Text/Wei Chen
Human desires are endless, and once a person cannot control his inner desires well, he will live an extraordinarily screwed up life.
Man's birth is predestined by Heaven, but man's fate has always been in his own control.
In terms of material conditions and family environment, everyone's starting point is different. But cognitively, when people come into this world, the starting point of their thoughts is exactly the same.
Improving one's own thinking and cognition for a long time and steadily is the key to distanceing oneself from others.
There is a law in psychology called Murphy's Law, which says that if you are very worried that something may go wrong, then there is a high probability that this thing will go wrong.
This is also what we usually call "afraid of what comes". We have to admit that the fear of failure is most likely to lead to failure.
In fact, the quality of a person's fate can be predicted. Here are 5 characteristics that often appear in people who are getting better and better, and all of them are worth congratulating.
Regular work and rest
All human activities are cyclical, to put it bluntly, everyone has their own biological clock.
The clock calendar we usually use is to calculate time, and there is a similar set of "clock calendars" in our bodies, which are used to calculate life.
In the eyes of most people, once people reach middle age, they will begin to pay attention to health, and even some superstitions.
This situation does not arise because the older people are backward in their thinking, but because they regret it and go to the doctor in a hurry.
If you look closely, you will find that most of those who pay attention to health care have various discomfort symptoms on their bodies.
Because I have personal experience, I am willing to understand the topic of health. No matter what age a person is, as long as the long-term irregular schedule will disrupt the biological clock, and after the biological clock is disturbed, the pain will naturally appear.
Only when the work and rest rules can we have more energy to live, and our fate will get better and better.
Studious
Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
If you want to live a better life, you must constantly improve yourself and be a diligent and studious person in order to stand out in the crowd.
"Yanzi Spring and Autumn" has clouds: "Those who do always succeed, and those who walk often arrive." ”
People who keep moving forward are always easier to achieve their goals.
The writer Gladwell proposed the "law of 10,000 hours" in the book "The Outlier", and he tells us that the genius in people's eyes can excel not because of talent, but because of continuous effort.
Diligence can really change lives.
Although each of us has a dream of doing big things in our hearts, not everyone has enough courage and perseverance.
Diligence and persistence are easier said than done, and those ordinary years need to be accumulated to show heights that others cannot reach.
Those who are diligent and studious, their fate will surely get better and better.
Complete the plan
Execution is an important ability for anyone. Only when a person has strong execution can he complete his life plan to the greatest extent possible.
It is no exaggeration to say that everyone has a dream, and every dream is beautiful, but not all people have the ability to realize their dreams.
Dreams that cannot be realized are not all fantasies, and even they can be realized only because their owners choose to give up halfway through.
A smart person will always remind himself not to be too self-moved, and sometimes some efforts sound touching, but they are meaningless.
You know, completing the plan does not require fancy tricks, pragmatic, so as not to let the efforts fail.
People who can complete the plan on time, no matter how bad they look when running, will not have a bad fate in the end.
No more dependencies
We grew up under the protection of our parents, and dependence is human instinct. When one day you stop relying on others, it means that you have grown up.
Miyazaki once said, "Don't rely on a person easily, he will become your habit." When separation comes, you lose not someone, but your spiritual pillar. Learn to walk independently whenever and wherever you are, and he will make you walk more calmly. ”
Independence is a skill that everyone has to learn in life.
Only when a person is no longer dependent on others can he have more energy to know himself, change himself, shape himself and become himself.
A person's footsteps can only follow the command of the heart before they can take the path they originally wanted to take. Dependence does make it easy for people to walk, but it does not make people walk freely.
It just so happens that one of the criteria for judging whether life is good or bad is freedom.
Optimistic and positive
The world is like a mirror, you frown at it, it will also frown at you, you are full of joy, it naturally smiles at it.
While a positive mindset doesn't solve any problem, it can prevent it from getting worse.
In our lives, those who fall into a vicious circle tend to harbor negative psychology. Because of the fear and suspiciousness in the heart, everything that blows the grass is a soldier.
If a person's spirit is under high-intensity pressure for a long time, it will collapse if it is not careful, and the good life will naturally have no chance with it.
Our life is actually made up of countless small things, and your mentality when you face small things is the epitome of life.
Optimistic and positive people, life will not be too bad, pessimistic and negative people, in the long run, it is inevitable to be world-weary.
Having an optimistic and positive attitude can make life hopeful even in the face of adversity.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.