For many families now, there are only one or two children in the family, and parents attach great importance to the question of children. Especially in terms of children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, parents are striving for excellence, and children should eat the best, wear the best, and live the best. Like some children live in schools that are far away, parents will choose to insist on pick-up and drop-off.
Many people of the older generation will sigh that the children of today are really so happy, like before they were walking alone on the road of flying loess with a small cloth bag. Nowadays, the children are picked up and dropped off by their parents, and some children with good conditions are still sitting in the car and the wind cannot be rained. This also shows that as the country prospers, people's quality of life is getting higher and higher.
For the problem of parents picking up and dropping off their children, many people think that there is no big problem, after all, who does not treat their children as a treasure; parents have worries in their hearts, and they have to pick up and drop off as far as they go.
For today's children, society is still too sinister, especially there are often news reports of children being abducted and bullied in school, which makes parents dare not let down their vigilance, even if it is far away to pick up their children to and from school.
Some mothers said that in order to better take care of their children and pick up their children, they quit their jobs, and the family is also very supportive, because there is only one child, but they can still find it after work, and when the child is slightly older and more independent, it is the same to find a job on their own. I have to say that these parents really see their children as if they were eyeballs, afraid of something missing.
Some parents also said that although there is a school bus transfer in the school, they also feel uneasy, one is because the school is really far from home, the school bus wants to send children around, wasting too much time, and the second is because the teachers on the school bus sometimes can't take care of all the children, once an emergency occurs on the school bus, the teacher will be caught off guard.
Ms. Li of Hunan has a special say in this regard, because her children have been left out of the school by the school bus, although the school has actively adjusted and sincerely apologized, but Ms. Li has a knot in her heart, and she thinks it is better to pick up and drop off the children herself.
Although parents pick up and drop off their children for the good of their children, there are also different voices in the society, some people think that children will easily lose their independence when they are picked up and watered like this, and some people feel that parents pick up and drop off their children back and forth, especially during the peak period of school, it is easy to cause traffic jams. Today's speech by a well-known professor has angered many parents.
First, the "parent pick-up" behavior has attracted heated discussion, and the professor angrily criticized it for destroying the child, parents: be nosy!
A well-known professor said on his Weibo that parents are really too precious students now, and he believes that going to and from school is completely enough for students to take the school bus back, or if the home is close, they can go home with a few children, just like before.
In this regard, the professor said that these parents waste their time in the wind and rain every day, just to pick up and drop off their children, which is too much of a fuss. In his view, the child is not a flower in the greenhouse, but an eagle growing up in the wind and waves, and parents are careful every day, which will only make the child lose independence.
For the professor's speech, many parents are very angry, and even many parents directly in the professor's Weibo back, really standing and talking without waist pain, will only say some cool words, some parents also called his professor simply nosy!
Parents pick up and drop off their children back and forth, nothing more than worrying about the safety of their children, the professor's speech may be for the good of the children, but he ignored that with the development of the times, although the country has become stronger and the people's living standards have improved, the background and environment of the times are different from before.
First of all, in terms of vehicle ownership, in the past the productivity of the country was not so strong, so the car is still a rare thing, and most of the region still relies on horses and cattle as the main means of transportation. But now it is different, the car ownership rate in the mainland is rising every year, people's travel is convenient, but the incidence of traffic accidents is also surging year by year. If the child is allowed to go home on his own, then the parents are bound to worry about traffic safety.
Secondly, the annual trafficking news is common, although the country is now vigorously cracking down on human trafficking, but it does not mean that human trafficking will completely disappear, if parents do not pick up and drop off at school, then it is likely to give human traffickers an opportunity.
Finally, there is a topic that has exploded in recent years - the problem of school bullying. In fact, instead of paying attention to the child's performance, teachers and parents should pay more attention to the child's psychological problems. Like the peak period of campus bullying, in fact, in the stage of going to and from school, especially in the stage of school, if this child is not picked up by parents, then it is easy to fall alone and become the bullying target of those bad students.
Cultivating children's independence is not just about a small thing
The professor mentioned above may be afraid of the child's loss of independence, but in fact, the child can exercise his independence in many ways, rather than just staring at a small matter that does not matter. Wouldn't it be better to exercise the child's independence without affecting the child's safety premise?
【Summary】
Like the trivial and difficult things in daily life, you can let the children try to solve themselves, parents can also let the children help themselves to do some housework at home, why should they just stare at a small matter of pick-up and drop-off?