Recently, an uncle in Shangqiu, Henan Province, "Huazi Brother" is popular on the Internet, he appears on the snack street every day on time to wait for the boss to come out of the stall, the boss let him take it for free, but he never takes much, only a little bit each time.
Hua Zige is 53 years old this year, but the IQ is only 6 years old, and the behavior is childish, but Hua Zige is cleanly dressed, very polite to people, and will ask people in advance if they can eat before eating, and will ask the boss for disposable gloves.
Hua Zige is happy every day, the popularity is very good, and you can brush your face for free wherever you go. The bosses on the snack street like him very much, often sending him something to eat, and every time they eat delicious food, Hua Zige will show a satisfied smile.
Hua Zige's happiness is from the heart, simple happiness, and this all stems from the protection of his family, Hua Zige was nourished and raised by the love of the whole family.
When Hua Zige was a child, he was left with sequelae due to meningitis, and his IQ stopped at about 6 years old, and his mother raised him and his sister alone.
Hua Zi brother loves to be clean, but also by the influence of the family, the mother is old, but the dress is neat and decent, very temperamental. His mother taught him to be polite and hygienic, and he was never sloppy.
Now that her mother is older, Brother Hua lives with her sister, and her sister takes on the responsibility of her mother and continues to take care of her brother.
In addition to his mother and sister, his brother-in-law, niece and other relatives and friends also take very good care of Hua Zige, play with him as soon as he has time, never look down on him, and everyone hopes to protect this innocence of Hua Zige and let him live carefree.
Compared with many children who are abandoned and looked down upon by many children who suffer from diseases, Hua Zige is very lucky, he grew up under the love of the family, and the family takes care of him with heart, even if the IQ is always stuck at 6 years old, no one looks down on him, on the contrary, with more love to care for him to grow.
Childhood family education is very important for a person's life, a child from childhood to adulthood has been nourished by the love of parents, then this child must be happy, even if this child is not outstanding enough, just an ordinary person, then he will also be a calm, open-minded and loving kind person.
Growing up in a loving family environment, children know more about love, they are more secure, happier, and more confident in the face of setbacks and blows.
Children who are nourished by love know more about love
No one is born to love others, everyone is born, observe the words and deeds of the people around them, imitate and learn their mode of getting along, the impact of a happy family on the child is positive, and a bad family will bring a lifetime of pain to the child.
Sha Yi took his son to participate in the "Where Did Daddy Go" program, and the image of Anji Nuannan won a lot of "aunt powder", he is always very sensible, will take the initiative to care for and take care of his brother, help his brother get dressed, wipe his face, take breakfast, etc.
Sha Yi and his wife Hu Ke have always been a sweet couple recognized by netizens, before marriage Sha Yi is a big man in the northeast, do not understand romance will not hurt people, after marriage, Sha Yi has always been pampered with his wife, and even treated his wife as a "daughter" to hurt.
Sha Yi will always remind Hu Ke to add clothes when it is cold, whether he has eaten or not, and has been touching Hu Ke with the little bits and pieces of care in daily life.
Hu Ke once mentioned in the interview program that when she was pregnant, Sha Yi would tolerate her unreasonable teasing, and no matter how late Sha Yi would help her buy what she wanted to eat. Once Hu Ke felt aggrieved because he couldn't eat ice cream, and Sha Yi drove for more than an hour to buy ice cream for his wife.
Parents love each other, use actions to care for each other and children, let children feel the warmth of home, understand what is beautiful love, and children also learn how to love others in the ear.
Children who are nourished by love are more secure
Parents love, family relations will be very harmonious, children feel warm in a loving environment, grow into independent, confident people. Parents often quarrel and complain, and children feel nervous, inferior, and insecure when they feel negative emotions.
A sense of security is a sense of being needed and loved, and children who are nourished by love have a sufficient sense of security, so they know how to impress others with love and respect when they get along with others.
Loveless children, on the other hand, are covered with thorns to resist the invasion of the outside world, they are insecure, they will always try to grasp everything and refuse to let go, afraid of losing or being abandoned.
I once saw a comparison chart of a little girl named Selah on the Internet. In the beginning, Selah was an orphan from a Guizhou welfare home, and her eyes were always filled with horror in the face of strangers coming and going.
By coincidence, the American couple Becca and Dan chose to adopt the little girl, they crossed the ocean, brought Selah home, and the family prepared a warm welcome ceremony for the little girl.
After arriving home, Selah moved into the princess house carefully prepared for her, pink wallpaper, cute furnishings, let the little girl feel the warmth she had never felt before.
In the beginning, because of the language barrier, Selah was always running around the house uneasily, muttering Chinese in her mouth and shouting to "go home."
At such times, the adoptive mother always patiently soothed her emotions, gently picked her up, and met her new home with her. In order to allow the younger daughter to integrate into the new home faster, the adoptive parents put a lot of effort into it.
They took Selah to skiing, masquerade parties together, played at Disneyland together, and the family of five threw a loving pajama party at home.
Gradually, the adoptive parents' dedication brought about an astonishing change in Selah. She no longer resisted the new home, no longer rejected the strange country, and her eyes changed from the cringe and shyness of the past to confidence, enthusiasm and cheerfulness.
She would grimace in front of her adoptive mother's camera, climb on her adoptive father's shoulders to make fun of her, and coddle with her two older brothers. The abandoned baby girl who was once guizhou slowly became a confident and cute little princess.
It is the abundant and stable love and warmth of the adoptive parents that gives Selah a sufficient sense of security, and also allows the child to be fully nourished and bravely walk out of his own small world.
The continuous love of parents gives children a sense of security and confidence in their lives.
Children who are nourished by love are happier
Watching the Mango Station program is fanned by Yang Di, although the appearance is not high, it is popular with its unique funny talent, his paragraph is simple and grounded, and it can always make people laugh easily.
His happiness is from the heart, the happiness in his bones, and this all stems from his mother, Yang Di's mother has been trying to create a world full of love and joy, she once said: "I think, to be a mother, you have to give your children a happy enough atmosphere." 」 ”
Yang Di's mother and father have a good relationship, and the two of them discuss well: the two have a conflict, as long as the child is there, they must smile, return to the house, and then solve it by themselves.
Growing up in such a joyful and loving atmosphere, Yang Di's heart is safe, confident, and down-to-earth, able to perceive and enjoy happiness, and can bring happiness to others.
Psychologist Wu Zhihong once said: "The influence of mothers on children is huge, especially the influence of emotions, which will accompany them throughout their lives. ”
As parents, how can we nourish our children with love?
1. Create a harmonious and loving family atmosphere
If you want to raise excellent children, the most inseparable is a harmonious family environment, for children, a harmonious family environment is like a fertile soil for children's growth, and it will have a certain positive effect on children's intelligence and emotional intelligence.
2. Accept the child's imperfections
We are not perfect parents, so don't ask your child to be the perfect child either. Only when we accept the imperfections of the child can the child accept himself and identify with himself, so as to find self-confidence and have the strength to fight against difficulties in the face of setbacks.
3. Accompany children to grow up with their hearts
The companionship of parents can allow children to get enough affirmation and nourishment from the spirit, so as to be spiritually independent, better separated from their parents, and become a truly independent individual.
The satisfaction of material conditions does not make up for the lack of family affection. The attentive companionship of parents and the absence of children's childhood are important factors in determining whether children will succeed in the future.
As long as parents participate in their children's game activities as much as possible and play a good role as a playmate in their children's game activities, I believe that their children will be educated silently and silently, and the parent-child relationship will be very harmonious.