After the birth of the child, the couple's sleep time drops sharply. The sleep time of women after giving birth is about 1 hour less than before pregnancy, and the sleep time of men is reduced by about 13 minutes.
After having a baby, what is the most lacking thing for everyone? Some people may think that there will be a lack of money, a lack of time, a large bed or a large room, but few people with children lack sleep.
Many mothers said that after giving birth to a child, they were "five elements lack of sleep", and their biggest dream was to be able to sleep comfortably all night.
Cai Shaofen was busy with the baby, and sanwa's mother was not good
After Cai Shaofen gave birth to three children at an advanced age, there was a period of time when her appearance decreased visibly to the naked eye. As a result, many netizens feel that she and her husband are like two generations together.
Everyone only remembers her bright and beautiful image on the screen, but ignores that outside the screen, she is also an ordinary mother, and she is a three-child mother who has doubled her hard work.
Cai Shaofen, 48, in the program "Send a Hundred Girls Home", talked about her experience with her baby over the years.
The brokerage company used such a sentence in its promotion - behind the title of mother, there is real unrequited love.
As we all know, Cai Shaofen is a more cheerful person, and when answering the feelings of the mother of three children, she said bluntly: "It's really hard."
It turns out that the star is at home with a baby, but also a busy state, a child is not good to bring, you can imagine how bad the mother of three children is.
She originally liked to chat, and she had endless words after mentioning her children. After hearing her laugh and say these words, the people who came over felt too sad.
Cai Shaofen has not slept for 10 years, no wonder the aging is obvious
When Cai Shaofen is not working, she will personally take the baby, get up at 5 o'clock every morning, cook for her two daughters, and let the daughters go to school beautifully.
After the sisters left, the three babies also woke up, and Cai Shaofen also fed her young son, basically after taking a nap, she had to pick up her daughter from school.
Sometimes the younger son will make a fuss at more than 4 o'clock in the morning, and Cai Shaofen will not be able to sleep again after waking up, and sleep is indeed pitiful. And the state of not being able to sleep fully has been nearly 10 years.
Everyone knows that Cai Shaofen's appearance when she was young was very high, even if she is nearly half a hundred years old now, she is also very temperamental. Don't look at the recovery now, but after she gave birth to her three children a few years ago, she did age significantly.
After understanding her life with a baby, I understood that even if she was in her twenties, she would become haggard with a baby like this, not to mention that Cai Shaofen was an elderly baby.
Cai Shaofen once posted photos on the Internet, holding a baby in one hand and cooking with the other. At that time, many people thought that this was a pose, and they felt that it was not so exaggerated to take a baby.
Sugar Mom wants to say that many similar pictures are not posed, and in real life, they may be more exaggerated than photos.
These difficult scenes with babies are not posing
Before having a baby, many people thought that a baby was a little angel. Children know how difficult it is to take a baby, and these are very real scenes.
1) Holding the baby in one hand to cook and eat
Holding a baby in one hand and doing things with the other is almost a skill that all parents must learn. Sugar mother also has the experience of holding a baby in one hand and cooking with the other, in fact, she also knows the danger in her heart, of course, the situation is special, and both sides cannot put it down.
In addition to holding the baby to cook, holding the baby to buy vegetables, eating, etc. are common things, Cai Shaofen just shared her real life on the Internet, many bao dad and mother, in fact, can not be photographed empty.
2) Carry the baby to the bathroom
People have three emergencies, want to go to the bathroom, there are always times when they can't help it. But at this time, the baby is sleeping, or just walked into the bathroom, the baby began to make trouble.
If someone in the family is okay, if there is no one in the family, while solving their own problems, they must also comfort the crying baby. I had to sit on the toilet and hold the child, and I couldn't care if it was embarrassing.
Children do not dislike the smelly dry bathroom, as long as they can see their parents and be held in their arms is happy. If one day I find that there is a treasure mother posting such a photo, I believe that she is definitely not posing.
3) Sleep next to the stroller bed
Parents often coax themselves to sleep in the process of coaxing their babies to sleep. Sometimes you sleep in a large bed with your baby, or you may fall asleep next to a crib.
Sugar mom has seen on the Internet, a baby dad posted a photo of his wife sleeping, baby mom sitting next to the crib, one hand under the head, one hand on the baby's feet.
Many people are saying that she is posing for hype, but only when she comes over understands that this is a real scene, and people with babies are used to it.
The motivation to persist no matter how difficult it is to take a baby is often because of love
Although Cai Shaofen said that it was hard, she also said that the whole process of taking the baby was also very enjoyable. This is also the same feeling of many people who have come here.
Cai Shaofen hugged the child out of the periarthritis shoulder, and she did not have time to relax, but she still felt that it was "worth it".
Even if she has the financial strength to ask for a nanny and aunt, in the matter of taking the baby, she still has to do it herself, it can be said that she is tired and happy, and I believe that people with babies are this kind of psychology.
As her agency said, celebrity moms, like ordinary moms, are loving their children with their hearts, and there is a lifetime of unrequited love behind a mother.
Sleep is a luxury for people with babies, so no matter who is taking the children in the family, someone must help them, just a simple sleep "whole sleep", can make them extremely relaxed.
【Today's topic】After everyone has a baby, do you rarely sleep well?