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We always have such a stereotype that a person who loves you deeply will try his best to be with you, and confession is something that cannot be delayed.
But in real life, such a perception may not be true, especially when a person thinks enough, even if he loves someone, he will not easily make a confession of love.
I once thought that Zeng Xiaoxian's self-esteem was too strong, too good face, coupled with his Virgo's twisted and tangled personality, which caused him to hesitate to confess to Hu Yifei.
Later, I revisited "Love Apartment" and finally understood why Zeng Xiaoxian liked Hu Yifei for so long, but he refused to confess.
Zeng Xiaoxian's delay in confessing to Yifei has a certain relationship with his passive personality, but not all.
Hu Yifei and Zeng Xiaoxian were so familiar that Zeng Xiaoxian did not dare to confess, because he was afraid of rejection, and the relationship between the two people could never go back.
Zeng Xiaoxian and Hu Yifei get along like friends and above friends, and the feelings they both give to others are mutually affectionate.
Although they will fight and make trouble because of a little thing, the daily interaction between two people is loving and warm.
Therefore, Zeng Xiaoxian could not sacrifice his and Hu Yifei's current state for an uncertain answer.
Not confessing does not mean not loving enough, on the contrary, it is likely to be because it is too loving to open his mouth.
If a man refuses to confess for a long time, but will be jealous for you, will always be by your side to be good to you, then it means that his love is deeper than you think.
Zeng Xiaoxian loves Hu Yifei, even if Hu Yifei and Shen Gongzi interact, he is heartbroken and jealous, but he still chooses to wait, still good to Yifei.
He is no longer in love, just for the sake of Yifei. As for Zeng Xiaoxian's later association with Yu Lan, it was entirely due to Zeng Xiaoxian's personality that did not understand rejection, not that he had changed his mind, so later he took the initiative to find Yu Lan and said that he loved Hu Yifei.
It turns out that whether a man loves you or not is not judged by the sooner or later of the confession, or whether there is a confessional action.
The man who loves you will give you the details of love, and the constant warmth and care. However, not all men who love you will confess to you.
Men who like you, delay in confessing to you, in fact, there is a reason.
01, too much love, so dare not easily open their mouths
A person's thinking and cognition will determine the way he loves a person.
For some people, he loves a person deeply, and he will desperately want to be with the other party, love freely, only for a definite result, and also accept the preparation of losing the other party.
However, for some people who are introverted and not confident enough and too "cherished", he loves a person deeply, and he will be afraid of losing the other party, so he cannot open his mouth.
In "I May Not Love You", Li Daren loved Cheng Youqing for fifteen years, but he has not confessed, in order to be able to accompany Cheng Youqing all the time.
He couldn't let Cheng Youqing lose his best friend.
Later, because Cheng Youqing and his first love were together, and the tape taken out by the master and mother exposed Li Daren's heart, Li Daren and Cheng Youqing were estranged from each other.
At that time, Cheng Youqing was drunk at her and Li Daren's secret base, scolding the air: "Li Daren, I hate you for letting me lose my best friend..."
Li Daren on the other side may also regret it, because he can no longer contact Cheng Youqing every day, cannot see each other when he wants to, and cannot give Cheng Youqing care...
For some people, love is too much, so there is no way to accept loss, they will be willing to maintain the status quo as friends and loved ones, rather than choosing to poke...
02, afraid of not being able to give you the future, do not dare to start with you easily
When a man with mature thoughts falls in love with a woman, he thinks not about whether he can be with the other party, but whether he can give the other party the future he wants.
His love is generally altruistic, and more of a hope that the woman can be good.
For a man with such a cognition, if his current state is not as good as he expected, he feels that he cannot give the woman he loves a future, he does not dare to start easily with the woman he loves, for fear of delaying the other party.
After reading such a story, the boy is a poor boy, but he is in love with a rich lady. Although the two are in love, the boy has been unwilling to confess, even if the woman takes the initiative to show kindness, he will refuse to shirk...
The girl cried and thought that the boy did not love her at all, the boy took out a tissue from his pocket in a panic, and then carefully wiped the tears for the girl, his mouth was very tight, and his throat was tight and uncomfortable.
"Yes... No, I... Can't give you a future..." The girl cried and ran away, and the boy finally took the raised hand back, and then shook his fist.
Time flies, three years pass by, the boy is also a small career achievement, and he comes back to find the girl.
Seeing the person inquiring about the news said: "The lady is not yet married", the eyebrows of the twisted bar suddenly stretched, and he was willing to sit down before he paced around.
Fortunately, the girl has always had a boy in her heart, and fortunately, the love that went in both directions had a happy ending after three years.
Some men are so responsible that they are not in a good situation, fail to guarantee the future of their beloved girl, and never dare to start with each other.
03, lost the qualification to be together, can not start with you
Everyone has their own responsibilities, so not all people who love one person can have the qualifications to be with each other.
In "Immortal Sword III", Bai Tofu and Zi Xuan are in love, and their love continues for three lifetimes, but in the end they cannot be together.
Only because of them, one is the future leader of Shushan, the chosen son, and the other is a descendant of Nuwa...
They have their own missions and responsibilities, so although they love each other, they are not qualified to be together, so they have the experience of drinking the water of oblivion.
I still love you, but I lost my qualification to be together...
I have seen such a story: the man and the woman are a very loving couple, and then because of the turmoil of the times, the two people lost contact.
Women have been thinking about men, so they have not been married. However, the man on the other side thought that the woman should start a family, so he formed his own family.
Years later, the woman was cumin, but the man returned to his hometown with his wife and children to worship his ancestors.
The woman heard the man's news and cried red-eyed. When they met again, the two cried bitterly, and the woman knew that the beloved man could not marry her, and the man knew that although he loved the woman, he was not qualified to be together.
Some loves are delayed by time, some are truncated by responsibility, and some people can never go back once they miss it.
Men love you but don't confess for three reasons. He will give you love and warmth, give you his special treatment that distinguishes him from others, and he will only refuse to confess out of his own thoughts.
Love never has a standard answer, and not all men who love you will choose to confess to you immediately. People in different environments and different thoughts will naturally make choices that seem incomprehensible.
May every deep affection not be disappointed, may every true feeling be waited for, and may the love that runs in both directions have a happy ending.
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