Chat with a friend who has not been in touch for a long time, she is a full-time mother, 8 years, there is a child (boy) 7 years old, just in the first grade, sighed a bit of the past years, not surprisingly will inevitably talk about the relationship between children, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a variety of parents in the short most of the chat on the forget the trivial, more memorable is that she said that the child is very sticky to her, until now has not been divided into beds. At that time, I was stunned, but my friend seemed to enjoy the child's stickiness to her, and I didn't think there was anything wrong with this, and even felt that it showed that the mother took good care of the child. I had to swallow back the words of exhortation that "it is better to cultivate children's habit of sleeping in separate beds or even rooms as soon as possible".
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What I want to say is that children and parents, from birth, are not necessary and should not sleep in the same bed, because sleeping in a bed with adults is dangerous and even fatal for children.
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Infancy: Affects breathing of fresh air
As long as each of us is alive, the body is always in the work of metabolism, while asking for fresh oxygen from the surrounding air, it will also discharge carbon dioxide, during which the body will also emit heat and odors to the surrounding areas. And babies because the metabolism is generally higher than adults, they have higher requirements for fresh air, which can be demonstrated from the fact that babies are often more afraid of heat than adults and are more likely to sweat. At this time, you should also put ta next to an adult body that is several times larger than ta, for example, let you sleep next to an elephant, not only affect the breathing of fresh air, but also may have to breathe the carbon dioxide it emits, smell its body odor, will you feel comfortable?
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Early childhood: prone to dangerous sleep on the stomach
Because of the most primitive memory left in the womb, when the baby has the ability to turn over, it may unconsciously turn into a lieken sleep, the danger of lying on the stomach I believe many parents know, at this time, the parents' bed because of the large area, is equivalent to giving the baby to adjust the posture to sleep on the stomach.
1. The risk of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) occurring when infants sleep on their stomachs is 2.3-13.1 times higher than that of sleeping on their backs. The immaturity of the infant's cardiopulmonary skills during the critical growth period, coupled with external pressure (sleeping on the stomach, wrapped too tightly in the airway, etc.), can easily trigger SIDS
2. The baby will re-inhale the exhaust gas he exhaled, resulting in hyperco2emia and hypoxia;
3. Affect the baby's heat dissipation, thereby causing overheating, or sweat accumulation in the chest and causing eczema;
4. Affect the cardiovascular system self-regulation and regulation mechanism during sleep in newborns (especially 2-3 months), resulting in hypoxia.
5, adult quilts, pillows, medium and large plush dolls... These are a large volume and weight for babies, and once they are pressed, babies often do not have enough strength to pull out of them.
In these cases, if the baby is in his own independent small bed, it can greatly reduce the probability of occurrence.
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Infant age: The bed for adults is not suitable for ta
Open the bedding area of a treasure and a variety of shopping websites, it is not difficult to find that the gap between the bed and the bed is very large, which does have the reason for the brand premium and marketing methods, but it is undeniable that a good, well-designed bed that meets the needs of the human body can improve our sleep quality a lot, because it will take into account the human body structure, so that our bones, muscles and so on are in a comfortable level. Therefore, the adult's bed is mainly based on the adult's body and is not considered to be a baby.
In addition, as a bed where the baby sleeps, equipped with a guardrail to prevent rolling over is the most basic requirement, and it is difficult to achieve the bed of adults.
In addition, the height of the adult bed also limits the exercise and fun of getting on and off the bed when the baby can climb and run.
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Conclusion: There is no doubt that parents love their children, this is nature, but also hope to have a close parent-child relationship, but also hope that because they give their children enough love, can help them grow physically and mentally. But intimacy and love are not obtained by sticking together day and night, for example, when a child sleeps, he really just needs a small bed that belongs to him with a good sleep experience: flat, firm, clean, and safe!
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