Diana: After 15 years of marriage, "grabbing love", where did she lose?
In modern society, women are encouraged to boldly pursue the happiness they want, but if there is an essential problem in intimate relationships, it is not advisable to still do futile struggle.
Diana, the ex-wife of Charles of the British Royal Family, made this fatal mistake in the handling of feelings.
Diana: After 15 years of marriage, "grabbing love", where did she lose?
In the face of Charles's infidelity, Diana is obviously a victim, but she wants to save the marriage for a while, such as checking her husband every day, only charles returns a little later, she cries.
As soon as I want to toss something out, just for the sake of angry Charles. Or not to confront Charles's lover Camilla.
It looks like an effort, but none of these divergent efforts are clearly targeted.
If she wants to pursue marital happiness, she should carefully consider whether the current object is suitable for her. If she wants to continue her current title as princess, she may need to manage and control her emotions without interfering too much.
Diana didn't, however.
Diana: After 15 years of marriage, "grabbing love", where did she lose?
In the face of her husband's infidelity and indifference, Diana found a lot of emotional alternatives for herself, it is said that she has 7 lovers, including equestrian instructors, car salesmen, and real estate.
Several of her infidelities contained a motive to take revenge on her husband Charles in order to attract his attention, but Charles not only did not care, but instead he thought that as long as he could make his wife happy, then he would have less trouble.
Diana: After 15 years of marriage, "grabbing love", where did she lose?
Even at Charles's 40th birthday party, he specially invited Diana's boyfriend who was dating at the time. Moreover, there is also a tacit agreement between the husband and wife that on weekends, the two will take turns using their private villa, and as long as one party is present, the other will ensure that they do not go.
You see, compared to his wife Diana, Charles has a super sense of purpose.
He wanted to maintain his current marriage, and he didn't react at all to any act of revenge on Diana. Instead, Diana not only did not hurt Charles, but also hurt her own feelings and reputation.
The man who was often dating Diana at that time was called Hall, but he could not accompany Diana every day, so Diana felt very uneasy and uncomfortable. So she started harassing Hall on the phone.
At one point, she was said to have made hundreds of phone calls to Hall's house. If it was Hall's wife who answered the phone, Diana would hang up immediately. This made Hall's wife very confused, so Hall's wife reported to the police station.
After investigation, the police found that all the phone numbers came from where Diana lived, and the phone call was made more than 400 times.
After the incident was reported, Diana's public image plummeted. But she herself stubbornly believes that she is not wrong, but that the media is sensational.
Diana: After 15 years of marriage, "grabbing love", where did she lose?
In life, we often don't know what to strive for in marriage. And Diana made the mistake of not having a clear goal.
It was clear that Charles did not like her, but she was constantly paralyzing herself, constantly asking for attention and affection from the other party.
So, in the relationship, don't look for someone who doesn't love you to love.