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At the end of "Heart Residence", Gu Qingyu was not with Zhan Xiang, although she did not say the two words of breakup, but her choice actually meant to break up. Because she really can't say the two words of breaking up, going to Singapore may just be an excuse for her to escape the exhibition.
She has been with Zhan Xiang for a short time, Zhan Xiang has not changed, or as good as in the past, it can be said that everything is good, such an object, absolutely no need to be picky.
But Zhan Xiang never touched Gu Qingyu, did not let her really choose him from the heart, and finally gave up on him for her own future.
In the last episode, Zhan Xiang celebrates her birthday, in the restaurant, in fact, she sees Zhan Xiang's hand in the pants pocket, needless to say that she knows that Zhan Xiang is a ring in the pants pocket.
She felt that if she let him pull it out, it would be her who would be embarrassed, in order not to embarrass herself, so she preemptively said that she was going to Singapore, she had always been like this, in this relationship, she was the active one, taking the initiative to end together, and Zhan Xiang was the passive one.
The audience all said that Zhan Xiang was so good, Gu Qingyu was not worthy, this is really not Gu Qingyu is not worthy, but Zhan Xiang did not really move Gu Qingyu. He couldn't have touched Gu Qingyu in his lifetime.
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Zhan Xiang was in love with Gu Qingyu at first sight, when he looked at the house, he saw that Gu Qingyu and her father were also looking at the house, and learned that she bought the house here, he decided to buy the house here without saying a word, just in order to become her neighbor, you can meet with her every day.
This was the beginning of their acquaintance, and since then, Zhan Xiang has become Gu Qingyu's licking dog, always by her side, making no secret of his liking for her and warmly expressing his liking for her, which Gu Qingyu knows.
His licking of her touched all the audience, but did not move Gu Qingyu.
Why? The reason was very simple, what he gave was not what Gu Qingyu wanted. It was difficult for him to really impress Gu Qingyu, because she had been her father's little princess since she was a child, and she had grown up spoiled from an early age.
As the saying goes, if you raise a daughter from a young age, you will not be coaxed away by a man who casually gives a piece of sugar when he grows up. There is nothing wrong with this sentence in Gu Qingyu.
Because she was pampered since she was a child, she can have whatever she wants, not to mention that when she grows up, she is still very strong and very good at making money, and she can buy whatever she wants.
In the case of a person who lacks nothing, no matter how good outsiders are to her, she cannot be moved. Zhan Xiang gave her a very valuable gift on her birthday, and she did not blink an eye and directly refused. As you can see from this, it's really hard to please her.
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If Gu Qingyu has a large basket of apples, and Zhan Xiang sends her apples at this time, she will be very dismissive. If Gu Qingyu wants Sydney, but he sends apples, of course, it will not impress her.
Gu Qingyu has achieved wealth freedom, a mansion of tens of millions, and she decided to buy it without even thinking about it. There is no shortage of bread, only love, in her eyes, love is the one who can make her heart move.
Shi Yuan is the person who can bring her heart, even if she has not seen her for more than twenty years, when she says goodbye, she will still be impressed with her, even if he is no longer the appearance of white moonlight, even if he is very poor, he will still be impressed by him.
This heartbeat is something that Zhan Xiang cannot give. In her eyes, Zhan Xiang is really a very good friend, a friend who can talk about troubles at will, and a friend who can drink with him when he is unhappy.
But with him, you just don't feel the heartbeat, no heartbeat, how to love.
This is where Zhan Xiang can't move Gu Qingyu, she wants to be moved, she is not at all moved by Zhan Xiang's side, she goes to the concert with him, and what she thinks in her heart is the last time she and Shi Yuan listened to the concert here.
She was with him, very plain inside, without any waves.
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Many people may think that as long as I am good to her, I will make her fall in love with herself, but this is not the case. Love is not something that is good for her, and it can be moved.
It's a feeling, and if you have a feeling, you don't need to do anything, just stand next to her and your heart will beat. If there is no feeling, no matter how much you do it, you will not have that heartbeat.
So whether you can impress the other party, the most important thing is not whether you have a heart for her, but whether she will feel moved by you, if she has a heart, your efforts will be doubled, otherwise it is half the work, and half a day of busy work can not be moved.
Zhan Xiang is the best example, don't think it's just a TV series, in reality, it is difficult not to be moved when you meet someone like Zhan Xiang. But this is actually a microcosm of reality.
Even if Zhan Xiang was good to her for another hundred years, he would not touch her unless he was Shi Yuan, but it was obvious that he was not.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"