Often my friends ask me what to do without a person? I think most people will experience such a problem. I feel that I have suffered countless grievances in my heart, and I can't see the future of this relationship. But looking back on all the good things in the past, when I said to leave, I was reluctant in my heart, so I repeated it and found that I was getting more and more unhappy. Sometimes, whether it is a person or a thing in the world, if you make your heart very nervous and uneasy, or choose to let go, it is the best choice. Once many people have chosen someone, they will put all their minds on one person, and they will revolve around him 24 hours a day, and all their joys and sorrows are because of him, and it seems to others that life has lost any fun. He will think about a sentence he will think about for a long time, he will do one thing at will, he will think a lot, inadvertently, he seems to have become an appendage to him, living without self. I have to say that such a existence is very bad, sometimes crying alone in the middle of the night, because he does not reply to a message, sometimes the mood is low, it is because he sees him and others talking and laughing, sometimes desperate to death, because he occasionally does not care about his own feelings.
If you love someone, if you love to the point where you can't give the other person any space and freedom, you can't give yourself any comfort and security. Either there is something wrong with the relationship, or something is wrong with yourself. The best thing in this world is that no matter how much two people love each other, they will not lose themselves. In daily life, each other cares for and cherishes each other, will respect each other's decisions, will believe each other's intentions, even if they occasionally laugh and want to make trouble, they will feel that it has caused life, no one has said that it must be who must be, no one has done anything easy to leave, when they are together, they only want to be together, and they only want to develop love to a higher level.
A relationship that doesn't make people feel very tired, a person who doesn't make people feel that they have gained and lost, is particularly important in the country of feelings, you don't doubt each other, you don't blame each other too much. Give each other warmth at the right time, give him a little light when the other person is sad, and the two people love with gratitude and feel more and more important and excellent to each other. The feeling of such love is always full of envy. Good feelings will never make you feel free, and it will not become a kind of bondage for you. It's like a seasoning for cooking a dish, and if you add it, it will be delicious, and if you don't add it, it will still taste delicious. He seems important, but he's not particularly important either. He seemed like a necessity in the kitchen, but sometimes it didn't matter if it wasn't. Sometimes the dishes are cooked more deliciously, and when they are not, they can eat a full stomach.
Love is not a necessity in your life, you will find that having him, your life will be very colorful, without him, you can also live better, this may be what you really need. Feelings have never been indispensable to anyone. The mission of this world is not to meet someone, to have someone, when there is no love, you concentrate on doing what you like, walking the road you like to walk, a person walking around and stopping, meeting different people and things, but also can make your life colorful. Sometimes neither gain nor loss is a bad thing for you, because you are having and losing all the way. Some things you will lose, but some things will break into your world. Love will come and go, I hope you live better when you have love, and live the most beautiful life when you don't have love.