I believe that many parents have encountered such a problem, leading their children to visit shopping malls or supermarkets, when children encounter something they like, they must buy it, otherwise they will be thrown around and crying.
In such a situation, some parents often choose to compromise and meet the requirements of their children, but they do not know that this way will only make their children continue to do so next time, and even become more intense.
How should parents deal with this kind of problem? Let's explore it today.
First of all, in such a situation, our first reaction should be to take the child to a relatively quiet corner and snub the child, let the child sprinkle and cry for catharsis and release, and then wait for the child's emotions to stabilize before communicating.
This process is to let the child understand that crying does not solve the problem, this is just a kind of emotional catharsis, do not try to use the way of crying to force parents to compromise, so as to achieve their own goals.
At the same time, for such cases, I have the following schemes for your reference.
First, think free of money
To establish a correct concept for children, everything needs to be obtained through their own efforts and efforts.
Tell the child that what you want needs to fight for it yourself, you can arrange some work for the child, such as: tidying up his room, helping to clean up the dishes, or cleaning up the garbage, etc., but also exercising the child's labor and self-care ability.
After the child completes the task, the parent can meet the child's requirements, because the child will get more educational significance through this matter.
Cultivate values
Young children have no concept of the value of things, which need to be gradually formed through the guidance of parents and the teaching of words and deeds, parents must first establish a good image of rational consumption, thrift, thrift.
Secondly, tell the child that the price of the goods on different occasions is not the same, we should choose more affordable goods, you can use the children's favorite toys, books as an example, it is easier for children to understand.
Instilling in children the virtues of thrift and thrift, and establishing good values has a long-lasting and far-reaching impact on children.
Third, use the right way
Since we said before that it is wrong for children to use crying to achieve their own goals, what should be done? We want to teach children the correct way and method of education.
Guide children to express their ideas clearly through thinking, rationally communicating with their parents.
For example, if a child wants a toy, why do you want this toy? How can this toy help you? If this toy parent thinks it is too expensive, do you still want to buy it?
Through this kind of education, children can avoid thinking only of themselves, but learn to respect, understand and consider others, and at the same time improve children's thinking and language expression ability.
Life is full of education, but parents need to be good at thinking and reasonable guidance.
That's my advice, I hope it helps you.
Education is a long run, and the king is encouraged
Pay attention to the little tiger in the candy house, let's learn together, and give the best education for the child.