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The final chapter of tragic love is the phrase "We are not suitable." A sentence of "we are not suitable" can extinguish all enthusiasm, can dissuade people, can make people mad.
However, when they were together, they said so many sweet words, how many years they spent together, and how they finally lost to only five words. Why did it go from being appropriate at the beginning to being inappropriate?
First, it was inappropriate at the beginning.
Didn't think about it well, it may not be appropriate at the beginning, you may think that the other party is not good-looking, good personality, want to try, and find that the other party's personality can not be good enough to make up for the disadvantage in appearance, so you say: "In fact, you are very good, but we are not suitable." "Maybe you think that the other party's personality is not good, but you look good, you want to try, and then you feel tired of looking at it, and the bad habits of personality are becoming more and more difficult to endure, so you have no choice but to say, "We are not suitable." ”
Second, there are better options.
"So love will be the news, right?"
"In fact, love will not disappear, it will only transfer." Before your attention was all on this person, her whole body was shining, and now you stand in the crowd and see the person who once shined in your eyes is no different from the others in the crowd.
Instead, the stranger who had only recently known him seemed so perfect that he seemed to fit all your assumptions, and you thought, "If only I had no object at the moment." "But you have a chance right now.
Third, inadequacy is only the most appropriate of many reasons.
Whether it is not thought about at first, or a change of heart later, if you want to end the relationship in a dashing way, you must return the reason to the outside, or the natural world, "we are not compatible", "the constellations are conflicting", or the other party's reason "I want a pear, but you give me an apple." It could also be", "I've trained myself to be so good, you don't deserve it." ”
Fourth, there is also the possibility that you suddenly don't really want to talk about it.
But this situation is sometimes like a head convulsion, love has the sweetness of love, freedom has free fun, love is the equality of rights and obligations, and it is not realistic to want to balance the world of two people and complete freedom.
Some people are really amazing, want to talk about love, suddenly feel trouble to separate, essentially or escape, because can not deal with the troubles and blandness in love.
In fact, in general, when you are full of each other, the moment when the lover's eyes are out of the west", all the inappropriateness will be appropriate.