If you ask me: Do girls want to find someone they love or someone who loves themselves? Then I will try to answer you: then it may be better to understand your personality before you start choosing. Because it is particularly important for two people to be able to live in harmony in marriage, so if you are not necessarily very independent in personality and will like to rely on a girl who depends on your lover, then of course, it is better to choose someone who can let you rely on and accommodate you, then you may choose the person who loves you; but if you yourself like to be more free and have your own set of standards for the marriage partner, then you will naturally be more willing to choose the person you love.
Therefore, the point is, which of the two major zodiac signs in the zodiac is the most likely to be the pearl in the palm of the hand? Let's take a look.
Scorpio
Scorpio men have always had their own ideas in their hearts, they belong to a person with their own ideas, and their personality is also independent, so Scorpio men will be more inclined to choose some girls who are willing to worship their abilities in the choice of mates, and will also default to the concept that they are a big man and a wife is a small woman in the depths of their hearts. Therefore, in the bones of Scorpio men, they will be more willing to accommodate girls in their usual dating, and even to some extent, they will voluntarily acquiesce to the concept of "wife should be daughter pet".
So even if Scorpio's personality is high and cold, sometimes it will not be able to control the temper, but the Scorpio man belongs to the characteristics of loving you deeply or will be willing to favor the girl, as long as the girl does not make the mistake of violating the bottom line, the Scorpio man still belongs to the person who can be good after the quarrel, and will not worry too much with the girl. And if the Scorpio man really loves you, then he is even a person who is willing to achieve his wife and help him grow up to some extent.
Therefore, as long as the Scorpio man loves you deeply enough, it is true that he will regard his wife as a pearl in the palm of his hand, and the Scorpio man has always had a strong ability to empathize, even if sometimes the wife does not ask them for help, as long as the Scorpio man can't see the eyes or will take the initiative to help the girl in advance, at this point, many constellation boys may not be able to do it.
Cancer
Cancer men are still quite gentle, and even many times Cancer men have a sad and compassionate side, in other words, they are easy to be soft, the tear point is also very low, as long as you do not let the Cancer man feel uncomfortable and love you in the bones, cancer man's love for his wife is completely able to be on call without busy, even if the wife needs a Cancer man to pick up in the morning, as long as the Cancer man has time, he can also do it without complaint.
Therefore, the personality of Cancer men is indeed gentle and charming, and many girls are also in love with the gentleness of Cancer men, because Cancer's insight into people's hearts is not worse than Scorpio, so many times the wife wants what she does not want, Cancer men can do inner transparency, and the heart is like a mirror. Therefore, girls and Cancer men get along, it is simply too comfortable, do not have to worry about anything, Cancer can help you do well.
Therefore, Cancer men are indeed able to be very good to their wives and regard their wives as the type of pearl in their hands. Because for Cancer men, they attach great importance to small family life, and will not let their big rear be too busy, they are very good at handling internal and external things, as far as possible to give their wives and themselves a warm home, will regard their wives as their most precious family.