This morning opened Weibo, the hot search front row of the #International Don't Fight Kids Day#, immediately attracted the attention of the editor.
I thought it was a funny paragraph of the marketing number, but I never expected that this was actually a serious festival!
Many netizens sighed that the first time they heard about this festival, this festival came too late~
Some netizens have interpreted themselves on this festival...
Parents can't sit still: when is there an International Day of Not Dying Parents!!
He was beaten by his parents as a child
It was a childhood nightmare
Do you know the reasons for setting up this International Day of Not Hitting Children and Not Hitting Children?
In one children's experiment, researchers convinced more than 100 children that they had damaged valuables and found that children with spanking, slapping, and loud scolding mothers felt the least guilt. According to research by the National Institute of Mental Health, children who think about the wall will behave more badly than ordinary children, even if mothers will take the time to talk to them afterwards. The researchers believe that this is because children will use more misconduct to reciprocate the punishment of "mom and dad taking back their love". Children who are more punished tend to experience more misconduct, worse emotional states, and moral attitudes. Moreover, punishment can destroy the parent-child relationship, and the child does not want to follow the guidance of the parents.
Children regard their parents as important people to survive, and when we punish their children's mistakes in a rough way such as scolding, they often make children feel a great sense of anxiety, or accumulate very strong anger but may not dare to express it publicly. These emotions jump down and down in the child's body, can not calm the child, adrenaline soaring, it is difficult to calmly think and experience their own inner feelings and the inner feelings of others, and they cannot increase their ability to deal with such things.
Children do things wrong often because they lack a better understanding of the matter, or lack care and compassion for others, or can't find a better solution. None of these deficiencies can be solved by a single beating, but rather patience, clear instructions, compassion for the child's difficulties, understanding the child's needs, brainstorming with the child, and practicing better solutions.
Did you get beaten up when you were a kid?
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