"Author: On the fifth day of the first month of May, a pseudo-literary man with six-pack abs
Today, when passing by the rookie station, a child next to me suddenly cried out, not so much wailing as a ghost crying wolf.
I hated the cries, and even though he was a kid, I didn't understand what he wanted.
In a trance, I suddenly figured out a truth, what is the biggest difference between children and adults?
It's a communication mechanism.
Some people say that children are more simple than adults, and the world of adults is relatively complicated. But is there a cognitive deficit behind this simplicity?
Because I don't understand, can I call it simple?
Children will cry when they want something, their mother will cry when they leave, they will cry when they are not satisfied, their expression is relatively single, they care about what emotions, and crying is over.
Adults are different, and I have a thousand ways to express my needs.
But there is a kind of person who is similar to a child, that is, unwarranted anger, blindly expressing emotions instead of explaining their own needs, in other words, you are angry, fierce or verbally attacking the other party, in fact, the other party does not know why you are angry.
At this time, the communication advantage of adults disappears, because anger and blind verbal attacks are actually the same as the cries of children tearing their hearts and lungs.
Since you are an adult, why can't you express what you want directly?
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