No encounter is inherently strong enough to make us not afraid to part, but there is always a reunion ahead that is worth our efforts.
The reason why life is wonderful is sometimes because after the loss, there will always be new hopes, and these hopes are unknown, full of temptation, and people can't help but want to try to run in its direction.
And the love we are looking forward to may appear in our lives many years later, or it may just crash into our arms at the next street corner.
In fact, between every pair of friends of the opposite sex, there is a certain chance that the relationship will be qualitatively changed, but the size of the probability is different between different people.
Some people have too little chance, and eventually they can only return to ordinary friends, while some people have a greater chance, and if they take a step forward, they will undergo earth-shaking changes.
For the opposite sex, the reason why intimate relationships occur is mostly from these three topics.
1. Love
In many people's chat topics, love is an unavoidable existence, it seems that no matter what everyone is talking about, they can always pull on love.
But this situation will most likely occur between same-sex friends, friends of the opposite sex, may occasionally mention, but only a few words, such as "Have you recently been in love?" "No, they said it blindly", between questions and answers, the topic ended.
There are also a small number of friends of the opposite sex who will have a deep discussion on the topic of love, if they are single, then this is a kind of temptation.
While understanding the other party's current emotional state, you also want to know what the other party's attitude towards love is, and whether it is consistent with your own concept of love.
After all, if two people even have different views, then there is no more possibility, on the contrary, when two people together will often talk about the topic of love, and can find a lot of resonance from it, the emotion will quietly change.
It is rare to have such a suitable person, they may have nothing to do with love at first sight, but they must be the best object of long-term love.
2, the small details of life
For many people, such a thing as love at first sight is a moving plot that only exists in the novel, and life is more of a long-term love.
There may be some people who think that long-term love is just the result of weighing the pros and cons, but in fact, it is more in the process of long-term contact, seeing the shining points in each other, never being attracted to each other, which is the correct interpretation of long-term love.
For the vast majority of people, the understanding between the opposite sex and the opposite sex is based on the daily chat process, and everyone chats casually.
But some people will also talk about the small details of life, in these places, is the best way to see a person's character advantages, so when the opposite sex begins to talk about the small details of life, emotions are prone to qualitative changes.
More importantly, if the feelings of both parties for each other are just simple friends, then these details will not be mentioned at all, and only people who are close to each other will be willing to completely expose their lives to each other.
3. Family
In fact, even if they have been friends for many years, they may not have a deep understanding of each other's families, because in the eyes of many people, the reason why everyone will become friends is completely unrelated to the family behind them.
Of course, in the years of becoming friends, there will certainly be some understanding, but these are accumulated from daily small things, and there are few cases that will be actively mentioned.
Especially for friends of the opposite sex, everyone will feel that there is no need for this, but if you start talking about each other's family, it is actually a signal.
Want to let the other party understand their family background, so as to evaluate the results of the sublimation of feelings, after all, everyone is not a child, similar to not caring about the results, no one believes it.
If you know that there is no result, each other is not suitable, it is better to start from now, so before that, you may wish to understand clearly, more importantly, this is also one of the ways to express your sincerity, but at the same time, even if you feel inappropriate, there will be no embarrassment of being rejected, and everyone just silently returns to the position of friends.
The greatest sorrow in life is not to lose too much, but to worry too much, which is also an important reason for a person's unhappiness.
If you don't care at all, you may not be very happy, but you can't be too calculating, especially in the matter of love, the three views, character, the future, etc. These are to be calculated, and for other details, everyone must learn to turn a blind eye.
How many of those who claim that they have no requirements, but in the end they have spent their years and have never been able to find their favorite, how many of them really have no requirements and calculations?
No one is perfect, first of all, everyone is not very perfect, so don't ask too much for the other half, like is the first, the other can be appropriately relaxed, I believe that if you can really do this, then your love road will not be very bumpy.