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Love in life is the happiest state.
As a woman, everyone hopes that in this life, there will be a man who loves to accompany them.
But in reality, two people who love each other stay together day and night, afraid that it is difficult to do things, because after all, people want to survive, and to survive, they have to work and earn money.
Without material as a basis, what does man rely on to survive? Therefore, the premise of love is also the solution of the ability to survive. Only by solving the problem of survival is it more qualified to talk about love and enjoy love.
The so-called "poor couple Pepsi lament". In modern people's lives, love or has not been the most important thing, and even for many women, the concept of money will be more important than love. It's also because of the pressure to survive.
However, for the vast majority of women, love is still an important presence in their lives. There are many women who are born for love and live for love.
Women are more sensual than men's sanity. If she had a man in love, she would put all her energy and focus on him, even at the cost of giving up everything she had.
But men don't. Men love a woman again, they will also weigh the pros and cons, distinguish between priority and priority, and few men will give up everything for women. Those stories of "loving Jiangshan more and loving beautiful women" are just legends, the emperor loves a woman again, and he will not give up Jiangshan for her. That's for sure.
However, if a man is truly in love with a woman, he will always take her to heart. Although men may not be as greasy as women, the love that has entered the heart will still make men's hearts worry.
Men may not always make excuses to contact you like women do, but if he really loves, he will always let you grasp his movements and reassure you.
Actually, this is what a mature man does. He will have his own job or career and will also fight for the future of two people, so most of his energy is still focused on his struggle. But no matter how busy he is, he will not forget your presence.
A female friend told me that her boyfriend is very busy, and he spends very little time talking to her every day, either for meetings or business trips. Every time she looked for him, it was difficult to get a timely reply.
Her boyfriend is the general manager of a company, the responsibility is heavy, she always feels that a "trapeze artist" like him is not suitable for love.
Fortunately, friends who are not so dependent on men can also be considerate of his busyness. But a woman in love, no matter how considerate, will still complain, especially when she needs him, he has not been able to be around her, and even the information can rarely be returned in time.
She had thought about breaking up, but the man wouldn't agree. He said he really loved her, but he couldn't help himself. But since then, he has been sending her messages every day at every time when there is a gap, and sometimes after sending messages, he has not been able to wait for her to reply, and he has gone to a meeting again.
Sometimes, the meeting was relatively long, and he even muted his phone and then called through the video to let her see their scene, although, the call was short, he hung up, but also to tell her that he was still busy and not wanting to ignore her.
When they are together, he will try to make up for the debt to her, so that she feels that in fact, he loves someone, but it is no more than that.
After understanding him, she was relieved. After all, she's not the kind of person who doesn't care about anything for the sake of love. Seeing her boyfriend work so hard and hard, she also felt that she should be more motivated.
So without him around, she went to school in her spare time, or traveled, and arranged her life to the fullest. In this way, even without him, she lived a full life.
She said that this kind of love is actually good, two people are working hard for the future, both people are self-integrity individuals, and they will not delay anyone because of whom. That's fine.
Yes, true love is trust and understanding of each other, and even being able to achieve each other.
If a man loves you so much, he can actually feel at ease.