It is difficult for a person, a lifetime, to meet a person who he loves deeply and who loves himself. How much love, in fact, is the wrong love for a lifetime, can only look at it from a distance, think, read, look forward to... "If the two loves are long, they are in the twilight", fall in love with a person who cannot be together, please do this. Even if this life is destined to love and not to be loved, there are no regrets.
Don't destroy each other's families on impulse
Some people are more extreme, and will go directly to each other's homes to find the other half and let him give up. Harassing him without giving up is extreme and undesirable. In doing so, it hurts not only the other person but also you, so this is an act that will hurt each other, maybe you will make the other party hate you and make up your mind to leave you. The other party has a family, you can't be impulsive, you should stay rational, don't do things that hurt each other's family, if the other party happens to be single, the bright and upright pursuit of each other can be. Remember not to do something that hurts each other on impulse.
Take the initiative to back down: silently turn away and let each other go.
The TV series "When the Divorce Is Going On" tells such a story. Qian Dajin and Meng Shuiqing are a couple, Qian Dajin runs a company, Meng Shuiqing is a doctor, and they have a lovely daughter. One morning, Meng Shuiqing suddenly ran away from home. The reason for the run was perverse—she was unhappy. Later, the couple has been divorced, and there is no room for recovery. Two people separated for a while, and then got together again, and in the end they still couldn't get along well. When all the options have been tried, divorce is the best outcome. In the relationship, there are some cracks that cannot be repaired. For example, two people who do not have three different views, even if they accommodate each other and try to consider each other, will eventually "explode". After all, you can endure a moment and a half, you can't stand a lifetime. "Forbearance" is a stopgap measure, not a long-term solution. Fall in love with a person who has no chance of getting married, and don't have the idea of getting married. If you get married, from day one, it means divorce. It's not a good day to worry about. Singer Chen Jieyi said: "It is not so much the end as a new beginning, because the loss of love is always because there are some problems in the relationship, people's problems or environmental problems, and there will be a new road ahead." "We always have to go the new way, don't linger in unrealistic love.
Keep your distance and don't put your heart and soul into it
We are destined not to be together in this life, but we can't put it down for a while and a half, so keep our distance and stay away. Even if you miss it every day, because of the realistic distance, you can always make two people "not see each other for a lifetime", and the feelings will slowly fade. Distance can produce beauty, but distance can also invisibly block two people who love each other. Distance to play a role, then it is necessary to slowly reduce contact, or no contact, two people do not because of this relationship, regardless of all the efforts, let alone "fish dead net broken." Do not disturb and do not contact, even the best love will fade, not to mention the love that is doomed to have no ending.
As if it hadn't happened, each was fine
In this life and this life, you are doomed to not be together, and you may not be able to let go in a short period of time, so it is best to keep your distance and not to meet again if you can not meet. After all, distance produces not only beauty, but also other things, and when you think that this relationship was impossible before, you have to do it without disturbing each other or contacting each other. Time will heal everything, and even the best love will be diluted by time. Live your own lives as if the feelings between you never happened, and become strangers forgetting each other in the jianghu. At that time, you will understand how ridiculous the previous relationship was, but after all, it is also your own beautiful past. You will bring up your story to others very plainly, never to take it to heart again, and you will each be okay.
Emotional message: Not all efforts will have a response, not all love will be complete, so when your relationship has no ending, don't be too sad. After all, no one can say anything about feelings, there are many people who have the same experience as you, as long as you put down and dare to go out, the future will be more beautiful. People are born without death, and you can't be sure who will see you leave in the end, or who will be able to enter your life. But what you can understand is that those who can't really get to your heart in life are passers-by, so don't invest too much affection in those who don't have an ending. Don't lose the trust in your feelings because of love that has no ending. There are still many beautiful fates in this world, the rest of the time to improve yourself, love yourself well, you love yourself again, others will love you well.