For a woman, giving birth to a baby is really a very hard and important thing related to life. In my personal experience, having a child tests not only a woman's physical health, but even the woman's psychological tolerance.
Too many women will have a very big change in their mood after giving birth, because they have really experienced the first unexpected embarrassment and encounter in their lives, and these feelings cannot be experienced by any man.
As a post-90s mother, Xiao Jiang is still very cheerful, and with the arrival of pregnancy, she enjoys the stage of being tolerated and understood by everyone around her. But the feeling of happiness is always short-lived, and as the baby is about to be born, she begins to be exposed to the extreme embarrassment of the first life - naked half of the body for internal examination, and the key to her own obstetric examination is a doctor of the opposite sex.
Indeed, internal examination or examination. These two kinds of examinations do have unspeakable reluctance and non-acceptance for mainland women who are still conservative. Some women even want to avoid doing related tests. Your embarrassment is understandable, it is a conflict between conventional wisdom and reality.
However, the purpose of the obstetric examination is to determine whether the fetal head can pass through the mother's vagina, which is an indispensable link for both the mother and the fetus. It's about the ultimate way we produce. Therefore, an internal examination should be done, and an examination should also be done. Just do the following when doing it to make you suffer a lot less!
First, trust your own doctor
In the whole process of obstetric examination, we must trust our doctor and actively cooperate with him, only in this way can the process of examination be very smooth. Of course, it will also make us suffer a lot less sin in the whole process.
Second, know more before giving birth
If we want to go to the obstetric examination, we can talk to more experienced people before, which helps us understand the whole process, or through some professional books, we can also know the importance of the obstetric examination for us and what we may have to go through, and what we have to do physically and psychologically.
These can greatly alleviate our stress and overwhelmed attitude when encountering problems, so that the relief of emotions will become smoother in the process of examination.
Third, know the doctor who examines himself in advance
In order to avoid the embarrassment caused by the lack of knowledge during the obstetric examination, we can fully understand the gender of the doctor who conducted the obstetric examination for us. The embarrassment that may arise is effectively alleviated by foreknowledge in advance, which is also a very effective way and method.
On the road to parenting, we are all novices, how to take better care of children, you can pay attention to me, and discuss with me those things on the road to parenting.