How to get through the toughest times of your life

Most of the people who come to tell me that they can hardly survive, or don't know how to live, are mostly women in the period of lovelessness. Love that stops abruptly, marriages that collapse around the city, men and women who run to things and things, all say that the most bitter thing in this world is love, and if you don't lose your life for this, you will peel off the skin of someone. And then what? You have to be born again, and you have no choice.

Love will come and go, sometimes just a moment, sometimes it is a thousand turns, if you can enjoy the warmth of love, but also can bear the cold in love, then your love even if lost, it will be a memorial. But what is worth remembering is always the self who once paid affectionately, not the back that has blurred its face. If anyone says that they have only loved one person in their life, it must not be the one around them, some love is good to stay in the heart, some people are not worth waiting, turn around and leave and never say goodbye, is the decision that most people should choose. We are deeply distressed by the loss of love or marriage, because many women like to see their emotions as the most special kind, unconsciously put a lot of fantasies on the man, once lost of course, it is unacceptable, often feel that they will not be cute in the future and despair. But the truth is that our love is the same except for the two people in it, there is no happiness that cannot be reached perfectly, there is no separation that cannot be released, and there is no one who is the only one.

I have always believed that when I love, I can't ask everything to break through, and only when I can stop loving can I turn into a long stream of thin water, so as to survive the ups and downs in life. When you don't love, you can't break everything up and down, and only then can love turn into the warmth of memory, so as to retain a complete heart. When some people can no longer stay, some love can not continue, women should learn to let go in time, such a turn, even if not gorgeous, must be very beautiful, because there is our respect for emotions, tolerance for human nature, which is also a rare quality and cultivation. For women, the gain or loss of emotions may be the happiest and saddest thing. Many women's lives are entangled in this, they are not satisfied with what they get, they are not willing to lose, and the result is that both gain and loss are a lose-lose, and the saddest thing is that even their own fancy years are disappointed.

When you get it, you can enjoy love and marriage, living in the moment is a man's habit, why should a woman worry about the sky? I always feel that I have lost that and that, but if a woman has not really had the warmth and love of a man in this life, wouldn't it be even more a loss? If you lose it, go to reorganize the rivers and mountains to find another way to happiness, always think that this is also very difficult and difficult, but if a woman has not done a brave thing in her life, is it not also a pity? The road has always been at your own feet, if the wind and rain behind you have been shaking, it is better to change a direction, or change a companion, I believe that happiness will be waiting to meet you at the corner in front of you.

It is not wrong for us to love or not to love, but if we love, we must work hard to operate, even if we are about to lose, we must do the most calm redemption, to grow up with our lovers, maybe crossing this hurdle is your forever, this is to win. If you don't love, you must be brave to let go, even if you still have to endure the pain, you must accept the end in front of you, and strongly cross the man to complete your rebirth, which is also a win. Keeping people who love themselves is the wisdom and cuteness of women, we will give up people who do not love themselves because of such happiness, it is the maturity and tenacity of women, and we will be charmed because of such confidence. Women should occupy their own lives when they are young, in your youth, you are in charge, experience the courage to endure failure and lost love, to grasp their own lives when they are no longer young, and in your happiness you are in charge, calmly accept the results of gain and loss.

Life is full of women who have not lived well, and then men can't count on their children, and in such days, I only don't see herself. When men go far and children grow up, women's inner pain will be imposed on the child's small family, and such things have almost become "Chinese characteristics". Originally it was just an emotional gain and loss, a man's love and non-love, but the woman lost a lifetime of happiness and stability, even if the man is willing to be left by conscience, the marriage without love will be thin and distant, and the loneliness and coldness in marriage may be more terrible than a person's loneliness. A woman without a spiritual world, like duckweed in the wind, where she herself did not believe that it was the best arrangement, or for a better arrival, the result of course was that the good days were getting farther and farther away from her, and the soul had no other shore of happiness. If you don't have any new gains after you lose, it must be your own problem, if you can't face it squarely, then your loss will become worthless, and your whole life will become dull.

If we lose love, we should not lose anything else, such as school, work, money, hobbies, friends, etc., the so-called "misfortune is not alone", in fact, because someone can not extricate themselves for a long time in the things that make them miserable, so they have been in a trance to let themselves fall into round after round of mistakes. Of course, I can understand that many women in the period of lovelessness, even if they do not frantically break the net with the man, they will not have the heart to study and work, and even cannot sleep without eating or drinking. I am afraid that I still have the confidence and courage to face emotions again, and this is the most regrettable thing. To live well, no matter how painful it is, you must persist in struggling, stand up and walk hard, no one can face it for you, so that only you are your own hero. Only in this kind of persistence and attachment, the fading and rebirth of women will come faster, and you have no choice but to do so.

People's life is long, there will always be some difficult times, emotions, studies, work, setbacks in the face of difficulty, pain to the point of unspeakable, crying to listen to themselves, laughing to others to see, is our hard work to do our best life. Honey, sometimes we just need to be patient for a while, face the emotional origin and dispersion, face the joy and shallow sorrow of the flowers blossoming and falling, perhaps, so that we can really reach the far away we want to go...

(Editor-in-Charge: Li Donghai)