Li Anne said that the most difficult thing to buy in the world is regret medicine, if you really have it, you don't need to buy three pills. A grain put ten years ago to buy a house, open up the old life, even if you sell blood to borrow usury to buy, you can buy a few sets to buy a few sets. One pill was placed in my dad's cerebral hemorrhage hospital when I was personally with him. And one more pill, I didn't have miscarriage surgery that year, but gave birth to a baby, and now I'm almost 5 years old. I don't know if it's a boy or a girl.
Looking at "Heart Residence" again, I really understood the meaning of the three regret pills that Li Anne wanted.
Ding Qidong "derailed"
Li Anne and Ding Qidong are college lovers, at that time, they were an envied couple, fairy companions, and after graduation, they cultivated positive results. It's like a prince and a princess ending up living happily ever after.
Unfortunately, there is no fairy tale palace in life. They caught up with the first wave of house price increases when they got married. Both parents are working-class, undecided, missed.
Good old house enough to live, the area is not small, quite spacious. The old three rooms of 80 square meters, the small couple lives in the south-facing room, the in-laws live in the north-facing room, and there is a small room facing south, where Ding Qidong's grandmother lives.
Li Anne was stronger than Gu Qingyu in her bones, and so was Ding Qidong. These two people must be strong, put on the career is good, live a little bit of food. Compete with others, but also with yourself.
Everyone likes to compare, peers are comparators, than spouses, than work units, and salaries, and now there is a new one, than the house. Then one compared to the house, the other options are secondary.
Ding Qidong is a science man, he is resolute not to buy a house, he does not use a computer, in the brain cracked a bit of operation, what time cost, opportunity cost, visible, invisible, resolutely do not buy.
After Li Anne became pregnant, house prices rose to the second wave, and this anxiety was also put on the table, and three rooms lived for three generations, so-so. Living for four generations is a bit reluctant.
The second wave of housing market is more ferocious, people who have missed once, more wandering, both want to move, but do not dare to move, afraid that the property market is the second stock market, the high point into it, fell to the parents' home and do not know.
Intuitively and spontaneously, Li Anne decided to buy a two-bedroom apartment near the unit. Ding Qidong firmly opposed, moving out a bunch of data, interest, inflation rate, house prices can not exceed several times the household income, supplemented by the tokyo and Hong Kong property bubbles and so on. An unprecedented dispute broke out between the husband and wife, and all the negative emotions since the marriage erupted at that moment, almost without moving.
Li Anne seemed to see the end of the day at a glance, desperate and unbearable. Missed houses, wave after wave.
Missed with the house, or the vows, ideals, and visions of the student days, those shining things, little by little, are consumed, and finally only dry ashes are left, nothing.
Along with the loss was the pride of two people. They lived a joke.
It felt like standing in quicksand, slowly sinking down, unable to exert any strength, and eventually the person was gone.
Li Anne immediately decided to give herself a dead trick, she went to the hospital to drain the child, the five-month fetus, has been somewhat formed. The doctor advised her to think clearly. She just ignored it.
After the operation, she lay weakly on the bed and said firmly: I don't want to live with you. Ding Qidong was mad and slapped her. The process of divorce was accelerated.
Later, Li Anne told her friend that it was Ding Qidong who cheated. In fact, there was no cheating, Ding Qidong did not even touch a single strand of the woman's hair, and what caught the current and caught the adultery in bed were all lies made up by her.
After doing this, there was no way back, only to move forward. She was afraid that once she softened her heart, she would fall into this muddy stagnant water again.
After the divorce, she got a visa, went abroad, remarried, and hid from the anxious world like a plague, even if she regretted it for the rest of her life.
Li Anne did not deny that she loved Ding Qidong, and when she divorced for a while, she asked Gu Qingyu: If you can't find Ding Qidong in the future, what will you do to a man with an appetite? Gu Qingyu replied: For the sake of safety, or leave. The two are not married to live a life, with whom to live is not to live, life for decades, makeshift will pass.
However, Li Anne was determined to leave. He said that she had a fetish for cleanliness, and that as long as a man cheated once, even if he was good and loved him again, it was impossible.
But in fact, there was no cheating, Li Anne escaped only the despair in her heart, and had nothing to do with love.
Li Anne is a strong woman, fierce and decisive. She knows what she wants, and with love, she wants a material sense of security, and a house is the best place to put love. So, Anne Lee was right to divorce. In that case at that time, if you didn't divorce, you would either drag Ding Qidong to death or kill yourself.
Lee Anne marries a foreigner
In the past few years of working abroad, Li Anne has been smooth sailing, coupled with a typical oriental face, which has won the admiration and pursuit of many foreigners. Frank is one of them. Frank is a billionaire, bearded, handsome, house and stocks, movable and immovable property, adding up to hundreds of millions of assets, and a small island in Fiji. It's older, nearly two rounds older, and 60 years old right away.
Frank is surrounded by countless warblers and swallows, ring fat swallows thin, all nationalities. However, he was the only one who loved Li Annie. He said Li Anne was the most temperamental Chinese woman he had ever met.
Frank embarks on a frantic quest for Annie Lee. Every day, flowers, chocolates, and candlelight restaurants were bombarded one after another, and Li Anne was a bit overwhelmed, and the pursuit lasted for two months.
But Anne Lee was unmoved. All 36-year-old women are not easy for men to say two sweet words.
Li Anne is a very paranoid and strong woman in her bones, even more excessive than Gu Qingyu.
Later, Frank was ready to give up, and Li Anne suddenly agreed. She said to Gu Qingyu: I nodded my head when he was almost desperate. Because Li Annie heard that Ding Qidong had remarried. Then Li Anne doesn't seem to have to hold it.
Later, Li Anne laughed at herself that she had won glory for the country and defeated countless women of different races in different countries.
The two soon had a wedding, and the wedding was perfect, and Anne Lee stood with Frank, who had a beard and an artist look, looking very beautiful. In addition to his age, the groom can even be called a beautiful man. At the wedding, he was very polite and elegant, shuttling between all kinds of female guests and kissing their foreheads affectionately.
There were no oriental faces at the wedding, and Neither of Li Anne's parents nor her family came. Lee Anne didn't care either, she said, it was my own life. Gu Qingyu guessed that she wanted to completely forget the past and make a decision with the past.
But it didn't take long for Anne Lee to divorce again. It's a strange thing.
Even Gu Qingyu, a girlfriend and good friend, actually knew that Li Annie had completed the divorce procedures. Gu Qingyu was shocked to see Li Annie and Ding Qidong sitting side by side. Only then did I learn that because Ding Qidong was divorced, Li Anne was also divorced.
Many past events can not be forgotten, the year of marriage, if it were not for the news of Ding Qidong's remarriage, she would not have married so quickly; now, the news of Ding Qidong's divorce, Li Anne found that she still could not forget him, decided to divorce and return to China, looking for Ding Qidong to remarry.
Li Anne has always had big ideas, arbitrary and arbitrary, and I have done my own thing. When she divorced Ding Qidong, her parents did not agree, and she was determined to leave; now that she and Frank are divorced, her best friends do not know. What a powerful woman this is.
Good horses eat back grass
Seeing Ding Qidong again, Li Anne felt infinite tenderness in her heart. The man in front of him was already in his early forties, and the Sichuan character pattern with a deep eyebrow looked a little sad and somewhat responsible. It is the appearance of an old-school Shanghai man. A piece of whiteness on the top of the head is a symbol of aging. Also, Ding Qidong lost his hair before he was thirty years old.
It can be said that Ding Qidong has not changed much, except that he is a little older. This man has always been the same old look, looking mental, with a higher IQ than emotional intelligence, a developed mind, no diligence.
Li Anne texted her good friend Gu Qingyu and said, "Dear, I am divorced." Gu Qingyu was still thinking about how to comfort his friend. Li Anne has been divorced once before, is this time to take out the comforting words she said last time and say it again?
Then Gu Qingyu came to see the two, and Ding Qidong actually said that Gu Qingyu was fat. You know, women are most taboo about others saying that they are fat, who says they are fat, women can take a knife and cut it... Then, Ding Qidong mended the knife again and said: It is good to be fat, not to look old... Look at this person's emotional intelligence. It's really worthy of a science man, straight ahead.
Ding Qidong was divorced half a year ago. He had a four-year-old daughter who was raised by him. Anne Lee also felt very good. Because it is estimated that I can't give birth when I am older, it is not bad to have a ready-made daughter to raise.
Gu Qingyu asked Li Annie if there was a woman outside Frank. Li Anne said that I mentioned the divorce.
Why, because Ding Qidong is divorced. Ding Qidong still loves me, and for so many years, fortunately he still loves me.
Women are all emotional animals, although they are strong and in the workplace, galloping through the storm, but in the final analysis, they still long for a man who loves himself and loves himself for a lifetime. This is the most simple ideal of women in this world.
Later, When Anne Lee found out she was pregnant and the baby was Frank's, she insisted on giving birth because she wanted to be a mother.
At that time, the reason why she divorced Ding Qidong was that she had killed the fetus that was five months old without permission, and at that time she did not want to be a mother, and she was bent on buying a house. Now she wants to be a mother and is desperate to give birth to her ex-husband's child.
After giving birth to Frank's child, the nurse gave milk, Li Annie was rubbed and screamed for help, Ding Qidong stepped forward and grabbed one of his wife's hands, and couldn't help but laugh out loud: People who beat the tiger to death, what tofu Xi Shi Ta.
The so-called confidant Morov, Ding Qidong thoroughly understood and understood Li Annie.
Li Anne and Gu Qingyu are good girlfriends of more than ten years, and the two are roommates in the same dormitory of the university, with bunk beds and rice mats for four years. The two have similar temperaments and are also strong women in their careers.
When Li Anne married Frank, only Gu Qingyu came. Li Anne did not complain, after all, Paris is not Ba city, come to the end of the big move. You have to have money, leisure, and interest. At this age, it is the time when the career family is busy.
Gu Qingyu was the only exception, and his work was also busy, but he had already passed the stage of not being able to draw out, at least he didn't have to look at anyone's face. The salary is also high enough, and it is more than enough to fly and buy a limited edition designer bracelet as a gift. Therefore, Li Anne said that she is the fifth daughter of the Diamond King.
Looking at the original work of "Heart Residence", it was found that Li Annie and Gu Qingyu were mirror images of each other and complemented each other. Friends are all similar. Gu Qingyu is an independent white-collar worker in the city, and so is Li Annie.
After so many years of workplace experience, Li Anne has long been freed from the shackles of money and houses, and after marrying Frank, she has no such trouble. Then other needs are highlighted. In the life with Frank, in the unconscious comparison, I miss my feelings with Ding Qidong even more, and I miss Ding Qidong's kindness to myself.
Li Anne, as a white bone spirit in the workplace, works vigorously, loves and hates clearly, and has outstanding performance, but in marriage, it seems to be a bit unclear, when she and Ding Qidong hu tangled with divorce, remarried and found a foreigner, and then because her ex-husband divorced and asked for divorce, it is the strong woman who demands the purity of feelings. Of course, this also shows from the side that home is not a reasonable place, but a place of affection.
Once the sea was shipwrecked as water, except for the Wushan Mountain is not a cloud. People always pursue what they don't have, and they can only see it after they get it. Enjoyed the life of not having to worry about money, enjoyed it, and found that I didn't really like it. Love is beautiful in life. Lee anne understood this and divorced Frank.
Love is the warm harbor, home is the destination of the soul, and two people who love each other are home together. With a home, the heart is at ease. This is also the dwelling place of the heart.
May every woman have a happy home.