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Men and women interact with each other, and they can experience the warmth and romance within reach, so love is always desirable. It's just that love is not only a sweet feeling, but also temptations and temptations, and only those who truly love each other can withstand the test of time.
Whether it is love or marriage, when both parties decide to be together, they initially start the relationship with full confidence.
But the process is not necessarily so beautiful, there are always some accidents.
Some people will feel that even if I already have a fixed relationship, I still have the right to make friends freely, and being alone with the opposite sex does not affect each other's feelings.
We tend to overestimate our ability to restrain our feelings, and truly mature people will not deliberately create hidden dangers for their lives.
When two people are together, mutual respect for each other is a basic quality, but unfortunately not everyone can do it.
The relationship between men and women is not pure, there will be these abnormal behaviors, you and I should understand as soon as possible.
01: I always feel absent-minded and vigilant when I get along with my lover
Chen Junsheng in the TV series "The First Half of My Life" met a woman he liked at work, and he did not keep the bottom line of marriage and was with the other party.
He has a family and children, and he still has to come home to spend time with them after work.
Every time he was with his wife Luo Zijun, Chen Junsheng always looked absent-minded, and his vigilance became very high. After Luo Zijun married him, he gave up his ideals and was at ease to be a full-time mother, and when he saw that his husband was so excellent, he couldn't help but worry.
In order to make himself feel at ease, Luo Zijun would deliberately check the post. Therefore, every time she went to the company to find Chen Junsheng, he was particularly nervous, afraid that the situation would be uncontrollable.
In the end, Chen Junsheng's betrayal of marriage was exposed, and Luo Zijun's world completely collapsed.
The relationship between men and women is not pure, in fact, it cannot be hidden. If the person you love always shows a nervous look when he is with you and doesn't care about your things, then you should be vigilant.
When he cheats on you, or does something that hurts feelings, he will feel weak, and every time he meets you, he will not feel relaxed, but cramped and uneasy.
These are very abnormal behaviors, and if you find out early, you can not continue to be in the dark, and you can have less pain in your heart.
Don't be like Luo Zijun, she didn't think that Chen Junsheng would fall in love with a woman who was older than herself and still had children, and when he fiercely proposed a divorce, she was not prepared at all, and she didn't know how to deal with it.
If she had found out about the other person's problem earlier, maybe she wouldn't have made herself so embarrassed.
02: Always take the initiative to mention other people of the opposite sex, behavior is very abnormal
Zhang Ailing once said: "I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love." ”
Love always makes people feel helpless, because you don't know whether the true feelings you have paid can be treated well. People's hearts are too fickle, and although the other person has loved you deeply, this does not mean that they can always stay with each other.
The feelings between men and women are very delicate, and as long as one person deserts, this feeling will crack.
Under normal circumstances, if a man has another person in his heart, he will often pretend to inadvertently take the initiative to mention it. It was a kind of temptation, he hoped that the other party could puncture this layer of window paper between each other, and then end the relationship and run to the new person.
When the relationship between men and women is not pure, they will always take the initiative to mention each other, because they miss someone in their hearts and cannot control it at all.
Love is selfish, there is no way to share it with anyone, if you have tried hard and still can't touch the other person, then learn to let it go.
03: Often spend a lot of time dating the same sex
Men and women can also have pure feelings, but they must retain a certain sense of boundaries for each other.
Once we get along too often, relationships can easily become impure.
Li Daren and Cheng Youqing in the TV series "I May Not Love You", they are high school classmates. From the beginning, Li Daren fell in love with each other, but he did not dare to say what he really thought in his heart, for fear of rejection, so he kept it hidden.
Although they are just friends, they often spend a lot of time together. Even though Li Daren had a girlfriend at the time, he still took the initiative to ask Cheng Youqing to travel with him.
Such behavior has long exceeded the boundaries of friends, Li Daren's girlfriend is already unhappy in her heart, but they have only recently been dating, and the girlfriend does not want to quarrel because of this, so she did not stop Li Daren's behavior.
But later they broke up, also because of Cheng Youqing's relationship.
If they are just friends, but often spend a lot of time dating the same sex, such a relationship is actually not pure.
In life, there are also many people who do not know how to maintain a sense of proportion when they get along with the opposite sex. Even under the slogan of friends, ambiguous with each other, the result will only hurt others and hurt themselves.
Love and unlove are traceable, and only careful observation can avoid getting hurt in the wrong feelings. I hope that everyone can be a sober and rational person, who knows how to take responsibility for their own happiness.
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