The girlfriend proposes to break up with you, don't send some negative content, don't impulsively think about it and don't want to get back your girlfriend, it takes skill to save it. Let's take a look at how to keep the girlfriend and break up with yourself? Don't be self-defeating.
1. Confess to her again
2. Take the initiative to admit your shortcomings and promise to correct them
She wants to break up with you, first of all, as a man, you first have to start from yourself to find out your own shortcomings, what are the places that make your girlfriend dissatisfied, pick out and promise her that she will correct it in the future, please give yourself another chance, then she has a soft heart, you have hope.
3. Gifts with sweet words
Regardless of the reason for the breakup, it is often more effective to take gifts and sweet words to ease the relationship. Girls need to be coaxed, especially when in love, who does not want to find a boyfriend who is not only rich and handsome, but also gentle, considerate, romantic, if you can grasp these psychological characteristics of girls, then you are enough to do what they like, to meet each other's vanity, once you can coax each other to be happy, then what contradictions between you will slowly ease.
4) Improve yourself and reappear in her world
In most cases, whether a woman chooses to be with a man or not depends on what kind of life the man can offer himself. The trigger for many couples to break up is the three views are incompatible, the personality is not compatible, in fact, the subtext of these reasons for breaking up is that you are not living on the same line, and then you can only choose to leave.
Therefore, if you want to reappear in her world, you must first enhance your own value, otherwise appearing in front of her just to brush your sense of existence will only make her feel that you have not grown at all, and even more and more feel that your decision is right. Improving your own quality of life can not only re-attract each other, but also establish a new mode of getting along.
5. Increase communication opportunities and cultivate a sense of trust
In long-distance relationships, it is even more important to increase your communication opportunities, and find problems not only in your heart, but calmly communicate with each other and listen to each other's voices. Women want more security, more care and consideration, you learn to make up for each other's sense of security, be honest with each other, don't cheat, when you can meet each other's internal needs, she will often rationalize that you love her, but also often question you?
In the process of redemption, many people will choose to entangle each other in a stalking way, through the phone, QQ, WeChat and other ways to beg each other to return to you, too much sense of demand will only make the other party continue to produce disgust for you in the bottom of their hearts, so that the other party has a evasion and fear psychology. It is easy to cause the other party to block all your contact information, so that you do not have any contact information of the other party, which will often increase the difficulty of recovery.