Women are sensual, in the face of the men they like, willing to moth to the fire, but men are almost always a very rational animal, men and like women in love is also very shrewd, the pros and cons are weighed very clearly.
Sanmao, also a female writer, gave us women this admonition about love:
If love cannot be implemented in the trivial matters of chai rice oil and salt, eating and sleeping, it cannot last long.
Speaking of chai rice oil and salt, it is definitely inseparable from money, and it also involves very realistic material problems, and it has also become a factor that many couples have to consider when they are together.
Especially girls, this relationship does not spend the boy's money, but also worry that the other party will easily leave themselves because there is nothing to pay, if it is spent, for a long time, not only affect their image in the boy's heart, but also psychologically easy to produce a kind of unearned uneasiness.
Therefore, when it comes to falling in love, whether or not to spend men's money has become an important reason that plagues many girls. I personally think that a good love must be based on material things. So when it comes to love, should we spend men's money, and what do other girls think? Let's hear what these 3 women have to say.
01. Miss Kwan
When I was in love, my parents always taught me not to spend the boy's money, so my first three relationships, almost all of them did not spend much money on the boy's money and easily agreed to each other together, the results were very bad.
I could not imagine that this society is so sinister, although I admit that my family conditions are not good, I love money, but I never thought of relying on men to become rich, but now the behavior of men really surprises me.
Now men don't know why the personality is as weak as girls, they love to be spoiled at every turn, I thought at first that men did this to me, because they loved me, and then talked more, only to know that a man always shows a very fragile side in front of girls, and wants girls to empathize with them, it is basically that they want to deceive the girl.
They don't love girls, just want to take advantage of girls, and even let girls take the initiative to pay for them, I was cheated by my ex-boyfriend for twenty thousand to fully wake up, some men are really too lacking in morality, you don't spend their money, they want to do everything they can to spend your money, in the end they succeeded, they don't cherish, so I can't be as generous as before, fall in love with the male AA system, and even lend them money, I will never allow myself to always be deceived and hurt.
02. Miss Yue
My own monthly salary is tens of thousands, to be honest, I really don't lack the little money for the boy's meal when I am in love, or the gifts I give flowers and chocolates. But the man doesn't pay for me, how can I see his sincerity.
When I was in school, I was also very eager for a very sincere relationship, going out on dates and eating, and taking the initiative to save money for men, maybe I was too good to them, and in the end they all betrayed me. When they broke up, they said I was a good girl, and that I heard it was simply an insult to me, since they thought I was good, why not be with me, men are really shrewd and hypocritical.
After graduation, I talked about two more relationships, this time more clearly see the men, one by one after getting me, they all began to expose their nature, I had to spend some money on them, they said they were worried about being cheated. From the perspective of people who have come over, when it comes to love, men do not spend money on women, which is extremely harmful, and girls really have to stay away from men who cut the door.
03. Miss Wang
Definitely should be spent, love does not cost boys' money, then when to spend? Is it not necessarily you that two people are married, and the boy is not necessarily married to you. Men can be refined, love to find beautiful, marriage to find rich, so you can't even talk about love can't afford to spend his money, then don't expect to spend his money after marriage.
Besides, it is important to know that the youth of girls is far more valuable than the youth of boys. What's wrong with chasing a big man and chasing a woman to spend some money, so why is a woman still marrying and having children with such a boy?
In the process of men getting along, girls should not spend boys' money, I think these 3 women said very well, should spend, but while accepting the boyfriend's payment, but also appropriate to give their own pay.
The love that comes and goes is indeed longer, but to be honest, after all, girls are a very weak group, more long-lasting love, often boys pay more, what do you think?