Nowadays, under the policy of opening up the second child, or even the open third child, as the parents of the post-80s and post-90s are still afraid to raise, it can be said that they are powerless, a child is enough, not to mention the second child, the third child, think about it. Especially after the 90s parents, all kinds of pressure is almost breathless, in the post-90s birth of the era, is the most stringent time of family planning, as long as the parents of the post-90s as long as there is a unit, do not dare to have a second child, resulting in the current post-90s are almost all only children.
And now in the era of parents after the 90s, they are encouraged to have a second child and a third child, but do they dare to give birth? As an only child, after marriage, if both parties are only children, then there are four elderly people in the family who need to be taken care of, not to mention the money used for illness, just the manpower is not enough to take care of, they need to hire people, take this meager salary, but also pay off the mortgage, car loan, children's milk powder money, tuition fees, the cost of various interest classes, it is too tired, if there is no mine at home or the old man in the family has a family foundation, how dare they regenerate children?
And now the child's learning pressure is also large, the school often assigns homework, needs parental counseling, after a day of work, tired to death, back home also have to help children write homework, just like their own re-learning, it is really not easy. However, now the state has also introduced a "double reduction" policy, so that the child's learning pressure is also greatly reduced, and as a parent, it is also to reduce a lot of pressure, at least after returning home, you can take a good rest, no longer so tired. In order to encourage the birth of a second child and a third child, the state will also successively introduce policies to let us dare to raise and have the ability to raise children.
Recently, a short video of parents helping their children to write homework was shared on the short video platform, which resonated with many parents of children and left comments. In the video is a grandmother tutoring the child, because the child's parents have to go to work, back home has been very tired, and the grandmother is a retired teacher, she undertook the task of tutoring the grandson's homework, but also give full play to the role of the previous teacher, give the grandmother a thumbs up, because she was a teacher before, so the grandmother for the child's homework tutoring is still more severe and harsh, and the grandson is very inattentive, play here, play there, this can make the grandmother angry, then severely criticized the grandson, And the grandson collapsed and cried loudly, and the grandmother did not want to pay attention to him, very helpless, this scene happened to be recorded by the mother's mobile phone. Sighing that it is really difficult to tutor children to learn now, they can't be scolded, and they are still angry to half death.
Netizen A commented, hahaha, the child will be handed over to the grandmother after the homework tutoring, parents can worry a lot, after all, now can be strict with the grandchildren of the grandmother is still a minority, most of them are still doting on the grandchildren, the so-called generation of relatives! Netizen B commented that the student is afraid of the teacher, but the grandson will not be afraid of the grandmother, but look at this grandmother is also on the verge of emotional collapse out of control, haha; netizen C commented that my mother is also a retired high school mathematics teacher, teaching her son mathematics, directly teaching to dare not go home, afraid of his grandmother, walking in teaching mathematics, eating in teaching mathematics, teaching all the time, but finally taking a 62-point test, angry at his grandmother; netizen D commented that retirement should enjoy retirement life! Don't get yourself in trouble (manual funny).
Xiaobian believes that today's children are really too difficult to educate, children who are only a few years old are very shrewd, they have learned to resist, they have to be blown up, when they study, they are like tusks on their butts, they can't sit still, it is too difficult, so when students are on vacation, the saddest thing is to be a parent, and every day they hope that the "god beast" can start school early! But today's children must use the current way and method to educate, our previous set of "stick" teaching has not worked, the current children should reason with him more, analyze the reasons, so that they can be more receptive.
For the education of children now, do you have any good methods? Welcome to the exchange and discussion.