will never treat you badly when you marry, can this dowry money be less?
But Nana's mother said: My daughter is pregnant with the kind of your son, or the twin kind, these two children are not worth a hundred thousand?
Zhu Hai immediately replied when he saw this, your family wants a bride price with me, then we are going to ask you for a dowry, how much dowry will your family give Nana?
The two families were very unhappy because of the dowry issue, the marriage had not been negotiated for a long time, and Nana was six months pregnant, and her stomach was getting bigger and bigger.
Really can't come up with the money of the Zhu Hai family, Nana's parents can only take the initiative to contact Zhu Hai's parents, the two families continue to discuss the marriage of the two young people, and finally decided that the Zhu Hai family will not buy a house first, the two rent a house to get married, wait until three years later to buy a house for the little two, Zhu Hai will give Nana a dowry of 100,000 yuan, and with a mink coat!
Since Zhu Hai's parents thought that they were sorry for Nana for not buying a house, on the wedding day, Zhu Hai's father called Nana's bank card for 10,000 yuan!
Nana gave birth to a pair of twin sons three months later, named Zhu Qiang and Zhu Hao respectively, the Zhu Hai family did not like the twin sons very much, Zhu Hai's mother took the initiative to go to Zhu Hai's house to serve Nana Yuezi, day and night to help the two children watch the child.
In addition, Zhu Hai also found a job that suited him and was determined to get along with Nana.
Day by day, Zhu Hai and his wife began to quarrel, no matter how big and small things can not be calmed down, Zhu Hai and his parents several times mentioned that they want to divorce Nana, but they were suppressed by their parents, called children, no matter how to give the children a complete home!
However, after a fierce quarrel between Nana and Zhu Hai, Nana packed up her things and returned to her mother's house, leaving her two children behind.
Many times to the mother's house to pick up Nana, Nana did not come back, and finally Nana disappeared without a trace, asked Nana's parents the whereabouts of Nana, Nana's parents did not answer, two years later, the two children are also two years old.
However, the Zhu family found that the older the two children became, the less like their son Zhu Hai, and Nana and Nana's parents had never asked about the two children in the past two years, which made the Zhu family suspicious and decided to do paternity tests for the two children.
After getting the paternity test results, it was a thunderbolt for Zhu Hai and his parents, and the two children, Zhu Qiang and Zhu Hao, did not have any blood relationship with the Zhu family!
The Zhu family immediately contacted Nana's parents, and Nana's parents did not come out behind closed doors, and there was no way for the Zhu family to contact the media to solve the problem. With the help of journalists, the Zhu family finally met Nana's parents and obtained Nana's contact information at the same time.
Nana's phone was dialed, Nana's voice came from the other end of the phone, and after the staff confirmed the truth of the matter with Nana, Nana bluntly admitted that the two children were not Zhu Hai's children.
Moreover, Nana also said that before getting married, she told Zhu Hai that the child in her belly was not Zhu Hai's, and at that time, Zhu Hai knew that the child was not her own and was willing to marry Nana.
Subsequently, Zhu Hai took out the chat records of Nana telling herself that she was pregnant, and the chat records clearly stated that the child was Zhu Hai's! Obviously, it's lying.
When the mediator contacted Nana again, the phone never got through!
The employees asked Zhu Hai how to solve this problem, Zhu Hai said that I raised these two children for two years, and when I heard them call me Dad, my heart was warm, but I couldn't live without my own children, and I hoped that Nana could take back the two children and compensate them for their mental losses and maintenance for these two years.
Zhu Hai's father in front of his father, when he got the paternity test, his world collapsed, and now he suddenly knows that the child is not his home, and it is conceivable that his heart is extremely broken!
I hope That Nana can find the child's biological father and give the two children a complete home, it doesn't matter how the adults are, don't ruin the lives of the two children.
Unable to contact Nana, Zhu Hai could only sue Nana in court!
The first two times the child was taken away, Zhu Qiang and Zhu Hao were raised by the woman, and the woman was required to compensate Zhu Hai for mental damages and child support of 300,000 yuan!
Apply to the court for the dissolution of the marriage between the two! In the end, the court ordered the two children to be raised by Nana, compensated Xiao Wu for mental damage and maintenance fees totaling 80,000 yuan, and dissolved the marriage relationship.
After the matter was completed, Zhu Hai and Nana's matter was solved, but the two two-year-old children suffered, and since then the two children have nothing to do with the Zhu family, what kind of living environment will these two children face in the future, whether they can see their biological father, these two children really feel pain from the heart, after all, the child is innocent!
The two children also asked Zhu Hai's father: Grandpa, can you come to celebrate my birthday when we have a birthday?
Zhu Dahai's father choked up and agreed! Although there are many reluctances, it cannot change the reality!
A flash to the day of the birthday of the two children, Zhu Hai's father bought a lot of favorite snacks and toys for the child to Nana's home to celebrate the child's birthday, Nana's father saw that it was Zhu Hai's father, not only did not entertain Xiao Wu's father, but also threw all the things that Zhu Hai's father bought outside the door, after the father came home, Zhu Hai's father cried and said, I only want to complete the child's last wish!
Seeing this, many people will say that since they have all been sent away, they should not contact again, and they can't put it down, and some people scold Nana for cheating on the Zhu family!
Others will say that after two years of raising, how to bear to send it back, the family is cruel enough, and what I want to say is that everything has a cause and effect, this series of things happened because the parents lacked the education of their children, if Nana's parents taught her how to love herself, Nana would not casually have sex with the opposite sex, and she would not get pregnant before marriage.
If Zhu Hai's parents had told Zhu Hai about the stakes of stealing the forbidden fruit, Zhu Hai wouldn't have had a relationship with Nana, and he didn't know how to protect himself, he wouldn't have carried such a big cauldron!
With the progress of society, people's minds have become more open, and some things can be avoided, teaching children how to protect themselves while teaching them to be literate? So as not to hurt others and harm yourself, right?