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When you are young and ignorant, you always think that all separation is because you don't love, and when you grow up, you understand that there is a lot of helplessness in the adult world, and not two people who love each other will necessarily be able to accompany each other until they are old.
Some separations are really forced to leave the scene out of helplessness and sadness; some separations are surrenders to life and compromises; and some separations are separate and two wide, but they still love each other deeply.
People who love each other will have to separate for various reasons, but all separations will probably have the same expectation, that is, after separation, please "forget" me.
In "The Legend of the Paladin Sword", why Zi Xuan and Xu Changqing want to drink the water of forgetting love, in addition to the identity and mission of the two, is probably because of the expectation that the other party will forget this difficult relationship and then start a new life.
Perhaps, because of this, both of them spit out the water of indifference. She thought he drank, so she was at ease; he thought she drank, so calm...
"I love too much, so this regret is borne by me alone, too much love, so even if the tragedy ends, it is because we remember the facts and process of our love." 」
Loving someone may be expecting his whole heart to belong to himself, and will want to "selfishly" expect to have the other person. But when love is defeated by reality, or chooses to withdraw from each other's lives for later consideration, love is probably expecting the loved one to let go of himself and then have a new beginning.
Your happiness is not mine, so I am willing to be alone, willing to have someone to love you for me.
Two people who love each other are separated, and often have a common wish, that is, "forget me".
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Missing is too difficult, a person is very lonely, this sour bitterness, really boiling people.
Love so much that it hurts your body and mind when you are separated, so if we are separated, please forget me and start a new life, for yourself, but also for us...
Love each other too much, so I'd love you no more...
The true story I heard from my friend: Ling Ling and Jing Hao were together for ten years, witnessed each other's youth, and also made an appointment for a lifetime and a couple, staying together until the white head.
Ling ling's parents were very satisfied with Jing Hao, not because Jing Hao's family was good-looking and handsome, but because Jing Hao was really good to Ling Hao.
Ling Ling's parents were full of praise for Jing Hao, and also specially explained that Ling Ling could not be too willful.
However, Jing Hao led Ling Ling home to see his parents, and after Jing Hao's mother opened the door for the two of them, she walked away by herself. Jing Hao's father sat alone in the living room and focused on reading the newspaper, glanced at Jing Hao and Ling Ling and continued to read the newspaper.
At lunchtime, Jing Hao's mother: "Lingling is it?" I heard that you and Jing Hao were friends in high school? We gave Jing Haoxiang a girl with good conditions, you have a boy..."
Ling Ling was silent, his hands were "twisted" tightly, the roots of his ears were hot, and his nose was a little sour...
Listening to his mother's words, Jing Hao immediately stood up from the dinner table and said loudly to his parents: "LingLing is my girlfriend, we are going to get married..." After saying that, he immediately took Lingling's hand and prepared to leave.
Jing Hao's father, who has always been silent, immediately dropped the bowl and chopsticks to express his dissatisfaction...
Jing Hao directly ignored the voice coming from behind him and left the house with lingling.
On the way, Jing Hao held Ling Ling tightly in his arms...
Jing Hao thought of various ways to convince his parents, but to no avail.
Two years of struggle, so that the two physically and mentally exhausted, coupled with Jing Hao's mother with life forced, Jing Hao and Ling Ling finally chose to break up...