Seeing the rabbit mother said, these 2 things dad is busy, but also to take the child to do, the mother is irreplaceable. It makes sense, so let's share it with you.
We all want to raise children who are healthy, smart and cute, but in a family, the impact of parents on children is different.
In general, in a family, when the mother takes care of the child, the father is easy to be absent, which may cause the child's personality to be unsound.
For example, a friend of mine, the father works outside the home all year round, the child is mainly taken care of by her and the grandmother, the child grew up in a female gentle environment, timid, crying when things happen, lack of masculinity.
The friend consulted the nursery teacher, who said that if the father is often away from home, it is also possible to improve the child's personality by letting the child get along more with men such as grandfathers or uncles.
Friends let the child live with the grandfather for a while, and found that the child was less timid, and there was really a change.
Therefore, the essence of dad's male strength, the role of the child's side is irreplaceable by the mother, related to the happiness of the child's life, these two things the father must take the child to do.
1. Fathers take their children to exercise
Father and child together to exercise, with the child to play football, play basketball, skipping rope, etc., sports bring children not only a strong physique, but more importantly, let the child have a good attitude, have a spirit of cooperation and not afraid of failure, have courage and confidence, etc.
Exercise can enhance the feelings between fathers and children, exercise can release emotions, stress, make people happy, and happy children are more likely to make friends, and children's social skills are also improved.
Mothers are generally busy with housework after work, and there are few sports with children, and some sports mothers do not do well.
2, fathers take their children to do housework
You can compare yourself to see who does more housework after two people get married, especially after having a baby, who does more housework?
I think most of the family is the mother to do the housework, some fathers are not able to do housework, some fathers think that the family should be women to do housework.
Especially if you think that the housework should be done by the mother, it will make the mother feel very uncomfortable, and in the eyes of the child, the father has also set a bad example for the child.
It's not that women do housework and have to take on more chores; there are also many women who don't do housework before marriage and take on all the housework after marriage.
Many families who accuse each other of not doing housework are not really because they "don't wash the dishes and don't sweep the floor", but because they have accumulated a lot of money in adulthood and have not been seen.
In a family, the father's attitude towards the mother determines the child's future view of marriage, whether the father respects the mother, or calls around, supports or is the treasurer, will be seen by the child and copied into his own marriage.
Therefore, the father should take the child to do housework, if it is a boy, he will learn to respect women and be considerate of the lover in the future; if it is a girl, the father does housework at home, the good man and the husband look, she has seen it, and the standard of mate selection will also be improved.
And from the perspective of children's cognitive development, doing housework has many benefits for children, not only can cultivate children's autonomy, but also let children learn responsibility, love and responsibility.
The easiest way for children to have a "roll up their sleeves and work hard" thinking is to do housework.
What can children of different ages do?
Finally, I share a list of household chores for children of different ages starting at the age of two that dads can do with their children.
Moms can share it with dads!
Does your dad take the kids to exercise and do housework?