In the early days of a relationship, women usually ask "What do you really like about me?" This seemingly simple question actually contains a lot of hidden information. The answer is incorrect, the favorability, the impression score is going to fall! So how do you answer that?
There are two main reasons why girls ask this. One, she wants to dominate your relationship and establish her own framework position. If you answer something like "because you look good" or "I like it when you see it," it's her heart. Enter her framework, your image score will definitely decline, and the emotional balance between the two will be unbalanced and inclined to her. What she asks, you answer, and won't the weight of your speech be lighter in the future?
Another reason is that she is testing your loyalty, and this test is plainly suppressing you. Your kindness to her will make her feel righteous. Now throw out a question with no standard answer and see if you will be obedient.
This kind of woman is slightly confident and slightly postured. But don't be confused by her question, you must see the essence of the problem clearly, in order to see the tricks. So what should be the most correct answer?
The reason the woman asks this question mentioned above is not really wanting to know why you like her, but with a different purpose.
For the true purpose of her question, you have to answer it according to two criteria.
One, to lower her identity. She uses her own way to suppress you and leave you in a passive state in your relationship. Instead, you have to reply to her this way. Can't let her test you, a big guy, you can't afford to test.
Second, the answer must not contain strong words of love. A lot of men think that women are pursued, and no, women are attracted. Have you ever seen any animal in nature that pursues the opposite sex? No; they all show off their talents or attract them with status. Birds, for example, lions, are in the case of driving away competitors, showing the ability to obtain the hearts of the opposite sex.
Strong correct answer
One, she asked, "What do you like about me?" You replied, "I am not used to your scourge on society, so I have been wronged and accepted you." Say that you don't have to worry about her leaving, if you want to get her heart, don't be afraid to lose her. After saying this, she will definitely get into trouble with you and send all kinds of cute head-knocking emojis. But it doesn't matter, your strong position is preserved.
Second, you can answer in the form of a storyteller, "On a sunny morning, I saw a rabbit bouncing on the street, and I thought whose little cuteness was lost, and I wanted to take it home." This answer should be based on the way you two know each other, if you don't know each other on the street, you need to refer to the above to make up another story.
Three, return the question to her and say something like," you ask me? Why not ask yourself why you are attracted to me, is it too good-looking, or is it too strange to dress"?
summary:
The above three methods can be used by yourself. The advantage is: skillfully answer her questions, while maintaining your strong position, so that the emotional genius is not unbalanced, but also suppress the arrogance of the momentum. One fell swoop is also good for feelings to warm up.