Almost all parents hope that their children can achieve good results, but there are many factors that affect the level of grades, leaving aside external factors, the baby's own concentration, spatial imagination, and learning endurance all play an extremely important role in learning.
Researchers collectively refer to these abilities as learning ability, and use learning ability as an important basis for judging children's future learning ability and learning effect.
Daniel Pinker once said in his best-selling book, Driving Force:
In the case of both reward and punishment mechanisms failing, learning is the intrinsic driving force that drives people to continuously improve, and this power has been traced since the child is very young.
In other words, the child's learning ability is actually "signs" when he is a child. So what kind of child can be regarded as a super learning child?
These three "quirks" on the child show that the learning ability is super strong, and parents should not interfere blindly!
1. Strange teenager: immersed in their own world, difficult to extricate themselves
Typical representative: Xu Chenyang
When it comes to today's mathematical community, Xu Chenyang is a name that can never be avoided. Just a few days ago, this authentic Chinese won the 2021 Cole Algebra Award with his outstanding contributions to mathematics, becoming the first Chinese since the establishment of this award.
In Xu Chenyang's growth experience, "genius" has always been the most vivid name that people can think of him, but few people realize that today's mathematical genius, industry leaders were once "strange teenagers" in the eyes of their parents.
According to the memories of Xu Chenyang's parents, Xu Chenyang has a habit since he was a child, that is, he will always be immersed in his own world, either reading books or concentrating on playing with the toys in his hands. Even if there are guests at home, Xu Chenyang, who is immersed in his own world, does not even greet him, like a "strange person".
This "strange" habit has helped Xu Chenyang develop a high degree of concentration, according to Xu Chenyang himself, since elementary school, his parents have not been worried about his learning, and he can reasonably arrange his study time.
2. Strong curiosity, a veritable king of curiosity
Typical representative: Sabine
Speaking of Sabine, everyone must not feel strange, this man from Peking University who was born with a bachelor's degree and a master's degree is an out-and-out student bully. But what you didn't expect is that Sabine, behind the identity of the bully, has had a strong curiosity since he was a child, and is a veritable king of curiosity.
Sarbanes, who grew up in the army compound, once took his sister down the well, picked loquats, and even the high-voltage electricity in the compound, Sabine had the courage to touch it.
This exuberant curiosity continued into Sabine's student days. No matter what kind of problem he faced, he always had the courage to "try it", and this valuable curiosity helped Sabine greatly liberate his learning nature, and finally gained the guaranteed ticket of Peking University.
3. Natural ETC: Break the casserole and ask the end
Typical representative: Leonardo da Vinci
For Leonardo da Vinci's parents, it is not an easy task to easily answer the questions of leonardo da Vinci Jr., because Leonardo da Vinci has had a spirit of breaking the casserole and asking questions from an early age. As long as it is the content that interests him, Leonardo da Vinci Jr. never skimps on time to figure out why.
In his notebook, there are many things that he "did not understand", from food, clothing, shelter and transportation to the mysteries of the human body, and even he tried to find the schematic diagram of the flight of birds, wondering whether human beings can fly freely in the sky like birds.
In the last words he left behind, he said with great interest and regret: "Be sure to figure out how the woodpecker's tongue works." It can be said that this kind of learning momentum that breaks the casserole to the end is the key to promoting Leonardo da Vinci to become a generation of masters.
Learning ability is the key to children's good grades, how should parents cultivate their children's learning ability?
1. Develop good study habits
Habit represents a spontaneous act. Good learning habits can help children to be more clear about their goals, more accurately arrange their own time, and effectively improve learning efficiency while ensuring the quality of learning.
In life, you often see some children, the first thing to do when you come home is to watch TV and play with your mobile phone, and when you think of writing homework, it is already eleven o'clock in the evening. It can only be "staying up late and working overtime", and then going to class the next day with a black eye. In the long run, how can children achieve good results?
2. Improve concentration
If good learning habits are equivalent to providing children with a stage for performance, then high concentration is equivalent to a spotlight on the stage, he will always focus on the child's side, to ensure that the child will not be disturbed by other factors in the process of learning.
In other words, the level of children's concentration is an important criterion for measuring the strength of children's learning ability. This requires parents to pay attention to the cultivation of children's concentration.
In general, a child's concentration development is divided into two stages.
0 to 3 years old: the budding period of concentration
Studies have confirmed that when the baby is two months old, the concentration has sprouted, and until the age of 3 is the rapid formation of the baby's concentration. Bao Mom should help the development of the baby's concentration through the three aspects of "guidance, training, and patience" and by letting the baby play with toys.
3 to 6 years old: focus on the long term
At this stage, the baby can already have a preliminary understanding of the things around him, and at the same time, he will be attracted to the changing things around him, and there is no way to focus on one thing. This leads to a situation where the baby forgets after reading it.
In other words, the longer your baby focuses on one thing when he is a child, the more he will be able to form concentration as soon as possible, thus laying the foundation for future learning.
Children's character development and emotional management are very important, and parents need to pay attention! I believe that every parent is looking forward to jackie chan and hoping for a woman to become a phoenix! When I am at home, I will read the picture book "Children's Mood Management and Character Cultivation" with my children, and the correct guidance of parents is very important!
In fact, human life is actually composed of a circle and a circle. Each circle is a group of people who come together. When your kids take the workout, they'll arrive at the circle. Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped. What parent doesn't want their children to get better?
When the child is still young, it is the best time to cultivate the child's good character and life habits, parents should seize the opportunity to let the child develop good life habits, cultivate the child's concept of money, self-confidence in the character.
There will be many problems on the child's growth path, and parents often ignore the guidance, resulting in defects in the child's personality.
A person's character and habits can affect his life.
For the future development of children, it is necessary for parents to pay attention to the cultivation of children's personality and habits. This picture book of "Children's Mood Management and Character Cultivation" can help children develop a good personality through classic fairy tales.
A total of 10 volumes in this set of books are written for children aged 0-6 years. Assist children in correcting their personality problems such as fear, low self-esteem, lack of awareness, avoidance of problems, fear of failure, etc.
This set of picture books can help children learn how to share with others, how to control their mood, learn to recognize their mistakes, have the courage to confess their mistakes, and let children develop good habits and good character.