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Be cruel to scumbags
In love, women hate scumbags the most, scumbags treat feelings half-heartedly, and always want to step on several boats, even if ugly things are broken, they will pretend to be full of indifference.
Because the scumbag is abusive, he will say the same sweet words to everyone, which requires women to be fierce in the face of scumbags, do not lose themselves in love, because being with such a man is not only insecure, but also hurts themselves.
Many times you will find that in fact, without the scumbag, your life will get better and better, and even more so meet a man who is sincere with himself.
Women are more emotional in love, and may also choose to forgive because of men's rhetoric or good attitude of admitting mistakes, but that is only superficial, I believe that many women's eyes can not tolerate a grain of sand, let alone in love?
Women should have principles in love, do not exceed this degree, otherwise there will be no sympathy for being hurt.
Be cruel to Ma Bao
Some moms are like a child who has not grown up, no matter what they do, they need their mother's company, even if they have a girlfriend, they still can't change their habits, there is a saying called "habitual children like killing children", which is also a good proof.
It is inevitable that there will be contradictions in life, but it is necessary to face it with a strong heart, rather than finding a safe haven when encountering difficulties, such a person will never grow up, just as the white-cheeked black goose will push them off the cliff after having children, because if you are not cruel, the probability of the child's survival will only be smaller, and the same should be true in the face of the mother's treasure man.
I have seen a story before, after a ma bao man has a girlfriend, whether it is a date or a home, he must bring his mother, if the mother is not there, ma bao man does not even eat, someone must bring the meal to the front to eat, meet such a man, or leave with a fierce heart.
A man does not even have the ability to live on his own, let alone to support a family?
Tough on the past
Some women will face a lot of unbearable past events, just want to bury it tightly in the depths of their hearts, hurt alone, and once they are uncovered, they will only die and live in pain.
But women should understand that the past has become the past, even if you think more, it is impossible to turn back time, and all you have to do is face the present and work hard for the future life, rather than being immersed in the past and unable to extricate yourself, which will only make you tired.
Being cruel to the past, forgetting the past, is also a kind of letting go, a relief for yourself, because the rest of your life is very long, you need to face it with a positive and optimistic attitude, you may see hope at the next intersection, you have to seize the opportunity, not in the endless darkness of pain, it means nothing to you.