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Different children have different IQs, this is certain, as children grow up, the gap is gradually reflected, some children can master the knowledge in books effortlessly, and some children need to work hard to maintain an ordinary level.
Children are talented, good at different fields, there are no exactly the same two leaves in the world, and there are no exactly the same two children.
However, children's concentration and learning ability are not innate, and are directly related to the growing environment and parental guidance.
Many times, children are not unable to learn, but unwilling to learn, because there is resistance in the heart, so they show inattention and poor learning ability.
This article is a personal dry goods output, if parents read it carefully, it must be helpful to improve their children's learning ability and concentration, and hope to share their personal experience and methods with people who are related.
Every child's learning ability is very strong
I always adhere to the attitude that children should be happy and carefree, and children should not have huge psychological pressure because of anything, including academic performance. I hope that my child can easily spend his childhood, and I will not and will not give my child a strong learning pressure in the future.
But not to give children learning pressure, does not mean that connivance children do not learn, learning, reading is a lifelong thing, whether the child has the talent to learn is not important, but the child must develop good learning habits.
Do not underestimate the child's learning ability, each child's learning ability is very strong, if the parents have not found that the child has a strong learning ability, it can only mean that the parents have not found the right direction, or the parents do not have enough patience.
A 3-year-old child is half-hearted and inefficient when learning Chinese characters, but when stringing beads, he is very active, from not knowing how to start at all, to easily wearing a necklace in just ten minutes.
Can you say that your child's learning ability is not strong? It can only be said that children are not focused enough on learning Chinese characters.
If all directions are counted, there must not be a child with poor learning ability, because children can always find their own good direction to show their learning ability.
It's just that children don't use their concentration on learning, so parents one-sidedly think that children's learning ability is not strong, and their concentration is not high.
Developing good study habits is the first step
Once the child's learning habits are formed, parents no longer have to worry about the child's learning, after the child goes to school, parents will live with peace of mind, and the emotions will not be contained by the child's learning state. However, learning habits can not be formed overnight, and it takes parents to pay great energy to let children develop good learning habits before the age of 6.
When the child's learning habits are formed, learning has become "commonplace", and the concentration when learning is naturally improved.
Why? Let me give you a simple example.
Tangyuan baby has been 3 years old, at the beginning of the year into the small nursery, only a month on the because of the epidemic suspension at home, although suspended, they still occasionally have English homework punch card, English homework is generally to learn new letters and new sentences, parents help children shoot into small videos and send to the group.
This assignment is voluntary and is done if the baby is able to complete it, and it doesn't matter if the baby is not able to complete it.
TangYuan Baby is 3 years old, her classmates are about the same age as her, and there are very few children who punch in every day to complete their homework.
This job does not have any difficulty for Tang Yuan, and it is easy to complete, it is only a matter of minutes.
There is a Classmate of Tang Yuan in the community called Meng Bao, the two children often play together, Meng Bao has hardly completed this homework, and Grandma said that there is no way to cooperate.
Meng Bao's grandmother often asked me how to guide Tang Yuan to learn, because Meng Bao was too unfocused every time he studied, and the ink could not record anything in the end for half a day.
I asked Meng Bao what she did before going to bed at night, and Grandma Meng Bao said that Meng Bao slept with her, played before going to bed, or looked at the mobile phone.
Grandma Meng Bao said that she also tried to show Meng Bao a video of a foreign teacher, but Meng Bao didn't want to watch it at all, and she watched other videos with a small hand.
This habit of the child is not formed in a day, and the connivance of the parents has her current habits.
This is the main reason, TangYuan will also have various activities before going to bed, occasionally reading picture books, occasionally watching her favorite shows, and occasionally playing hide-and-seek with grandma.
However, there is an activity before going to bed every day that there must be time to learn English, which has become a habit, and the school curriculum is not difficult for her because she has mastered more vocabulary.
That's where the gap lies.
Every day, she took half an hour to read with her child, and she did not resist this, but instead relished it, and sometimes she had to pick out a book she liked, and then turn to the page number she liked, and let me tell her it repeatedly.
When she doesn't understand, she also asks: What does this mean?
Insist on a day or two, this matter is not difficult, but has been insisting, for parents there is difficulty, I basically have no personal time, no time to watch variety shows, no time to chase dramas, but in exchange for children to develop a better habit.
Meng Bao's mother is a real Buddhist mother in behavior, and she is very relieved to hand over her child to her grandmother, and chasing dramas or brushing her mobile phone is her normal night.
After the child is 2 years old, parents should purposefully let the child insist on doing one thing a day, the benefit of this is to help improve the child's sense of self-discipline, and when they have become accustomed to learning is the norm of the day, the concentration when learning is improved.
The key is that when the child develops such a habit, the emotions of rejection and resistance disappear, the initiative of learning is improved, and the learning ability is naturally improved.
The secret to learning is repetition
Everything is difficult at the beginning, and the same is true for children's learning, take the matter of learning English, although I think English is very interesting, but when the child first contacts it, it will be a bit repellent, because she does not understand it at all.
But when the number of times you read a book repeatedly increases, the child's interest increases, and he unconsciously grasps the words and sentences in the book.
In the process of learning, they will have a spontaneous process of repetition, and when they basically master it, they will not repeat it again, and at this time they should show their children a new book.
This is true of any project, once the child is familiar with this matter, the resistance will weaken, new interest will be generated, learning will be more focused, and the result is an improvement in learning ability.
I believe that "repetition" can solve all learning problems, even if the child's mind is not flexible enough, as long as the parents have enough patience to guide, accompany the child to read a book repeatedly, the child's interest will gradually increase, once the child's interest is improved, the concentration is naturally improved, and the learning effect will appear.
In the process of accompanying their children, if parents can maintain calm, have enough patience, and guide their children to learn repeatedly, the child's concentration and learning ability will be unconsciously improved.