Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Can you believe it? Until the last minute, you never know who men will give their "true" feelings to!
A man will have many women in his heart in his life. However, compared with his so-called "true love", other members of the opposite sex are only interested in men.
In fact, many women don't know that men have no feelings outside of the perspective of reality! Before the emergence of true love, all the mountain alliance and sea oaths of men were "just talking".
After the emergence of true love, even if men are full of mouths and have not said "I love you", the dedication and single-mindedness that women need are hidden in men's actual actions!
From this, it is not difficult for us to see that men's true love must be linked to reality!
Yes, men and women, for true love is completely different psychology:
Women face true love, even if they eat chaff for a lifetime, they are also happy in it.
In the face of true love, men must have the value of existence on the road of their own lives.
Women face feelings, only used to walking the brain without looking at reality, as long as they feel loved, they think it is worth it! That's why there are too many women's moths to put out the fire!
Men must be rational in the face of feelings and look at reality. As long as he thinks that the woman in front of him will become a burden on his life management, he will resolutely let go. Therefore, there are too many "scumbags" in the female population.
When facing survival, we have to admit that the reality of some men is "scum", which is most worthy of women's reflection!
Women are always willing to love first and then work hard. Men are more willing to love the person who works hard with himself and becomes indispensable for his life to climb straight up, and has the desire to love the rest of his life.
In the relationship between men and women, people often refer to the woman who has not been able to go to the end with the man as "white moonlight". Even the men themselves once thought that "what they don't get is the best"!
In fact, it is not how good the woman is, but that she is not worth enough in a man's life! What men regret is not that they love without results or love without success, but that they regret that "why such a woman has no greater existence value..."
White moonlight is not a man's true love! True love, often because the value has become indispensable in a man's life!
Interested, in the end is not as good as the reality of the help!
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Feelings and reality, men love their own "wind and water" more. If there is a woman who successfully helps a man's life management, the man will make all his true love unreserved.
The woman who helps can meet the reality of the man. For this reason, men are willing to offer their hearts. It seems like this is a bit alarmist! But you have to admit:
A man's true love is only paid to one kind of woman - a woman who combines the help and wisdom of a man's life! No matter how many men come into contact with the opposite sex, there is only one kind of true love!
Some women think that as long as they are beautiful enough and their wrists are smart enough, they can hold a man's heart. Later, I found that my complacency satisfaction only aroused the interest of men!
That's it! The woman who the man once swore to the mountain was only at some point that a light was lit up in front of the man. But this beam of light is not enough to illuminate the rest of a man's life!
A woman who has put men on the tip of her heart all her life may appear late, but absolutely enjoys all the gentleness, thoughtfulness, and affection of men. Because, in the eyes of men, it is worth it to pay without leaving room for themselves!
It is no wonder that who can "hide" from a light that illuminates the rest of their lives?
A man's true love is his ultimate "merit-based admission"!
The same unit, the same applicant, the person who can be hired for a long time, has the "advantage" that the person who is eliminated is far from being able to obey.
Feelings, there has never been any rationality, there is no water to come to fruition. Only exists, when life moves forward, who and whom at the same frequency, can get motivation and benefits from each other.
The combination of men and women is the most realistic "win-win cooperation". Mutual benefit is achieved, and the relationship is naturally harmonious!
So, I often warn women that no matter how much you love a man, you don't forget to love yourself.
Among them, always improving yourself, achieving yourself, and turning yourself into an indispensable object in this marriage and love relationship is truly loving yourself!
Because, your purpose is to live with your man. When the goal is achieved, you win!
Some women, accompanied by men in the wind and rain, but also let men get a satisfactory social status and honor, but why are they abandoned by men?
There are also women who, in order to achieve men, are willing to become the greatest behind-the-scenes supporters. In the end, what comes back is not gratitude and deep love, but the triviality and betrayal of a chicken feather, why?
In real life, women who are overloaded for men abound, but why are their fate so tragic?
It is because such a woman forgets to make herself an indispensable person in a marital relationship.
The establishment of a marital relationship and the white hair hand in hand are interdependent and mutually restrictive! When a woman understands this, she understands how to properly exist in a marital relationship!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: Do you think that men who are too rational and realistic are worthy of women's affection? Leave your truth in the comments section below.