Husband and wife quarrel is very normal, the so-called husband and wife is "bedside quarrel and bedside and", since they have become husband and wife, where is the overnight vendetta?
Of course, as a man, when arguing, often the actions are more rude, which makes people look like men seem to be a little cruel, and therefore some people think that men do not love their wives.
But this is not the case, except for a very few, most men will not do anything to their wives when arguing, and many times, choosing to leave is a man's favorite way to solve the problem.
Men are not good at verbal conflict, and they are not willing to beat their wives, is there any better way than to leave temporarily? As the saying goes, can't afford to hide?
However, this kind of avoidance is considered by some people to be not loving his wife, which is really a great injustice.
Recently, in a certain street in Chengdu, Sichuan Province, a couple fell into a quarrel, it seems that the two quarreled very badly, the wife actually sat on the ground, clutching her husband's clothes with her hands deadly.
To make such a move on the street, it can be said that it is bound to be caught in a fierce quarrel, and if you can still maintain your sanity, then who wants to lose face on the street?
The woman grabbed the man's clothes and did not want her husband to leave, but the man was obviously annoyed, grabbing the clothes with both hands and swinging them from side to side, and the woman swayed uncontrollably from side to side because of the force, even if she sat on the ground.
A woman's strength is not much, let alone in the face of an angry man, it is useless to grab clothes, and in the end, after the man repeatedly throws the clothes, the woman's hand holding the clothes is thrown off.
After breaking free of the woman, the man turned his head and left, walking quickly and with great momentum.
Watching her husband leave, the woman was also a little helpless, and finally stood up, picked up the spilled items from the ground, she picked up the phone and called, it should be called to her husband.
After the man left, he did not go far, he sat quietly on the side of the road, looking in the direction of his wife from time to time. He was talking with his cell phone in his hand, and it looked like his wife was on the other end of the phone.
Although the two had just quarreled, the man was also very angry in his heart, but after leaving, he did not hesitate to answer his wife's phone and looked in the direction where his wife was.
It can be seen that this man is very worried about his wife in his heart, his steps are not far from his wife, his contact with his daughter-in-law is not broken, a person can do this when he is angry, there is no doubt that this is a good man.
Only when there is love in the heart, they are not willing to stay away, and only when they shoulder their responsibilities will they worry about their wives. The man seems to be fierce, but in fact, his love has never diminished.
Eventually, the man waited for his wife. Although the two are still quarrelsome, the back of their side-by-side walk on the street shows that they have begun to reconcile again, just like what just happened has never happened, which is really admirable.
We say that a person's maturity lies in being able to control his emotions, which is very correct, but it does not apply, because for the vast majority of people, the emotional head is more reflective of the person's real state when the emotion is excited.
In the end, we are also an animal, an emotional animal, and it is impossible to be insulated from emotion.
The author believes that mature men should be able to restrain their emotions when encountering things, without making too many mistakes, and more importantly, at any time, do not forget their love and responsibility.
Apparently, the man did just that, and although his departure was resolute, his return showed that he was a responsible and trustworthy man.
In this regard, some netizens said:
The unmarried looked at it and felt that this man could not want it. Married people know that men can do this and are already good men.
Although not married, I don't know how many chicken feathers there are, but this man has not left, and has been paying attention to women, I think it is okay, many people are not married, dating for a few years, a quarrel, the head does not go back
This is the real couple, beaten, scolded, and reluctant, and it is also a good life.
I looked closely, and the man just took away his shirt and didn't hit the woman, nor did he leave, and could still ask for it.
Every couple has more or less contradicted, and when encountering this situation, whether it is quarrelsome or tolerant, it will eventually return to peace.
A day of husband and wife 100 days, where there is a deep hatred between husband and wife, stay together for a long time, you must learn to accept each other's shortcomings, of course, but also love each other's strengths more, so that it is the way to live a life.
If as a husband and wife, you still have to worry about it all day, and you have to fight with each other in everything, such a couple cannot be called a husband and wife, but more like a pair of wrongdoers, who come to make trouble, not to live a life.
After a long time, we must learn to understand and tolerate each other, we must learn to dispel resentment, and read more about each other's good, just like this couple, even if they quarrel so fiercely, it still does not affect their love and dependence.