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01. Preface
Life is like a drama, everyone is their own director. Some people interpret the drama of life with excitement; some people interpret life as a tragedy.
In life, success or failure lies in oneself. In life, people who are easy to succeed often walk very "slowly".
Bacon said: "People who are really fast are not just people who do things fast, but people who do it successfully and effectively." ”
On the road of life, going too fast is sometimes not a good thing. Learning to "slow down" and then improve efficiency often results with less.
"Slow" down, rationally look at the overall situation, grasp the development of the situation; "slow" down, can clearly understand themselves, can better move forward.
"Slow" is a kind of wisdom.
"Slow" down, not only can let people avoid the trap of anxiety, but also calm down and better deal with the world. "Slow down" down, you can see more scenery, see the people around you.
The great wisdom of a person's success is often "slow".
02, when planning, "slow" a little
On the road of life, when planning, don't be too anxious, don't set the wrong direction.
"Slow down" a little, carefully analyze the development of the situation; slow down, keep rational and see the overall situation.
Concubine Jing and her son Xiao Jingyan in "Langyabang" are bent on revenge and rehabilitating the Red Flame Army. However, the two people knew that their abilities were limited, and it was difficult to overthrow the emperor's "judgment".
Jingfei knew that her son was in a hurry, and she kept her sanity and constantly advised him to endure. It is proposed that he "slow down" and let him first go to the military camp to exercise himself, gradually control the army, and become a more mature and capable person.
Princess Jing did not prematurely set a goal for her son to "compete for the throne", but instead allowed Jing Yan to avoid the embarrassment of various forces.
She just persuaded him to live well and plump his wings. It is precisely because he "slowed down" that he slowly learned the skill and had a big pattern.
People who are really easy to succeed, when setting goals, will not be too anxious, but will "slow down".
"Slow down", see the situation clearly, and then make careful planning. If the direction is wrong, no matter how much effort is in vain.
If you find the right direction, it will be easier to succeed when you work hard. When making a plan, don't be afraid of "slow", little by little to disintegrate the difficulties, step by step steady, in order to be closer to success.
03, when there is no opportunity, slow down
People who are really easy to succeed, when there is no opportunity, know how to "slow down", invest in themselves, and do a lot of money.
Sheng Minglan in the TV series "Know It or Not", knowing that her own humble origins and knowing that her resources are less than other sisters in the family, she is not in a hurry to find a good person.
Don't live your life by marrying someone powerful. Instead, learn to "slow down" and strive to become a wiser and more capable person through learning.
She is the one who studies the hardest among the sisters, and she is also the one who understands the truth more.
"Slow down", constantly improve yourself, and be transparent inside. In the end, only she married the best, ran her marriage the best, and became the happiest woman among the sisters.
Sheng Minglan, with his own ability, brought "benefits" to the entire Shengfu.
On the road of life, no matter what kind of situation you are in, you don't have to be in a hurry, but you have to manage yourself to the best state.
Success never happens overnight. "Good things are more grinding", learning to slow down, will often be more prepared, and improve yourself with your heart.
Truly successful people know how to "slow down", read more books, and see more. Don't pursue fast, but pursue stability and pursue your own growth.
04, let the time slow down, learn to rest
Learning to rest is an ability.
Learn to rest, learn to slow down, in order to move forward better.
When people want to achieve something, they often spare no effort and will challenge their own endurance limits. However, if you blindly seek speed, you will often not be able to achieve speed.
Blindly seeking speed will put the body in a very tired state, which will not only make the efficiency slower, but also may have more flaws.
On the road of life, if you feel tired, please learn to slow down and learn to adjust.
As the saying goes: "Sharpen the knife and don't cut the wood by mistake".
If you are a "knife", it is easy to be "blunt" in a tired state, and it seems that you have been "cutting firewood", but in fact, it is inefficient.
People who will not rest, no matter how hard they try, is also a state of "false effort".
People who are really easy to succeed know how to "slow down", know how to combine work and leisure, keep a clear mind, and do things efficiently.
It's not that the longer you work, the easier it is to succeed. Learning to rest and do things efficiently is what smart people do.
05. Summary
On the road of life, learn to slow down, don't go too fast.
Lu Xun said: "Shame on the end." Even if it is slow, unceasing, even if it will fall behind, even if it will fail, it will certainly be able to achieve the goal he is aiming for.
People's talents and talents are not the same, maybe some people understand things faster, some people understand slower. However, don't worry, learn to slow down, cultivate carefully, improve yourself, and you can find a breakthrough point.
Don't always think about winning, but think about what you have gained.
Don't make yourself too tired, know how to combine work and leisure, give yourself plenty of rest time, and adjust yourself to the best state, so that you don't miss the opportunity.
The weak are always compared with others, losing their sense of self and direction in anxiety; the strong, only compared with themselves, continue to grow in the process of surpassing themselves.
On the road of life, it doesn't matter if you go slower. As long as you persevere, you will receive the gift of fate.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.