I didn't think about it before, but now looking back, the TV series "I May Not Love You" starring Ariel Lin and Chen Bailin is really not right.
Cheng Youqing said that he regarded Li Daren as a brother and did not want to be a third party who intervened, but what he did was not so.
She would be jealous of Li Daren and his girlfriend Maggie on the phone; knowing that Li Daren had a girlfriend, she would stay up all night with him and even travel alone with him.
And Li Daren, although he has a girlfriend, still thinks about Cheng Youqing, and also requires his girlfriend to accept the existence of Cheng Youqing.
This proper scumbag behavior is not worthy of the word "deep affection"!
The two of them, although they are friends, but they have done the truth of being lovers. The sharp-tongued Fu Seoul once said: "Long live friendship, never sleep." All friends should maintain a little social distancing, let alone friends of the opposite sex who are easy to cause misunderstanding?
Between Cheng Youqing and Li Daren, because of the addition of an idol drama filter, the ending is beautiful and makes people yearn.
But the reality is not acting, if friends of the opposite sex are not careful and cautious, once they cross the thunder pool, it will definitely lead to the deterioration of each other's relationship, and when it is serious, it will also hurt the people around them.
Truly pure heterosexual friendships have always been temperate and distant, polite and measured.
Xiao Qiu once loved such a man:
This man was good, good enough to bring her a cup of hot milk tea on a snowy day; good enough to be able to transport her to and from work every day rain or shine; good enough to give her her monthly salary for safekeeping...
But in the end, Xiao Qiu still broke up with him.
Because he has a very "disgusting" girlfriend.
He and his girlfriend have been good friends since junior high school, and time has not faded the friendship between the two, but made them more and more intimate with each other.
Standing in front of the two of them, Xiao Qiu felt like a third party.
But he is clearly his bright and upright girlfriend.
I remember once, when the two of them went out on a trip, he not only called out his girlfriend, but also greeted her along the way, as if it was his girlfriend.
The girlfriend was wearing misfited booster shoes, and after a while she couldn't walk, and she cried out that her feet hurt and wanted him to carry it. He did not have any scruples and obediently carried the other party on his back.
Xiao Qiu was angry and quarreled with him, but instead he beat a rake upside down: "What are you thinking?" She's just my good buddy! ”
The girlfriend also explained: "Little Miss Qiu, I have known him for so long, if there is anything, we have been together for a long time, why wait until now?" ”
Xiao Qiu was speechless, but the sullenness in his heart could not come out.
After returning from the trip, Xiao Qiu broke up with him.
Even though he was nice to himself, he was also nice to another woman. This is better than him, and it is not unique. And the love that Xiao Qiu requires him to think of himself as the only one.
When they broke up, he angrily asked: "Is it possible that after falling in love, men can no longer have friends of the opposite sex?" ”
Xiao Qiu said: "As long as you know how to score inches, even if you have thousands of friends of the opposite sex, I don't mind, because those are just friends." ”
"But you and your girlfriend are different. You can't spend so long that you see me as nothing, and you don't care about my feelings. ”
"Your intimacy is not a deep friendship, but a fervent ambiguity!"
The pure friendship between men and women is nothing more than a fight to the death, a fool to the end.
Smart to maintain a measure, maintain a calm friendship; stupid but take the initiative to cross the line, not only lost friends, but also left a regret.
Xu Wei, who has long been married, still retains the habit of gathering with his friend Cheng Ying once a week.
Although his wife has argued with him many times about this, he still stubbornly believes that he and Cheng Ying are just good friends, and getting together once a week is not only no problem, but can make him breathe in the face of huge pressure.
After all, there are some inner words that he can't say to his wife, but he can talk to Cheng Ying without scruples.
That day, after he and his wife quarreled, they were upset, so they asked Cheng Ying to come out to talk. It just so happened that Cheng Ying was also unhappy because of his work, the two drank a little wine, and then things changed in an uncontrollable direction.
When he woke up the next day, Xu Wei knew that it was not good. There are countless missed calls from his wife on his mobile phone, and Cheng Ying in front of him is crying and crying, and he is also asked to be responsible for the end.
In the end, Xu Wei's wife offered to divorce, in addition to the car, the family's savings and two houses were taken by her as compensation.
And he married his friend Cheng Ying.
He thought that the worst result would be just like this, but he did not expect that after Cheng Ying got married, he was like a changed person.
She was no longer as gentle and intimate as before, but had become irritable.
Whenever Xu Wei has some connection with the opposite sex, she will be suspicious and question Xu Wei's loyalty to marriage.
Xu Wei blamed her for making a fuss, and she asked him back: "Have you forgotten how we came together at that time?" ”
Xu Wei could not speak, and he only felt regret in his heart, but all this was his own fault.
It is not so much that he and Cheng Ying were pure friends at that time, but rather that both of them were pregnant with ghosts.
Cheng Ying liked him, so Fu Xiao was low, gentle and considerate; and although he did not like Cheng Ying, he had already sensed the other party's thoughts. Not actively alienating, is that he is enjoying this ambiguous stimulation.
Friends can become lovers by taking a step forward; cute people can take a step back and can no longer become friends.
Knowing how to divide inches and keep a distance is the only law for the opposite sex to get along.
Some people can only be confidants and friends, which is a choice brought about by fate.
Since you have become a friend, you should keep the pure land in your heart, restrain your inner greed, communicate politely, and live your life politely.
Not disturbing, not crossing the line, is a respect for others, but also a love for yourself.
Because if you cross the thunder pool, what you lose may not only be a precious friendship, but also a family peace, and what you can get is only regret.