Children are the source of happiness for every family, and children's education problems are headaches for every family to mention.
We want our children to run as fast as rabbits, but we forget that children actually only have snail-like bodies, and we need to wait for them to grow up.
Raise your children as snails, and you'll understand their difficulties.
Writer Zhang Wenliang once wrote a prose poem called "Leading a Snail for a Walk":
"God gave me a task to take a snail for a walk. I couldn't go too fast, the snail had tried its best to climb, always moving a little bit at a time. I urge it, I scare it, I rebuke it, and the snail looks at me with apologetic eyes, as if to say, "People have done their best!" "I pulled it, I pulled it, I even wanted to kick it, the snail was injured, it was sweating, gasping for breath, crawling forward...
Since raising the child as a "snail", I have psychologically accepted his "slowness" and understood his difference, I am no longer as anxious and anxious as before, and the bad temper that was once irrepressible has also been successfully cured.
Slow as a snail, but also to give children unconditional love. Psychologist Rogers said: Love is a deep understanding and acceptance, but also a deep healing.
As written in "Child, Take Your Time": "I am willing to wait a lifetime for him to tie this bow with ease, with his five-year-old fingers." Child, you take your time, take your time. ”
May every parent understand the growth law of the child, accompany the child's life with love, and let this slow snail grow up happily and happily.
May parents in the world carry a snail heart and respect the rhythm of their children's growth.
The child who is watered by love must go more steadily and farther.
We would like to encourage all parents.
